Saturday, December 31, 2005
New Year's Eve
Like most folks I know, I will begin the new year with strong resolve to be more disciplined in several areas of my life. With thoughts about keeping a neater desk and setting aside reading days, I look forward to this new beginning.
Thursday, December 29, 2005
Trains
This year we have been able to carry forth this tradition. The old model train is entertaining our grandchildren. Although they did not travel by train, we are trying to make their Christmas an experience at our home one only grandparents can provide. In these few days, they have our patient attention and an extra dose of love. All of this is part of building what we hope are very special relationships….ones that don’t run off the track. May trains and what they have meant to us always be part of our Christmas.
There are some good directives to grandparenting through several sources. A Google search will reveal several including some good information from AARP. I also have enjoyed a book by Betty Cloyd about spiritual guidance by grandparents. This is available in our church library.
Monday, December 26, 2005
A Year Later
Joy of Christmas
Friday, December 23, 2005
There's a Song in the Air
Wednesday, December 21, 2005
Winter Solstice
Scarlett and Jane conducted A Service of Hope and Healing today for those who find themselves in this dark place. It was so helpful to those who attended. Some of the words of the closing hymn, Hymn of Promise were very comforting and lingering:
"...in the cold and snow of winter there's a spring that waits to be,
...there's a dawn in every darkness, bringing hope to you and me.
...from the past will come the future; what it holds, a mystery, unrevealed until its season, something God alone can see. "
Monday, December 19, 2005
Nativity Sets
Over the years I have collected a variety of other nativity sets and enjoy displaying them during Advent. Most of them have little monetary value, but each one brings me to the manger in a special way. From crystal to tin, they remind me of the variety of people and faith experiences that have made my life richer and fuller. They offer hope that the Light will shine in darkness and the darkness will not overcome it. They proclaim that even now unto us a Child is born.
Saturday, December 17, 2005
Shepherd's Child Party
These pictures tell the story. For five years children from the Myrtle Beach community have known what it means to experience the joy of Christmas through the generosity of folks at First UMC. Organized by Ron and Jackie, this party is one of several efforts of First UMC to reach out to children who need to know the love of God. Church members buy gifts and youth provide filled stockings to children selected by the Myrtle Beach school teachers and counselors. Yesterday, fifty children were treated to hamburgers, fries and lots of fun at Johnny Rockets at Broadway at the Beach. Then they arrived at First UMC to hear the real Christmas story as told by Big Tom and to meet Santa Claus who gave them their gifts. May each child remember that those who know Jesus Christ shared Christmas with them.
Friday, December 16, 2005
Christmas Cards
Wednesday, December 14, 2005
Claiming the Promise
God wants to live in and through us. In Matthew we are told that we are the light of the world. When we claim the name of Jesus in its fullness, we can offer a hope to the seekers we meet that will bring a healing and peace that only God can give. In this time of Advent, we sense that we are the children of the promise and reach out to others in a very intentional way. However, will this commitment to others continue into the new year?
Saturday, December 10, 2005
Chronicles of Narnia
Friday, December 09, 2005
Christmas on Sunday
Although I have been surprised at these Christmas worship decisions, I wonder if we (First UMC) are at a much different place? We have wrestled all year with this matter and have chosen like many churches to have only one service knowing many of our folk will be content to worship on Christmas Eve only. I don't know that there is a "right answer" for this dilemna, but I do know that it does ask some questions:
What is the role of Sunday worship?
When are we to lead and when are we to follow the secular world?
What kind of message does this send to non-churched?
Christmas Bible Quiz
The biblical Christmas story appears only in Matthew 1:18-2:23 and Luke 2:1-21. Do you know the story? Try answering these questions:
1. Mary rode on what animal on the journey to Bethlehem?
2. How soon after they arrived in Bethlehem was born?
3. In what sort of building or cave was Jesus born?
4. What animals were gathered about the manger?
5. How many Wise Men brought their gifts to Jesus?
6. How did the star compare in brightness with other stars?
7. Did Joseph meet the Wise Men?
8. What was the name of the angel who appeared to Joseph in a dream?
9. Was Jesus born in the winter?
10. Why was the child called Jesus?
This quiz was originally in the Virginia United Methodist Advocate.
Scroll down for answers
Answers 1-9 are not found in either Gospel. Read the texts again and see what they do say.
10. He was called Jesus “for he will save his people from their sins” (Matthew 1:21)
In addition to re-reading the Bible, there are several websites and software programs that can help us learn/review Bible facts. This one is helping me remember the details.
Wednesday, December 07, 2005
Gentle Thought
"People are like stained - glass windows. They sparkle and shine when the sun is out, but when the darkness sets in, their true beauty is revealed only if there is a light from within."
Sunday, December 04, 2005
Hurricane Aid
As we continue to read about the restoration efforts in the aftermath of this year's hurricane season it is interesting to have folks in our midst who have experienced this firsthand. Recently, First UMC had mission teams that went to Florida and Mississippi. In this picture, Carolyn and Alicia are removing damaged drywall in preparation for rebuilding. Members of both of these teams want to continue these efforts and plan to return in the near future. This kind of ministry helps define who we are as a church. May we always reach out to the hurts of others whether in Myrtle Beach, the Gulf or any place that hope is needed.
