Doug Marlette

Yesterday, I was saddened to learn of the death of Doug Marlette. Today, I am beginning to read and hear accounts of his life and accomplishments. Among other things, I didn't realize that he and Pat Conroy were good friends and that he had written a second novel. (I really enjoyed his first one, The Bridge.) The Washington Post has an interesting story and the Charlotte Observer has a wonderful collection of past politcal cartoons. I will leave the eloquent words of remembrance to the professionals, but I know that my heart felt a bit heavy this morning when I opened the newspaper. Even if the newspapers continue to run Kudzu for awhile, it just won't be the same. Of course, Marlette's important contribution to the world of political cartoons has been lost. I trust that those near and dear to him know that the circle of grief is quite large and will be upheld by it.

7-7-07

Today’s news is the date…7-7-07. This numerical coincidence is being noted by those who are looking for a lucky day to be married and I am sure that gamblers are lining up to make bets on about anything. Toby Ward is 77 today. We recall that there are seven continents, Seven Wonders of the World and Stephen Covey’s Seven Habits… Wikepedia has a great list of the use of 7.

In Christianity, seven is the number of perfection. God rested on the seventh day, Paul lists seven gifts of the Spirit and Jesus spoke seven words from the cross. The number seven is especially prominent in the apocalyptic Book of Revelation, in which there are seven seals, seven churches and many other things numbering seven. Especially important to remember is that Jesus told Peter to forgive seventy times seven.

Heeding the message of Live Earth may be one of the better ways to observe today. It certainly would be easy to identify seven ways to reduce our personal carbon imprint.

P.S. Imagine my surprise tonight when I heard Al Gore encourage all to make a 7-point pledge to environmental responsibility during the Live Earth concert.

The Power of Play

I have been reading The Power of Play by David Elkind and will be adding this to our church library. This well-known child psychologist maintains that it is play that prepares kids for learning. However, with the emphasis of educational products and extracurricular activities, our children have lost much of the unstructured time and self-initiated games that were known to preceding generations. In fact, Elkind says that “over the past two decades, children have lost twelve hours of free time a week, including eight hours of unstructured play and outdoor activities.” He adds good information to a conversation that pediatricians, educators and grandparents are already having about this topic. Parents and teachers of pre-school children should be encouraged to read this book as he offers insight into how children learn through spontaneous, imaginative play. My sense is that families are going to have to slow down and make some changes in their life style if their children are to have this experience.

I believe that this kind of imaginative play can be supportive of spiritual development, also. "Godly play" - Jerome Berryman’s approach to letting children experience the stories of faith - is a good example of this and one that we should use more.

Watching young children play can be fascinating and knowing that they are learning what they need to know by doing so is reassuring. Elkind says that “it is only when we integrate play, love, and work that we, as children and adults, can live happy, healthy and productive lives.”

Creative Dislocation

In Theolog, a blog by Christian Century, Richard Kauffman writes of “creative dislocation”, a term that now has been perking in my mind for the last few days. What a good understanding of something many of us have or could experience. It seems to give greater validity to this experience by naming it and to encourage participation in it. Kauffman writes:

Christians often practice a little-known spiritual discipline called “creative dislocation” without realizing it: we engage in creative dislocation by going on a spiritual retreat or on a mission trip into a foreign environment—the inner city or a third-world country—where the usual markers of our lives are taken from us, and we’re subject to someone else’s way of doing things. When we’re dislocated, we begin seeing in fresh ways. We look for the familiar in the unfamiliar, and we see what is familiar to us in new ways. If we’re paying attention, we see the presence of God in new ways. (more…)

Two Years Ago

Two years ago this week, I decided that it might be interesting to do a blog about those things that I encounter day by day. In some ways, it has become a spiritual journal and certainly an exercise of contemplation and communication. Knowing that this is being read by others has meant that some things have been left unsaid. Other times, I have chosen to risk letting the reader know that my thoughts are not always Myrtle Beach mainstream. But, most importantly it has forced me to reflect on a number of topics and to seek enlightenment about many of them. With each blog post, I am able to give my daily experiences a second look and in some way or another wonder if or how they are part of my faith journey.

I have discovered that writing also involves listening to what is going on around me and that by doing so I am drawn closer to God, neighbor and self. (Mark 12:29-34). Knowing that my life is defined by what I pay attention to on my journey, I realize that I am growing in my faith. This deeper awareness has allowed me to find grace and direction as I look for the signs along the way.

Of course, I am grateful to those who have participated in this experiment by reading and responding to my blog. Thank you for your insight and thoughts. Even though I have 401 posts, I think there will be new thoughts to be shared in the days to come.

VBS Time

The VBS volunteers met tonight to prepare for this special summer happening at First Church. What a wonderful creative, dedicated group! Alex and Janna's organizational skills are making this all come together with purpose and order. Although I am quite pleased with our VBS, I often wonder if something is missing. I think that Diane Butler Bass's blog titled "The Sock Puppet Church" might have given me a hint. Maybe we should re-think the VBS in a can approach that we have all bought into during the last decade or so. Seems like this is a topic that we should include in our evaluation. In the meantime, our folks are sharing their talents and lots of time in preparation for Cokesbury's "Lift Off" I look forward to a great week!

Bottled Water

Issues that challenge our society often create personal conflict in interesting ways. The case in point for me involves drinking water. In recent years I have put aside my Diet Cokes in favor of water. For good health I have also tried to increase my water intake and this means that I buy lots of water in plastic bottles. ( I just can’t enjoy water from a drinking fountain as I am convinced too many germs live there.) However, Ron and our son, Robert, understand the environmental issues that surround this popular habit and join a growing movement to curb this practice. I am slowly beginning to realize that I need to change my ways. I will now try to recycle my bottles with tap water. I think a good Thermos bottle may be in my future.

Check out Ron and Robert’s blog posts.

Internet and the Church

I am fascinated with the possibilities of the Internet, especially as it relates to the church. Many persons use Web pages, blogs and podcasts as primary sources of information and often without discernment of credibility. I know because we hear them quoted in Bible studies and Sunday school classes. Therefore, a recent United Methodist News Service commentary by Matt Carlisle caught my eye when I read:

Today, the Internet is impacting religion as Johannes Gutenberg did with his invention of movable type printing and the publication of the Gutenberg Bible in the 15th century.

There are more than 211 million Internet users in the United States, or 69.9 percent of the population. (InternetWorldStats.com, March 07)

This and other statistics that Carlisle includes in his commentary seem to uphold my argument that we need to pay more attention to our church Website and use e-mail, text messaging etc. for more effective communication. The time has come to get serious about this.

The ABC Prayer

Sometimes the well is dry when I go to prayer and that is when I revert to the ABC prayer. I think I first learned to do this as a teenager at church camp. It is amazing how the thoughts and words begin to flow when triggered by focusing on the use of the alphabet. The gift of this happens when it is not used frequently lest one uses the same words. I will admit that “x” is something like (e)xtra and “z” is zeal or zealous.

Awesome God, be with me and call me this day to faithful living. Even when I know you, I confess that I have fears of that which is before me. God, have mercy upon me. I pray that I may be an instrument of justice and peace and may be known as your servant. Lead me and let nothing distract me from opening my mind to you. Prepare me and quicken my heart to faithful living. Help me to reach out to those who are seeking you. Thank you (u) for the many blessings in my life. Let me share your vast love with patience and wisdom. With (e)xcitement let me care for your creation and live into today with zeal. Amen.

A Pious Nation?

Tom Krattenmaker says in a recent USA Today editorial -

"Though the United States is considered a deeply religious country, a glance at America today reveals a society divided by wealth and poverty, tainted by violence and often oblivious to the common good. A country of believers? Perhaps. But saying is one thing, doing quite another. "

I find a lot of truth within this editorial, but encourage others to read and reflect on it.

The Green Grass of Summer

What a joy to see William and Ethan enjoy rolling in the green grass! It certainly brings back a lot of wonderful memories of my childhood. My soul is lifted and I discover that as in most of us there is still some childhood left.

Home Run!

Ron and I went to see our church softball team play the other night. Sorry to report that there were few other fans there to see them win their game. However, as always the Booths were there to cheer for the team. It was great seeing the guys having fun and I especially enjoyed that our team was intergenerational. It obviously brings together some folks that would probably never know one another otherwise. Our Duke intern, Nathan, is also playing with our team. What a great way for him to connect with these folks! A big thank you to Jim Magann for organizing this activity each year.

The Middle Doors

According to Robert Schnase, Bishop of the Missouri Conference of The United Methodist Church, names five fundamental practices critical to congregations that fulfill their mission to make disciples of Jesus Christ for the transformation of the world. In his book, Five Practices of Fruitful Congregations, he entitles them as radical hospitality, passionate worship, intentional faith development, risk-taking mission and service, and extravagant generosity. Each one of these generates thought and reflection. However, it is his comments about “The Middle Doors” that especially interest me.

“The pastor and staff soon realized that “the front door” was working well as people felt invited and welcomed. But they were slipping out “the back door” because they were discovering too many of “the middle doors” were closed tight.” p. 66-67

Schnase goes on to say that after being warmly welcomed, new members found the classes, organizations, choirs, studies and groups within the church to be cliquish and uninterested in welcoming new members. They didn’t feel needed. New members need to find meaningful connections in small groups beyond the worship experience.

Are our church’s “middle doors” open?

Nature Deficit Disorder

This morning I opened my e-mail to find this message from my sister. With her permission, I share it.