Getting Ready for Christmas
Then, I read the on-line Upper Room Advent Reflections for December 2 in which Elizabeth J. Canham writes:
"Let go!" says God. "That was then; this is now. Walk with me on the sacred ground of the present moment, and you will find me in some unexpected places."With this came a moment of truth for me. When I unfold the tissue paper that protects precious ornaments, memories are also revealed. Wonderful memories of days gone by often give me an attack of melancholy and I yearn for past Christmases. From childhood days to those of Robert and Daniel, thoughts of events, places and people flood around me and I sometimes allow this to sadden me. Why? Perhaps this year’s Christmas will not offer the joy and hope as times past. Perhaps the story is so familiar that I can’t believe there is anything new to be told.
I believe in some ways waiting for Christmas seems always to call us into the soul's dark night and the heart's deep winter. It is a call to let go of what has been so that God can begin to prepare us to live in expectation and anticipation of today and tomorrow. Come, Lord Jesus!
Thursday, December 01, 2005
World AIDS Day
Wednesday, November 30, 2005
Call to Discipleship
The call doesn't always come to us so clearly. At times it is hidden, quiet, appearing only through nudges and circumstances. Either way, though, the call does come today as it did to The Twelve. Today, I talked with one who is sensing a real call, but is uncertain what this means. How exciting to know that we are calling forth disciples. However, what a responsibility to help define that call! One suggestion that I would offer is to read and meditate on a little book called Let Your Life Speak.
The old Quaker adage, "Let your life speak," is used by author Parker J. Palmer as the title of an important book about claiming one's true vocation. Palmer understands that learning to let his life speak means "living the life that wants to live in me." It involves creating the kind of quiet, trusting conditions that allow a soul to speak its truth. It reminds us that we walk a path of hope and understanding of what will be. What great words of encouragement!
Monday, November 28, 2005
Welcome to the Inn
Sunday, November 27, 2005
Advent
Note: Information about subscribing to the seasonal devotion from Upper Room is near the bottom of their page.
Friday, November 25, 2005
Thanksgiving
Equally heartwarming has been the response of Joey and Jackie’s Sunday school class, New Horizons. These caring persons have chosen to be the heart, hands, and feet of Jesus as they sought to help their friends. Today, the Parks sent the class the following message:
Can't wait to see each of you in person but wanted you to know in the meantime how grateful we are to you for your continuous support over the past 2 months. You have been with us 24-7 over 100 miles away. All that you have done has been a witness to hundreds of people-believe me, everyone that I met during this time knows all about NEW HORIZONS!! It is impossible to relay the impact each of you has had on us. We felt you living out the scripture of Jesus sharing how if you cared for the "least of these", you are caring for Christ himself....and you have done it over and over and over. We are humbled to be a part of you. How vividly the parable of the talents has been shown to us over and over-each of you has so many talents and you have used them to care for each and every thing that we have needed..... I hope that you have heard the whispers of "well done, good and faithful servant"-it should be resounding in each of your ears, just as His voice has promised to be with our family.
We love each of you so much and look forward to the day we can be back at church with you.....have a blessed Thanksgiving with your families and thanks for being our FAMILY!!!
We love you!
Jackie, Joey, Lauren and Elliot .
This is ministry as it should be known through Sunday school classes and other small groups. What a blessing we have known this Thanksgiving!
Wednesday, November 23, 2005
UMW Assembly
Monday, November 21, 2005
Dinner guests
I wonder who others would like to invite to their table?
Sunday, November 20, 2005
Christ the King Sunday
Saturday, November 19, 2005
Podcasting
I am not ready(yet) to do podcasting. But, I am ready to explore what this means to the way we do ministry. I am amazed at the number of churches that have technology specialists on their staffs. With effective use of the wide variety of technologies available to us, it is exciting to think of the possibilities in reaching out to those seeking to know and claim a faith in God through Jesus Christ. I have heard it said that "technology is the campfire around which we tell our stories."
Thursday, November 17, 2005
Building Congregational Strength
From the Lewis Center for Church Leadership I have found the following downloadable resources for building congregational strength:
50 Ways to Build Strength Caring for Children
50 Ways to Build Strength in Participation
50 Ways to Build Strength in Welcoming New Members
I think that these would be very valuable for us to study.
Tuesday, November 15, 2005
Too Close to the Edge
Sunday, November 13, 2005
Sign Language
Friday, November 11, 2005
Board of Ministry
Why do I do this? I feel that it is part of my ordination. I feel that those who have been chosen are to pass the mantle to others and this is to been done prayerfully and carefully. It has long been the tradition of the church that this discernment is done through questioning. Listening for God in this process becomes the challenge as human tendancies of legalism and self-righteousness often surface in our decision making. It is joy when we encounter someone that truly seems to be truly answering a call and is able to articulate all the facets of ministry. However, there are those to whom God has placed a special call on their lives, but to be a clergy person is not part of it. Offering guidance and compassion in these situations is to fulfill our obligation as board members. After six years on this board, I believe that I have good insight into this task and am thankful to be able to serve the church in this way. May God always be my guide.
*Local Pastor - A licensed pastor, approved annually by the district committee on ordained ministry who is authorized to perform all the duties of an ordained minister, including the Sacraments, while assigned to a particular charge under the supervision of a district superintendent. A clergy mentor oversees the local pastor's work in the Course of Study for ordained ministry and advises on matters of pastoral responsibility.