This morning I began a new book. I have been looking forward to reading Barbara Kingsolver's new book Animal, Vegetable and Miracle since first knowing of its existence. So this morning I treated myself to opening the front cover and commencing to read. Though I have only read a very small portion, I recommend this to you. While at Janet's the other evening I voiced a thought concerning how we could try to connect our children to the earth through a summer gardening project (possibly as a different way to teach love of earth and creation). Barbara's latest book confirms this as something we should be doing. Everywhere I turn I am reminded that this is a focus we are missing. I read my brother-in-law's "Earth Focus", I hear my nephew's thoughts concerning grazing on the family farm, I have seen the pictures of young children working a community garden, I see the gas prices skyrocketing, I see the bulldozers indiscriminately reshaping the land, I see fertile farmland being subdivided or covered with black top, etc. What I don't see is the church taking a very proactive stance to protect and guard God's beautiful earth and teaching our children stewardship of God's earth Recently I have really been hit over the head and am feeling nudged and/or clobbered with this as a focus for some exciting teaching opportunities. I am not sure of the the hows and the wheres etc. but I am sure this is something we should be pursuing. The night the children came to my home for our end of the year party, I was delighted to see their utter enjoyment of having an open green space in which to run and frolic. I fear their experiences with the joys of nature are too few. Enough preaching. Please ponder. Mary

I also recommend Last Child in the Woods-Saving Our Children from Nature Deficit Disorder by Richard Louv. This is in our church library.

Garrison Keillor

My resident environmentalist shares a lot of interesting information and conventional wisdom with me. Today's offering comes from Garrison Keillor.

"You look at the Amish and you see the past, but you might also be looking at the future. Our great-grandchildren, faced with facts their ancestors were able to ignore, might have to do without the internal-combustion engine and figure out how to live the subsistence life. Maybe someone will invent a car that runs on hydrogen or horse manure, or maybe people will travel on beams of light like in old radio serials, but the realist in you thinks otherwise."

The Last Day

Annual Conference concluded yesterday in a flurry of activity. Election of delegates to General and Jurisdictional Conferences consumed much of our time. Ken will be going to the Jurisdictional Conference in 2008 at Lake Junaluska. [In the United States, the UMC is divided into five areas or jurisdictions: - Northeastern, Southeastern, North Central, South Central and Western. These provide some program and leadership training events for constituent Conferences. Every four years the jurisdictional conferences meet to elect new bishops and select members of general boards and agencies.]

The budget for 2008 totaling $16,995,194 was adopted. This is a 2.8% increase over the previous year. This includes our World Service apportionment and other designated funds. Conference reports including the one from The Council on Finance and Administration are on-line.

As always, the fixing of appointments is the last act of Annual Conference and this is done in the context of worship. Ken, Scarlett and I will be at First UMC for the coming year. The Bishop’s sermon text was John 13 (foot washing passage). She very effectively reminded us of our call to servanthood in this sending forth service. In fact, I have ordered a tape of this sermon and will be glad to share it.

The 2008 South Carolina Annual Conference will meet in Florence on June 1-4.

Resolutions and Other Matters

As often happens at Annual Conference, a simple matter becomes cumbersome and time consuming. As I had predicted, there were questions and concerns about The Methodist Oaks now being marketed as The Oaks, a United Methodist Community. The Executive Director and Trustee Chair made a compelling case for the change. In reality this is a decision that the Annual Conference can only question, but cannot reverse. Once again we forgot the role of our Board of Trustees of our various institutions.

A resolution to require churches to have Safe Sanctuary Policies was passed after listening to those who don’t fully grasp the necessity for this. It is hard for me to understand that anyone would question the need for this in their churches.

The resolution about asking our State Legislature to remove the Confederate Flag from the State House grounds generated passionate debate, but did pass. I am glad that a resolution to support the UMC Global Aids Fund passed without debate.

It is interesting to note that there were no resolutions about environmental matters. Our Environmental Stewardship Committee at First UMC needs to consider submitting one or more resolutions another year to increase awareness and action in our churches concerning these issues.

Worship, Bible study, election of General Conference delegates and other agenda items were also part of our day. Being a lay or clergy member of Annual Conference requires lots of patience and the ability to endure fanny fatigue. One more day….

A Great Day of Service

Wearing yellow t-shirts, United Methodists were a visible presence across the City of Florence today (Tuesday). This afternoon members of the Annual Conference could be found participating in a variety of service projects. From yard clean-up and home repair to visitation and letter writing, we became the hands and feet of the Gospel. I was part of a group that visited an adult day care center and am glad that we spent this time reaching out to others. May we do this each day wherever are.