Wednesday, November 09, 2005
Thought for the Day
"Most players skate to where the puck is. But I skate to where the puck is going to be."
Monday, November 07, 2005
A Cloud of Witnesses
"For all that has been--Thanks!
For all that will be--Yes!"
Dag Hammarskjold
Sunday, November 06, 2005
A New Thing
Lovett Weems* says that the task of leaders is not to resolve conflict through victory for one side or compromise for the other, but to watch for God's new creation to emerge. Often a third alternative becomes the "new thing" God is doing in our midst.
As church leaders we often strive for the former and not allow the latter to happen. However, when we patiently let the process of hearing God's Spirit speak to us exciting new life seems to follow. Give us the vision to listen as we move through what Ken identifies as transitional time in the life of this congregation.
*Dr. Lovett Weems is past president of St. Paul School of Theology and now serves as the Director of the Lewis Center for Church Leadership and Distinquished Professor at Wesley Seminary. Both are United Methodist seminaries. I have read several of his books and been fortuate to hear him speak several times about church leadership.
Saturday, November 05, 2005
Charge Conference
Our District Superintendent, Rev. Quay Adams, presided at this year’s charge conference. He asked us two questions that should serve as an evaluative guide to our current and future ministry.
“What are you doing to make disciples of Jesus Christ?”
“What are you doing uniquely?”
These are certainly good questions to keep before us as we plan and do in the coming year.
Friday, November 04, 2005
John Wesley
The Character of the Man: John Wesley
John Wesley was one of the finest Christians this side of Saint Paul. He was not a great philosophical theologian; but very few could claim to outrank him in terms of practical theology. We see him fully enmeshed in the culture of 18th century England; yet, his life-style could easily be adapted to any time, any location.
He lived in a time colored by beliefs in supernatural entities, e.g. witches, ghosts and demons; but his rational thought would not allow him to be detracted from a positive spirituality. In an age of predominantly deistic thought, he unwaveringly perceived the active intervention of God in all aspects of human life. He was among the most active evangelists of all ages, yet his focus was on spiritual growth into holiness.
His thirst for knowledge pushed him into being among the most learned men of his age, yet he balanced his vast knowledge with an always present quest for vital piety. He was totally dedicated, for all his life, to the proposition that each Christian should strive for, and could achieve, having the mind of Christ within. Few scholars could claim to have read more works of history, medicine, literature, science, etc. But, no man of his time knew and used the contents of the Holy Bible more than he did.
He was a proper English gentleman, yet he strode out into the middle of pastures, drawing thousands of listeners to hear him preach. Often standing on city streets, he would break into a psalm, singing until a small crowd had gathered. Then he would begin his sermon.
When his people were sick and no doctor was available, he treated their illnesses with practical remedies. When banks would not loan money to the poor, he started a "credit union" to help the poor make their way. When hunger plagued the people, Wesley himself would walk the streets begging for resources to feed the impoverished.
Wesley was amazingly inclusive of people with different religious views; but, was exceedingly intolerant of people who argued about their beliefs. Contentiousness was a certain invitation to leave a society. Wesley's main concern was that his people would be holy people, filled with God's love. In 1746, in a preface to a collection of sermons, he wrote:
For how far is love, even with many wrong opinions, to be preferred before truth lf without love. We may die without the knowledge of many truths and yet be carried into Abraham's bosom. But if we do without love, what will knowledge avail?
John Wesley, WORKS (Bic Ed) 1, 107, 1746.
Conrad Archer
Wednesday, November 02, 2005
Issac J. Bailey
Monday, October 31, 2005
A Place Called Home
Beckley, West Virginia
Sunday, October 30, 2005
Ancient Future Worship
In addition to experiencing some of this type of spirituality in recent years, I have heard and read about what Robert Webber identifies as ancient future worship. Other writers like Leonard Sweet write, "Our faith is ancient. Our faith is future. We're old-fashioned. We're new-fangled. We're orthodox. We're innovators. We're postmodern Christians." All of this seems to be part of what is now being called emerging worship. For some this may seem to be a disconnect with what they know to be worship. Others find it to be quite transparent as they look at what is happening within their worshipping communities. And, there are others who opine that this is the new Reformation. (Got to use the current pop words!)
It is interesting that today is Reformation Sunday. Wonder what Martin Luther would think of this?
Wednesday, October 26, 2005
The Way It Was
Those days probably were wonderful, but I have come to realize we are only hurting our youth when we don’t make the effort to create a program that responds to the needs of this generation.. And, it is the youth and the youth leaders that can often give us the good insights for this. However, we fail to listen and keep on promoting our own thoughts and ideas. Before long youth directors leave in frustration and youth leave the church, because we haven’t provided spiritual fulfillment. All we have provided is lots of activity. Where in the Bible is it written that every youth group must take a ski trip? Our teens do not need more activities for the sake of having something to do. They lead a frantically busy life. But, many want to explore their spiritual life and to have opportunities to practice their faith in relationship with one another. Activities can be a tool for this. However, without a strategy or long term plan that allows teens to know the transforming love of God through Jesus Christ, our youth programs will disappear when “the way it was” becomes the theme for youth ministry. Let’s be open to new possibilities and offer our youth, youth leaders and teachers support in their efforts as they seek to create a youth ministry that nurtures faithful discipleship in today's world.
Monday, October 24, 2005
Festival of Faith
I have especially appreciated Jan’s understanding of Barnabas, Paul’s encourager, and the importance of such persons within the church. Her sermon has led me to remember those persons who have encouraged me to be more than I have known myself to be. What a gift they have given me! I trust it has been important to the church, the body of Christ, as well. From those who invited and encouraged me to serve the church in a variety of ways as a layperson to those who helped me hear the call to ordained ministry, I can name so many significant persons in my life. But, Jan’s message isn’t about what has been, but what must be for the body of Christ to be healthy today. So, how can I be a Barnabas to others?
Wednesday, October 19, 2005
Claiming the Land
When I saw the above picture, my heart melted. Our grandson, William, was visiting my Ohio home. For a few days he had an opportunity to sense his rich heritage of those who love the land. The land is the canvas for telling our family story and each one of us knows what it means when we say, “the farm”. We remember the stories of each generation that has lived on this land and how the land has shaped them. Some members have stayed and others have moved on to other places taking a bit of the land’s story with them.
The Bible is the story of God’s people with God’s land and its promise. The biblical saga of the promised land is echoed in other stories through the ages including the Owens family. Five generations on this piece of land have trusted the earth for fruitful harvest and have known the sense of joy of belonging to an ordered and bountiful creation. Like the wandering Israelites, we have held fast to the promise of the land through times of tribulation. The land is our past, our present, and our future.
Tuesday, October 18, 2005
Read-Aloud
Looking through The Read-Aloud Handbook certainly took me down memory lane. Authors such Margaret Wise Brown, E. B. White, and Dr. Suess were early favorites of my sons. I remember Dan laughing at Amelia Bedelia and Curious George. Rob loved James and the Giant Peach by Roald Dahl and Soup by Robert Newton Peck. Later, The Cay by Theodore Taylor and The Chronicles of Narnia by C.S. Lewis were at the top of the list of must-reads.
During our sons' elementary years, I especially liked the books by Katherine Paterson, Beverly Cleary, Betsy Byars and Judy Blume as their writings had a sensitivity to the issues important for us to discuss. Matters of life and death, friendship, family, justice, and heartache were often explored in a way that invited healthy conversation. It is interesting to note that our sons liked these books, also.
I don’t think I fully understood the importance of this time we spent reading. I was focused on doing the right thing so that they would be good readers and enjoy it. However, the parent-child relationship strengthened, the questions spawned, the imagination inspired, and the creativity nurtured were also important rewards. It certainly is part of sacred memory for me. May my grandchildren and all children share such rich moments.
Sunday, October 16, 2005
Friendship
“Faithful friends are a sturdy shelter: whoever finds one has found a treasure.” Sirach 6:14 (also known as Ecclesiasticus in the Apocrypha of the Old Testament)
For the last few days we have enjoyed the company of long time friends, Bob and Patsy. We have supported one another through the joys and frustrations that are part of daily living for twenty years. So this time to share news, memories, and thoughts about the future is important to maintaining this special relationship. Each couple takes the term “friend” seriously and knows that we have to periodically renew the bonds that hold us together. We talk of our children, grandchildren and elderly parents. We compare books read and activities enjoyed. Both couples have relocated to new communities, established new relationships and are part of new churches. We have so many things to discuss. The men watch football and the women shop. We walk the beach and eat seafood. With the goodbye hugs, we know that our lives are richer because of this friendship. We have been blessed.
Wednesday, October 12, 2005
Tweens
I am so excited that through a generous gift we will be able to offer this program about tweens to both parents and teachers March 3-4. We are striving to make this an offering to the community and to our conference, also. We have been blessed and are called to share that which will make a difference in our children's lives.
Parenting on Point is available in our church library.
Sunday, October 09, 2005
Learning Partners
How wonderful to see our 5th graders and the Faith Connections class bridge the gap!(see previous post-Bridging the Gap) Together they visited the Mouse Pad and learned about Jacob and Esau through a variety of computer experiences. May these new friendships be important to all.
Friday, October 07, 2005
Children's Sabbath
The Child’s Name is “Today”
We are guilty of many errors and faults
but our worst crime is abandoning the children,
neglecting the fountain of life.
many of the things we need can wait.
The child cannot.
Right now is the time bones are being formed.
blood is being made, senses are being developed.
To the child we cannot answer “Tomorrow.”
The child’s name is “Today.”
-Gabriela Mistral
Thursday, October 06, 2005
Golden Calves
Idols are still a hot topic. Our culture is as full of idols as Athens was in Paul’s day. We still have the idols of wealth, power, and success. Others may be objects of worship that are unique to our culture. In fact, this is probably not a good topic to explore during the collegiate football season. We can also acknowledge the idols of addictive substances, images of youth and beauty, status and material possessions. We believe somehow that what we can accumulate makes us who we are.
Moses discovered the uniqueness of God at the burning bush. God cannot be depicted or represented in any manner. Therefore, we constantly need to identify those things that have become idols in our lives and recommit ourselves to returning to the worship of God who said to Moses, "I am who I am." (Exodus 3:14). What is almost as amazing as our repeated idolatry is the fact that God always makes a way for us to return to God and accepts us when we come back.