As usual, Annual Conference is a special time for being with those who have been important parts of our lives through the years. I have especially enjoyed seeing friends from Columbia and Lexington and to hear what is happening in their congregations and personal lives. It is a joy to see some of the new members finding their identity within our conference and beginning to shape who we are.

I was pleased that Russell Davis was recognized for his ten years of ministry with our camps and retreats. He has assumed a camping ministry position in North Georgia. I will miss working with him. As a strong advocate of Asbury Hills, I hope that the Conference heard his gentle words about the opportunity we have been given to touch lives with Jesus through our camping ministries and beautiful properties. We need to take care of these gifts.

Annual Conferenc 2007

With the theme- “To Serve the Present Age”- the 2007 South Carolina Annual Conference is meeting in Florence this week. Bishop Taylor continues to lead us into new and different ways of doing things beginning with the site of this event. We are at the Florence Civic Center instead of Wofford or Claflin campus. All seems to be going well with this location to this point. Of course, some of us love the idea that it is only an hour and a half from home.

Another break with tradition was that the ordination service was on Sunday evening. This includes the licensing of local pastors, commissioning of probationary elders and deacons, and the ordinations of full elders and full deacons. I was especially pleased to see my friend, George, licensed as a local pastor. He will serve Poplar UMC. It is hard to believe that I was ordained a deacon ten years ago.

Today we began electing delegates to 2008 General Conference. The lay members have already elected their first delegate, Carolyn Briscoe. As this process unfolds, it is interesting to see which names come to the forefront. Right now most leaders among the clergy are middle-aged white male elders. I hope we represent ourselves in a more inclusive way.

It is almost impossible to reflect on tonight’s worship with an open mind as First UMC was responsible for it. Ken preached a dynamic sermon and Tim assembled an amazing choir from the area and led them in music that celebrated the 300th anniversary of Charles Wesley’s birth. Both Scarlett and I were liturgists. We believe that we offered a meaningful worship experience and it certainly warmed our hearts. It will be an important part of our personal memories for a long time. Thank you, Bishop, for inviting us.

Rain, Rain!

As Longfellow wrote, “Into each life some rain must fall.” Today, I understand this reality. The earth is parched and the plants are suffering. The dark skies (and the Weather Channel) predict relief. Although I could use this as a metaphor upon which to reflect, sometimes what is literal is more important. Let the rains fall.

This connection and concern for the earth probably had its beginning in seeing my father, a farmer, watch the skies for much needed rain. In recent years, the writings of Wendell Berry have kept me sensitive to stewardship of the Earth and all of God’s creation. Currently, I am reading his book of essays, What Are People For? I think Berry is a prophetic voice and his works need to be read by more people. This rainy day would be a good time to start.

God's Signs

I recently read a blog about church signs that seems like a good thing to share on Friday. The slide show with commentary is worth viewing. They truly are signs of the time and could be a good catalyst for some interesting discussion.

The Joy of Knitting

Along with many other women (and a few men), I have rediscovered the joy of knitting. Primarily, I knit prayer shawls that are given to those who need to be reminded of God’s abiding presence. Other persons I know knit beautiful scarves and assorted items for family and friends. Many do some form of charity knitting – chemo caps, infant caps, blanket squares, scarves and lap robes. It is interesting that a many of the knitted items become gifts of love to others. That topic in itself would be interesting to explore. All of this seems to have generated novels with characters that knit. Debbie Macomber’s A Good Yarn is one that I just read and enjoyed. The Friday Night Knitting Club by Kate Jacobs is in the stack of books to be read by my bed. There are also devotional books that focus on knitting. Websites abound that share patterns, sell yarn and needles and give instructions and tips. Yarn shops and knitting groups are popular places to create important friendships.

Somewhere along the way I found this quote by an unknown author that expresses my interest in knitting:

“The act of knitting is a meditation, for the work of the hands compels the mind to rest, and gives free rein to movements of the soul."

Memorial Day 2007

In the quietness of this morning, I remember Memorial Days of the past as noted in last year's blog. I was touched by the above editoral cartoon in the Sun-News and the early morning TV news stories about those who have given their lives for this country. Today's number of US soldier's lives lost in Iraq War is 3455. Lots to think about...

Ending war is not just laying down arms, but addressing the issues that incite conflict and war. Perhaps this is the year that we need to observe Peace with Justice Sunday (June 3, 2007) and be called to action by it.

Church Office

The inner workings of the church are usually a revelation to those who join a church staff including ours. In many ways, our church office is like most other offices. Personnel, policy and procedure matters shape what gets accomplished. Human short-comings sometime thwart our efforts and frustration creates tensions that have to be addressed. Newcomers can be disappointed in finding less than an idyllic setting. So, as we add new staff members it is important to lead them through an understanding of this reality without discouraging them. It becomes an opportunity for the rest of us to re-evaluate our way of being a church staff and it can be a growing point for us. So it has been with the addition of Amy and Ron. They are a blessing to us.

As our Duke intern, Nathan, joins us, we face similar concerns. We need to give him a realistic view of ministry from the inside, but not cause him to question his call to ministry. Our hope is that he will gain a healthy understanding of the complexities of parish ministry and be better prepared to address them in the years ahead. During his time with us, he can help us understand what it means to be in ministry in Myrtle Beach today. Nathan can be very important to how the staff works together to share God's love.

How a pilgrim meets and greets those along the way helps define the journey. "What does the Lord require of you but to do justice, and to love kindness, and to walk humbly with your God?"
Micah 6:8.

Kudzu

I must confess that my day goes better if I read the newspaper comics in the morning. They seem to put a lot of things in proper perspective. Some are poignant and others funny, but most have a message worth noting. I will admit that a few of the newer ones challenge me. However, as a NPR junkie, I did enjoy Kudzu this morning and want to share it.

Welcome, Nathan

Our Duke Divinity summer intern arrived this past weekend. Nathan has just completed his first year of seminary and is seeking to further explore his call to parish ministry through this ten-week field experience. I think it is quite appropriate that he begins and ends his time with us in worship. He has spent the last two days meeting and greeting church members and staff and trying to learn a bit about First UMC and Myrtle Beach. I am sure it is all a bit overwhelming, but his winning smile is still in place and he is making plans to teach, preach, visit and to be a part of other assorted activities.

I am so pleased how this congregation takes seriously its role as a teaching church and willingly shares in this experience. By doing so, we certainly are helping to shape the future not only for Nathan, but for the church as well. This is an awesome task and I am glad to be involved with the passing of the mantle. I am curious what congregants think it important for him to know. For me, I plan to help him understand the importance of the teaching role of a pastor and being a servant.

Books for the Road

During my recent road trips, I have listened to two books that have recalled memories of people, places and events from my past. Each has given me an insight into my personal quirks and idiosyncrasies in an enjoyable sort of way and I recommend these books to others.

The Life and Times of the Thunderbolt Kid: A Memoir by Bill Bryson is a delicious account of growing up during the 1950s in Des Moines, Iowa. Not only could I readily visualize his story, but I could also see the department stores, restaurants, schools and homes of my childhood. With humor, Bryson told his story of family and friends and how they shaped his life during this time. I enjoyed similar reflection of my own story as he told his and realized how this can be both fun and therapeutic.

Recipes From My Life by Pat Conroy combines two mainstays of Southern living – cooking and storytelling. As Conroy recounts his adventures of cooking, he tells much of his life’s journey. With detailed descriptions of classic Southern dishes like shrimp and grits and macaroni and cheese to fine European cuisine, he tantalizes the taste buds and taunts the culinary skills of this listener. Interwoven are the stories of his dysfunctional childhood and interesting adult life. In listening to his story, I remember my mother teaching me to cook, the wonderful breads and desserts made by my grandmother, the special family gatherings and favorite foods from my childhood. Add to this the requests from Robert for molasses cookies and Dan for beef stew, I realize the sacredness of food prepared carefully and shared with others.

Important Reminder

From a Jim Wallis blog -

Throughout American history, church leaders have spoken out on the vital moral issues of the day - whether it be slavery, civil rights, or in defense of the family and the dignity of human life. One of the enduring lessons the Reverend Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr. taught is the power a religious community can have in society. Reverend King said, "The church must be reminded that it is not the master or the servant of the state, but rather the conscience of the state. It must be the guide and the critic of the state. If the church does not recapture its prophetic zeal, it will become an irrelevant social club without moral or spiritual authority."

Bikers etc.

I seem to be having difficulty writing a blog this week and I am not sure why. Perhaps it is the roar of bikers outside my window or maybe it is the need to multi-task. (I know, Ron, this is more appropriately known as rapid refocus.) However, yesterday I was at a Spartanburg Methodist College Board of Trustee’s meeting and the driving time gave me plenty of time to think. Included in my thoughts were the following:

-No matter how much we talk about the carbon imprint we are leaving on the Earth, most of us like the independence of driving ourselves and traveling alone. The four SMC trustees from this area drove separately to Spartanburg. Although we are advocates of being environmentally friendly, many of us haven’t adopted such practices. Lord, have mercy upon us.

-I am a firm believer in maintaining Sunday school during the summer and many within our congregation agree. If we don’t, the discipline of learning is often lost and class members become strangers. However, providing this ministry effectively is the challenge. The children need familiar faces and routine. Yet, their teachers need a respite. Youth that don’t want to be part of the summer visitation/music activity do not have an alternative. Adults are caught up in the Myrtle Beach summer scene and elect to do other things on Sunday morning. What are our options as we prepare for summer Sunday school? Lord, have mercy upon us.