Tuesday, October 04, 2005
Frederick Buechner
"What is both Good and New about the Good News is that mad insistence that Jesus lives on among us not just as another haunting memory but as the outlandish, holy, and invisible power of God working, not just through the sacraments, but in countless hidden ways to make even slobs like us loving and whole beyond anything we could conceivably pull off by ourselves."
One of these days I am going to read more of Buechner's works in their entirety.
Sunday, October 02, 2005
The Christian Century
This week I discovered "The Burden of the Gospels" by one of my favorite authors, Wendall Berry, on The Chrisitan Century website. This was very timely as I am currently facilitating our Jesus in the Gospels study and am trying to read them with new eyes. I appreciate the challenge that Wendall Berry finds in the Gospels and agree that there is a mystery of life that the Gospels can only partially reveal, but that we "are highly priveleged to live our way into." When we take them seriously we try to answer the question that Berry asks: "How must we live and work so as not to be estranged from God's presence in his work and in all his creatures?" He writes of the complexity of this question and one that calls for many answers. I concur with his final statement - "May heaven guard us from those who think they already have the answers."
Saturday, October 01, 2005
Comfort Food
The mention of these comfort foods evokes wonderful mental pictures. One is of my mother cooking and our family around the table in lively conversation. Another picture would be of me preparing these foods for Ron and two little boys in days past. Both pictures give me a sense of peace and security in a time when our world seems out of kilter. The resulting contentment inspires me not only to return to the kitchen, but also to be in relationship with others so that their memory of well-being will be fed.
Friday, September 30, 2005
The Power of Story
This power of story is everywhere around us. We are shaped by stories…family stories, cultural stories, biblical stories and their confluence. Some we choose and some choose us. They tell us where we come from, who we are. There are stories we must reject and new stories we must create. Our responsibility lies in our power to pass along or to forget the story. The challenge becomes which stories do we choose to keep alive? To whom do we need to tell them?
Wednesday, September 28, 2005
Spilled Apples
I recently enjoyed a conversation with Annaka, our granddaughter, about her apple picking experience. Not only was she excited about telling me that she had picked green apples, but also that the wagon had tipped over and all the apples went rolling down the hill. Of course, this had created a tearful time. However, she also wanted me to know that "the people helped me pick up the apples." It seemed to make quite an impression on her that others came to her rescue...strangers along the way. What a teachable moment she experienced through the thoughtfulness of others! May she remember this as she encounters the stranger in need of help. May this be a lesson for me as "spilled apples" cross my path.
Monday, September 26, 2005
Quote of the Day
"Augustine said that you have to start your relationship with God all over from the beginning, every day. Yesterday's faith does not wait for you like a dog with your slippers and the morning paper in its mouth. You seek it, and in seeking it, you find it."
Anne Lamott
Plan B - Further Thoughts on Faith
Lord, keep me seeking what it means to live in you through Jesus Christ.
Responding to Children
"Whoever welcomes one such child in my name welcomes me, and whoever welcomes me welcomes not me but the one who sent me." Mark 9:37
Sunday, September 25, 2005
Bridging the Gap
We know that we are to pass on the traditions of faith to the coming generation, but sometimes we need to remember that often "a little child shall lead" as we continually seek what it means for us to be God's children. I am excited about the possibilities of this effort to bridge the gap. Love and compassion springs from shared stories. The bridge between children and adults is often found to be in disrepair. This is a chance to rebuild it.
Saturday, September 24, 2005
Mentors
The role of mentor can be a challenging one. Mentors are called both to ask and answer the tough questions. Doubt and struggle are part of this journey. Recognition of the Holy Spirit as the true guide that leads us to understand our place in God’s world must be the foundation of the relationship. May each of those called to mentor our confirmands offer support and guidance that fuels faithful living.
Wednesday, September 21, 2005
DISCIPLE Bible Study,etc.
Tuesday, September 20, 2005
Bible Sunday
As in the tradition of many churches, First UMC gives Bibles to her third grade students. It is a rite of passage, a new phase of the faith journey and a recognition of reading and readiness skills. After receiving their Bibles at the 8:30 am worship service, the children and their parents gathered in the Wesley Fellowship Hall for brunch. Learning was included during this time as parents guided their children in some planned activities that introduced them to their new Bibles.
Moments like Bible presentations have special meaning to me. In a very real way, they help me fulfill my responsibility to pass on the traditions of Christianity to the next generation. My resolve to teach the scriptures is renewed. May each of these children be guided and directed by this congregation in reading and understanding God's Holy Word.
Monday, September 19, 2005
Where Are We Going?
Saturday, September 17, 2005
Another Perspective
Newpapers etc.
Newspapers and news magazines not only report the news, but also reflect the economic, social and cultural context of our lives. They point us to the concerns outside the walls of the church and inform us so that we can faithfully engage in these problems and issues. Although TV and radio accounts of news are compelling and informing, the written word allows us to imagine. And, as Albert Einstein said, “Imagination is more important than knowledge.” Imagination gives us the power to understand how we are to fit into God’s plan.
Just some thoughts as I reach for another cup of coffee and the current issue of Newsweek. Jonathan Alder’s story, “The Other America”, is a powerful reminder of whom I am called to be. I need to read it again.