-Nathan, our summer intern, is arriving this weekend. For this to be a good teaching/learning experience for all, we need to define more clearly both sides of this relationship. Our lay committee will meet on Sunday evening with Nathan and work on this. In our effort to teach our interns, we sometimes fail to learn from them. They can provide an understanding of the church and pastoral leadership into the future. Are we listening? Lord, have mercy upon us.

-Listening to multiple news accounts of world events can be depressing. Why are Christians so reluctant to be voices for peace and justice? Lord, have mercy upon us.

A Trip to Durham

I spent the last couple of days at Duke Divinity School in preparation for our field education student, Nathan Kilbourne. This year we are part of the Teaching Congregation program that offers an added experience for those who are named Duke Scholars in recognition of their academic achievement and promise of future ministry. Although I enjoyed supervising our interns the last two summers, I now have a greater respect for this program after meeting and hearing the faculty that oversee it. First UMC has undertaken very important work by offering this contextual learning experience that helps further define a student’s call and prepare him/her for ministry. Nathan will begin his field experience on May 20 and be with us for ten weeks. He will be sampling the realities of congregational life in a variety of ways.

Some observations and thoughts from my Duke adventure:
- Duke seminary students are some of the youngest in the country and I certainly am a mature minister.
- Students not only study the usual basic courses, but also enter into meaningful community and together explore what it means to be in ministry.
- Environmental and social justice issues are major concerns and calls to activism.
- It is exciting to think about what our future church might be.
- God does live in Duke Chapel.
- It was a good time for me to evaluate my own ministry and consider what I need to be studying to further my effectiveness. I am still thinking about this and will take suggestions.
- A meaningful pilgrimage can be made by traveling I-95 and I-40.

The Power of the Spoken Word

I frequently read Issac Bailey's blog. Sometimes it is related to what he is discussing in his column and other times he writes about what others are saying. Either way I often find it thought provoking. This week he linked to a report from media researchers at Indiana University about Bill O'Reilly's style of news commentary. Not only do we have to ask some serious questions about O'Reilly's popularity, but also have to realize the power this kind of spoken word currently holds over our culture.

The Bishops Come to Town

The Council of Bishops of the United Methodist Church is meeting at Springmaid Beach this week. The South Carolina Conference is serving as host and some of First Church members are helping in a variety of ways. Yet, we know little of what is happening because this episcopal gathering is not a secular news event. So, it was with great interest when I read the UMNS account of the address by Bishop Janice Riggle Huie, president of the Council Bishop. She called for our denomination to reclaim its heritage as a Christian movement. “The United Methodist movement invites belief in Jesus Christ over the cultural gods, the practice of forgiveness over hate, peace over violence, a better life over poverty, health over sickness.” She challenged the bishops to be leaders in making this happening. However, I find it a challenge for us all to hear.

One More Thought

Although Confirmation Sunday, Vacation Bible School, Dancing with God, Duke Intern, and some other things are keeping me busy this week, I find my mind returning to the recent Diakonia Celebration in Orlando. From presentations and sermons to random conversations there seem to have been some seeds planted that are already growing and that may begin bearing fruit in my life. My friend, Kathy James, who also attended this event has posted some similar thoughts on her blog. I am always interested in what she has to say and it is great to stay connected in this way.

Africa

During the last few years my heart has been drawn to the people of Africa. It may have begun with learning about Africa University, hearing the stories of missioners to this part of the world or meeting persons of Zimbabwe, Cameroon, or the Sudan. Recently, the news accounts of Darfur and the gruesome human suffering therein have been lessons in political power struggles. The Nothing But Nets campaign has captured my attention and has led me to encourage others to be support this effort to eradicate malaria. As the deacons gathered in Orlando last week, we offered support to an effort by deacons to offer hope to HIV/AIDS patients in Zimbabwe. In the early morning hours on Saturday, we walked on behalf of this effort and gave our monetary gifts as signs of caring for our brothers and sisters in Africa. I am not sure what this confluence of the stories of Africa means for me. Am I to visit this land of great humanitarian need? Am I to study and advocate about the needs of these long, abused countries? Am I to share more of my resources as signs of care and concern for these children of God?

Another aspect to my interest in Africa pertains to the rapid growth of Methodism in Africa and how this could shape to our denomination in the years to come. The Chicago Tribune reported this in an interesting story this past week. As Maxie Dunnam says, “The issue is how are we going to understand ourselves as a world church?”

Reminder!

Today is the day to do something to help prevent malaria, especially in Africa. I will be joining many other United Methodists in donating the cost of my lunch to Nothing But Nets as part of Malaria Awareness Day.