Wednesday, September 14, 2005
Helping Children with Disaster and Grief
I think that the most important advice found here and in other resources is to listen and to listen with the heart. It is also important not to use trite phrases that perpetuate a limited understanding of God. It's okay to say we don't understand, but we do know that God is with us.
Tuesday, September 13, 2005
Blessed Assurance
Saturday, September 10, 2005
Miss Fults
Wall of Honor
- Special teachers come at any age and stage in our lives.
- Effective teachers are ones who shared their faith in a variety of ways...not just the Sunday morning lesson.
- These teachers affirmed us wherever we were on our faith journey.
- They listened and were obviously dedicated to their call to teach.
I hope others will read these stories and remember those teachers who have helped shape their faith. Perhaps, today each of us will take the time to thank these special persons.
Thursday, September 08, 2005
Soul Feast
Tidbits to ponder:
Why do we fail our spirituality? - Perhaps is is because we are impressed by work, find it to be a lack of priority, have a fear of facing the deep center.
Sabbath time - fallow time for overworked soil of our lives.
Contemplative time and space are vessels of vision.
Do less and be more.
Monday, September 05, 2005
Wendell Berry
On this Labor Day I reflect on this offering of Mr. Berry.
Whatever is foreseen in joy
Must be lived out from day to day.
Vision held open in the dark
By our ten thousand days of work.
Harvest will fill the barn; for that
The hand must ache, the face must sweat.
And yet no leaf or grain is filled
By work of ours; the field is tilled
And left to grace. That we may reap,
Great work is done while we're asleep.
When we work well, a Sabbath mood
Rests on our day, and finds it good.
Sunday, September 04, 2005
First UMC Hurricane Response
Little Child Shall Lead…
The children at First UMC want to help those whose lives have been destroyed by Katrina. With their families they will pack health kits that will be taken to Sager Brown Depot of the United Methodist Committee on Relief (UMCOR) in Baldwin, LA. All are invited to participate in this project.
A Health Kit contains specific items:
- 1 hand towel (15" x 25" up to 17" x 27")
- 1 wash cloth
- 1 comb (large and sturdy, not pocket-sized)
- 1 nail file or fingernail clippers (no emery boards or toenail clippers)
- 1 bath-size bar of soap (3 oz and up)
- 1 toothbrush (single brush only in original wrapper; no child-sized brushes)
- 1 large tube of toothpaste (4.5 or larger, expiration date must be 6 months or longer in advance of the date of shipment to Sager Brown)
- 6 adhesive plastic strip sterile bandages
All items should be placed inside a sealed one-gallon plastic bag. No money, notes, religious or political literature, or other items should be placed in the kits.
PLEASE FOLLOW THESE DIRECTIONS EXACTLY! These kits need to be at the church by Sunday, September 18th.
Youth Car Wash will be held Saturday, September 10 – 9 to 12 noon at McDonalds on Restaurant Row. Proceeds will go to UMCOR for hurricane relief.
Financial Aid offerings are being received for UMCOR. Make checks to First UMC and marked for UMCOR. All funds will go for relief and none will be spent on administration.
Volunteers needed. Early response teams will be trained and deployed in October, November and probably December. The deployment is for two weeks. All volunteers MUST be trained. Training will be held at College Place UMC, Columbia September 17 from 10:00 – 4 :00.
Help us to show the rainbow of your promise, O God, as we face the days ahead. Bless all who serve as the hands of Jesus. Amen.
Saturday, September 03, 2005
Football Season is Here!
Having grown up in Central Ohio, where Ohio State footfall was almost a religion. Woody Hayes was the icon and Saturday at the Horseshoe was nearly a holy time and place. Add the years spent as a student at OSU and Ron was hooked. I accept this fascination and have enjoyed my share of exciting games, also. And, I must say that in his maturity, he now accepts the occasional defeats with grace. I just don’t know when Jim Tressell is going to call Ron for advice for he has all the answers.
Today, I tried once more to put this obsession in perspective especially given the events of the past week. I really couldn’t find any great theological insight. However, I was glad to have the diversion and to see Ron enjoy a winning day. OSU - 34 Miami of Ohio - 14. Go, Bucks!
Friday, September 02, 2005
The Storm After the Storm
Thursday, September 01, 2005
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Worst of Times, Best of Times
It is time for me to become a better student of the world around me. I need to read and listen to the voices that can help me more fully understand our culture. Perhaps it is time that I claimed my faith in a new and different way? Perhaps, I need to challenge others to journey with me?
Tuesday, August 30, 2005
Katrina
Through the centuries, the Psalms have offered insight and comfort. Perhaps these are the only words that we have today.
God is our refuge and strength, a very present help in trouble. Therefore we will not fear, though the earth should change, thought the mountains shake in the heart of the sea; though its waters roar and foam, though the mountains tremble with its tumult. Psalm 46:1-3
Save me, O God, for the waters have come up to my neck. I sink in deep mire, where there is no foothold; I have come into deep waters, and the flood sweeps over me. Psalms: 69: 1,2
Hear my prayer, O Lord; let my cry come to you. Do not hide your face from me in the day of my distress. Incline your ear to me; answer me speedily in the day when I call. Psalm 102:1,2
Bless the Lord, O my soul, and all that is within me, bless his holy name. Psalm 103:1
Visit umc.org for the latest information about the United Methodist Church's response to this disaster.
Sunday, August 28, 2005
Jack's Baptism
Friday, August 26, 2005
Interpreter Magazine
By the way, the author of the World Communion worship resource, Ciona Rouse, is from South Carolina. She lived in this area when her father, Louonne Rouse, was pastor at Joseph B. Bethea UMC.
Thursday, August 25, 2005
As the School Year Begins
God, as a new school year begins, help me to remember the needs and prayers of children, parents, and teachers. The busyness is great and the challenges seem so many.
I pray for a safe and healthy environment that will spark curiousity and the love of learning. Be with the teachers who devote themselves to educating our children. May they always exhibit dedication, imagination and concern. I especially pray for.....
I pray for parents who have been given the gift of children. May they uphold the trust, hope and dreams of these children through their love and care. Direct them in all that they say and do. I especially pray for.....
I pray that all children become that which You mean them to be. May each day be filled with the joy of learning. Help me always to remember those children who have no one to pray for them or protect and guide them. I especially pray for....
I pray for church and community leaders that they demonstrate an investment and priority in our children. I especially pray for....
In your tender mercy, O God, encourage and strengthen me in faithful living. Amen.
Wednesday, August 24, 2005
American Spirituality
Last Sunday evening at our Council on Ministries planning session we talked about the changing face of Myrtle Beach. In many ways, some would say the future is here. We just haven't opened our eyes and minds to it. I would say spirituality is just one more facet of the continuing discussion of how we are to be church.
Tuesday, August 23, 2005
Celebrate Sunday School
Many of us have wonderful stories of favorite Sunday school teachers and small group leaders. These persons are part of the cloud of witnesses that have shaped the understanding of our faith. I would love to have you share these stories with me not only here, but also for Christian Education Sunday on September 11. It would be great to have bulletin boards throughout our buildings filled with these stories. Just write a brief paragraph naming the person and why this person has been important to you. This person may be from days gone or other churches. Perhaps it is a current teacher. Attach a picture, if possible. Thank God for these special persons in our lives.
Saturday, August 20, 2005
Seasons
1The heavens are telling the glory of God; and the firmament proclaims hisThe stillness of winter, the awakening of spring, the burgeoning of summer, and the rich fulfillment of autumn evoke memories that become a fertile ground for reflection and meditation. My personal thoughts of August include: vacations through the years, family weddings and anniversaries, luscious tomatoes and bountiful gardens, fields of corn and soybeans, chirping crickets and twinkling lightning bugs of the evenings, streaks of lightning and rumbling thunder, and the dog day heat that seeps into our very being.
handiwork.
2 Day to day pours forth speech, and night to night declares
knowledge.
3 There is no speech, nor are there words; their voice is not
heard;
4 yet their voice goes out through all the earth, and their words to
the end of the world.
The personal focus of this month is usually today, my birthday. This year I have been attacked by a large case of melancholy for it is my 60th birthday. It seems like a milestone that I am not ready to observe. It only seems like yesterday that my mother was baking my chocolate cake. Now I feel that I am entering a new season of my life. I am not sure that this is as exciting as it used to be. May I have "miles to go before I sleep." God of grace and God of glory, be my guide.
Wednesday, August 17, 2005
A Dot.Com World
Yet, it is interesting to note that several persons have indicated this blog has touched them and others have noted that they feel that they know me better. By connecting the media of the present with the sacred stories of the past certainly allows us to build a community of disciples of Jesus in a new way. The church has always used the culture as a guide and a format for presenting the gospel. Today, it appears that we need to present and find God in a dot.com world.
Monday, August 15, 2005
The Journey
In 1972, we left Ohio and our families and so very much that was familiar. Twenty-five years ago this summer we moved to South Carolina from Delaware. We left a home that we had built, dear friends, a church family we loved and a life that we enjoyed. Who could have imagined what was before us? The road has not always been marked clearly and it certainly has had some unexpected twists and turns. But, as we roamed from Powdersville to Lexington to Myrtle Beach, we discovered that we need not dwell in the past, but to look forward and anticipate what was ahead. New homes, new friends, new jobs, new churches, new communities are places and times of new growth. Fond memories of the past have taught us how to claim whatever new call that might be on our lives. So, I celebrate this journey and give thanks to God for being my guide.
Sunday, August 14, 2005
Rest and Renewal
Personal rest came in walking around the lake and rocking on Shelby and Bob’s front porch. What a great reminder of God’s creative goodness! Overlooking a yard full of beautiful flowers, the view of the lake is spectacular. The eyes immediately focus on the large cross on the hill across the lake and thanksgiving for God’s abiding love through Jesus Christ is heartfelt.
Saturday, August 13, 2005
DISCIPLE Celebration
One of the stories being told is how DISCIPLE has reached over 8000 persons in prison and has opened the door to spiritual freedom for them. I think that prison ministry could be used as a metaphor. It can applied to many in our midst who are held captive to a restrictive faith by lack of mature understanding of what it means to live in God as known through the Word. The mission is before us. Will we accept the challenge to make this liberating experience an important part of who we are at First UMC?