Amelia Island Retreat

Our time on Amelia Island is about to come to an end. We stayed on the Intracoastal Waterway in the Fernandina Historic District and enjoyed walking the streets in this area. Many of the homes were built during the Victorian era and have been restored to their former uniqueness. See Ron’s blog. The seafood has been tasty and the nights have been restful. The skies have been blue and the sunsets beautiful. It has been wonderful time to reflect on the convocation that I attended the previous few days.

Bishop Gregory Palmer spoke about the Good Samaritan during Sunday morning worship. Within his well-crafted sermon he highlighted the innkeeper as a metaphor for the church. The innkeeper responded to a need and worked with the Samaritan to take care of the wounded. He trusted that he would be paid in full. We can assume that he might have gone the next step and used his influence in the community to campaign for safer traveling conditions. These words come only from the mental notes that I made, but I seem to keep pondering their significance to the life of this deacon and the church she serves.

Earth Day

Yesterday, much of our hotel was without water. Needless to say, it was a major inconvenience. What a subtle reminder of how a third of the Earth’s population lives in “water stressed” countries and that the world water crisis is one of the largest public health issues of our time. According to The United Nations nearly 1.1 billion people lack access to safe drinking water and this lack of clean, safe drinking water is estimated to kill almost 4,500 children per day.

Our son, Robert, is a civil engineer who specializes in water resources. He shares about the “water crunch” through a blog. As we celebrate Earth Day we need to consider whether we are part of the problem or the solution and give thanks for God's creative goodness.

Celebrating Diakonia

I am at a national gathering of United Methodists deacons and diaconal ministers in Orlando. In addition to dialogue, worship, outreach and Sabbath time, we are celebrating the thirtieth year of the office of diaconal ministers and the tenth year of the order of deacons in the UMC. From the time Ron and I left Myrtle Beach, it has been an experience of observation and reflection.

From radio news accounts along our I-95 journey, we concluded that it is far easier to buy a gun in this country than to get good mental health care. After traveling with the multitude of large trucks, we realized that no one must buy locally produced food or merchandise. The environmental footprint of motor homes and travel trailers must be quite large from the number we saw.

Meeting and greeting is always an important part of our gatherings. Sharing our stories and learning of new opportunities within the ministry of a deacon become points of reflection. Many deacons in attendance are shaping their roles to meet the emerging needs of the congregations and places in which they serve. Although I sense that I am doing something important within First UMC, perhaps we (clergy and laity) need to be in dialogue about my role? I have no preconceived thoughts about what any change might be.

Words of Wisdom

Today I encountered two quotations that have directed my thoughts. With the excessive commentary about the Don Imus incident, Duke rugby team charges and Virginia Tech murders, this Quaker saying seems appropriate to consider: "Do not speak unless you can improve upon the silence."

As we focus on environmental issues, there are so many things to consider. Perhaps these words of Martin Luther share the most important truth: "God writes the Gospel, not in the Bible alone, but also on trees, and in the flowers and clouds and stars."

May we live in God's grace as we struggle to understand headlines and commentaries.

Breaking News!

One more time the breaking news banner across the screen captures our attention and we learn of another tragedy. Today it is the Virginia Tech murders. The pictures and sounds of it all don’t make sense to us. We shake our heads in disbelief and our eyes brim with tears. How can someone go on such a rampage and take so many lives? We question a culture that evokes this insane response to someone’s despair. As details are revealed and accusations made, families and friends are grieving the loss of loved ones. We are hearing “they should have….” Larry King and Dr. Phil are analyzing what has happened. Our hearts are heavy. When will this violence end? Help us, O God, to claim our faith and to live into the hope and promise of tomorrow.

Children's Sermons

This morning it was my turn to do the children's sermon. I continually struggle with what this needs to be. I believe there should be some substance to the message, "not cotton candy in a religious wrapper" as voiced by some Christian educators. Some of my pet peeves include playing to adult humor, embarrassing children, using adult language and object lessons that make no sense to a child's literal mind. But, how can this be done in a few minutes with a wide age range of children and no time for genuine dialogue? I read the experts, listen to workshop leaders and still remain frustrated. I am glad that we at First Church try to do something for the sermon that relates to the text. This helps identify the children's sermon as part of the whole and give children the understanding that they have a special place in our community. Also, I hope that what is said opens the door to further conversation in the hours or days ahead. Therefore, perhaps the best that we can do is to leave them with a single question and/or a thought to ponder - a spiritual nugget. I have also found it helpful to name and see the children in my mind and heart as I prepare these sermons. This seems to give me insight as to what might be signifcant to them and to their relationship with God. It also reminds me of the importance of this part of our worship. "Let the children come..."

God's Earth

In his retirement, my husband has focused his mind and energies on environmental issues. By doing so, Ron makes family and friends aware of matters that are important to the well-being of all. He also gives much time to the Enviromnental Stewardship Committee at First UMC which shares information and concerns about being responsible citizens of God's creation. He now invites us to read some of his discoveries on his new blog, Earth Focus.