Thursday, August 11, 2005
The Family Story
The most important thing to remember in the process of connecting the generations is to relate our story to "The Story," God's story. Just as God was with God's people in the Bible, God has accompanied our family on life's journey in the good times and the bad. In doing so we preserve the family history and nurture our grandchildren into an appreciation of God's steadfast love.
Grandparenting resources:
Parents and Grandparents as Spiritual Guides by Betty Shannon Cloyd. Published by Upper Room Books.
www.grandparenting.org
www.cyberparent.com/gran
A Cup of Coffee
No wonder one of my favorite phrases is “It’s percolating” when talking about an upcoming presentation or sermon. I savor these moments. I enjoy putting the right blend of thoughts, ideas, and information together. With the addition of fresh eyes and ears, new insights slowly begin to happen. Drinking from the cup of inspiration, I meditate on what this really means and to give thanks for what I have been given… even when it’s decaffeinated.
Take time to smell the coffee. Carpe cappuccino!
Tuesday, August 09, 2005
Lectio Divina
Begin by quieting yourself.
Lectio-Slowly read selected passage of scripture.
Meditatio-Read it again, listening for a word or phrase that speaks to you. Meditate on that word or phrase, reflecting on what God may be saying to you through it.
Oratio-Offer your reflections to God in prayer. Pour out to God an honest expression of whatever you feel.
Contemplatio-Rest in God’s presence, making yourself available for whatever God wants or speaks.
Continue to reflect on the meaning of the word or phrase as you return to your everyday activities.
I have found that this practice can help reveal the Word in new and insightful ways, especially during times of stress and confusion. It has helped give me direction to sermon writing and to decision making in my life. I am attempting to reclaim this as a regular discipline. Perhaps you would like to join me in holy reading?
Monday, August 08, 2005
P.S. - Dancing with God
However, I do wonder how we can support one another in our individual faith journeys until we gather again. Our United Methodist Women offer an opportunity for ministry that is unique to women. Together, we reach out to women and children near and far as they seek to be whole persons in God. Through our Women's Intercessory Prayer group we enter into community of prayer for those who need to know God in a special way. Other women will hold one another close and accountable through special relationships built on the love of God through Jesus Christ. What else do we need to be doing? How can we serve God and one another more effectively?
Sunday, August 07, 2005
A Grand Week
Annaka and her father, Robert, were with us at the beginning of last week. Baby Jack and Mama Kristen stayed home and missed a whole lot of fun. We so enjoyed seeing Annaka learn to love the Sunset Beach experience as her father has through the years. How interesting to see the past connected to the present and future family fun.
Later in the week, William and his parents, Shannon and Dan, came to join in the beach fun. It just seems like yesterday that I was carefully watching his father play in the surf and sand.
Truly, grandchildren are precious gifts. Gifts to enjoy, but also to give special care. Grandparenting is still a new role for me and I am living into it. Knowing how much my grandparents meant to me, I want to create a special relationship with each child. If nothing else, I trust that I can be a spiritual guide for them as they grow into an understanding of who God is in their lives.
Saturday, August 06, 2005
ASAP
Friday, August 05, 2005
Methodists in Mission
Tuesday, August 02, 2005
Real Family Ministry
However, as the day came to a close with prayers of thanksgiving, I realized Mary and I have been in ministry together for a long time. Shaped by family and friends in the rich tradition of Methodism and each claiming our faith again and again, we share a vision of the Kingdom of God. We both have reached out to children and introduced them to a life in Jesus Christ. We have nurtured youth in the faith in a variety of ways and walked with adults as they discovered new ways to know God. We have been in mission ministry near and far. We have knitted our prayer shawls, prepared meals and created worship experiences for others. We didn't have to be in the same place to be in ministry together, we just had to know the same God. May you be blessed in a similar way.
Sunday, July 31, 2005
Quilt Making
Saturday, July 30, 2005
Renewed and Ready
Come! Dance with joy all across God's land.
We will rejoice and sing.
We are God's children, let us celebrate!
We are God's children, held close in God's hand.
As God's children we reach out together
to voice - to dream - to LIVE God's vision for the world.
written by Rev. Debi Tyree for FOCUS 'o5
Thursday, July 28, 2005
Focus '05 - Part 3
However, the challenge to be an advocate for all God's children has been ever before us. To be the voice for those without voice, to share the dream, to build the beloved community, as expressed in The Initiative on Children and Poverty by the Council of Bishops was encouraged. The insight of outstanding speakers helped us to understand that we must truly embrace the words of Micah 6:8 - "to do justice, to love kindess, and to walk humbly with your God." We must be advocates for all children and sometime this means being in uncomfortable and unpopular places in our lives.
Wednesday, July 27, 2005
Focus '05 - Part 2
Although children's ministry involves many things, much of it still revolves around the Sunday school experience. There are a variety of teaching/learning styles, but it seems that the main ingredient is still the relational aspect. This became apparent as we talked about Sunday school teachers in our past and how important it is to the life of the church to remember them.
As we celebrate Christian Education on Sunday, September 11, wouldn't it be wonderful to be surrounded by the faces and stories of those who have been significant to our faith journeys? Please submit a picture of a Sunday School teacher, past or present, who has touched your life. This person could have been at another church. Include a brief explanation(four or five sentences) about why this teacher is special. Be sure to include your name, the teacher's name,church name and address. Please give these to me by September 4.