According to the UMC Social Principles (Para. 160) -
"All creation is the Lord's and we are responsible for the ways in which we use and abuse it. Water, air, soil, minerals, energy resoureces, plants, animal life and space are to be valued and conserved because they are God's creation and not soley because they are useful to human beings."

Save a Life

As noted in several of my past blogs, Nothing But Nets, the global campaign to save lives by preventing malaria, has captured my heart. So it is with great interest that I note that United Methodists are being encouraged to observe Malaria Awareness Day on April 25th by supporting Nothing But Nets by donating the cost of a lunch. Of course, I have shared this information with others and I am glad to know that this will be promoted throughout First UMC.

-Every 30 seconds, a child dies in sub-Saharan Africa because of malaria.
-9 out of 10 deaths caused by malaria occur in Africa.

A $10 donation goes directly toward the purchase, distribution, and education about the proper us of these bed nets, and the Gates Foundation will match each donation, net for net.

In addition to supporting this life-saving campaign, United Methodists will be praying for the children of Africa, for those suffering with malaria, and for global health. From my perspective, this day is an important one to observe. We can make a difference!

Easter

The following words are framed and hang above my computer in my office. The author is unknown although I have read similar comments credited to several different persons. They inspire me daily.

Hope is stronger than memory.
Salvation is stronger than sin.
Forgiveness is stronger than bitterness.
Reconciliation is stronger than hatred.
Light is stronger than darkness.
Resurrection is stronger than crucifixion.
The open tomb is stronger than the bloodied cross.
The risen Lord is stronger than the dead Jesus.
Easter is stronger than Good Friday.
Hope is stronger than memory.

We are the Easter people.
We are the people of hope.
We are the people of the open tomb,
The risen Lord, and new life in Christ.

Chilly Easter

The weather gurus are predicting record breaking cold temperatures for Easter. My mother reports that it is to be colder in Ohio than it was for Christmas or New Year’s Day. Explanations abound for this anomaly and we all feel it to be incongruent with our understanding of how Easter should be. However, perhaps it is just a reminder that we are given new life no matter what circumstances surround us when we embrace the Word of God as known through the life and death of Jesus Christ?

Maundy Thursday

When I have trouble sleeping, it usually means that all is not well with my soul. Such has been this week. I know that I am struggling with the Holy Week scriptures. The shadows are lengthening and darkness is falling across my heart. Everything seems to be upsetting and of crisis proportions. Maybe I am like the disciples; I just don’t quite get it. However, I don’t think that I am the only one.

In our continuing effort to help parents be a part of their children’s faith development, we created a Walk with Jesus for Holy Week. Modeled on the Stations of the Cross, we created ten different stations in our classroom area for children and parents to explore the story of Jesus. Families have been invited to participate at one of three scheduled times. Jamie Eagerton provided the leadership for this project and did a great job of making the stations. To date, her children are the only ones that have experienced this Walk with Jesus. Maybe tomorrow other parents will take this opportunity to allow their children to discover that Holy Week is a time to be set aside for a special time with Jesus.

In an effort to redeem this week for me, I am prayerfully reading, reading and reading. I especially enjoyed this blog by Diana Butler Bass and commend it to others to consider all the resurrections they have seen.

Monday-Holy Week

As I walk through this week, I find myself repeating the simple prayer known as the Jesus Prayer – “Lord Jesus, Son of God, have mercy on me a sinner.” The more I say these words the more I realize how much I need Jesus and that I am falling short of Christ’s teachings each day. It helps me to “pray without ceasing” as I am faced with decisions and actions. Acknowledging my sin keeps me humble and accountable to Christ. By his blood he saved me and I depend on his grace and mercy. “Lord Jesus, Son of God, have mercy on me, a sinner.”

Palm Sunday Quiz

Discovered this quiz about the Gospel accounts of Jesus triumphal entry into Jerusalem. Good to check what the Bible really says about this event.

Holy Week Begins

Today, the children wave the palm branches and the music is magnificent, but the grim reality of Holy Week is lurking in the recesses of our minds. Although we look forward to Easter, there is hesitancy on our part to enter into this time of suffering and death that is the necessary prelude. In this dark and difficult time, we seek to participate more fully in the unfolding story of Christ’s redemptive act of love. Walking in the way of the cross calls us to love God and to love our neighbors as ourselves. It also means that we need to suffer death before resurrection can occur. This is part of the pilgrim journey for us this Holy Week. Like Jesus, we give ourselves up to death, so that we, too, can be resurrected. We die to sin, to selfish ways, to all that has held us captive. We let go of our need to control, of our anger and our envy, of our love of power, status, and wealth. May God’s grace and mercy guide and direct us during this Holy Week so that we can declare with certainty on this coming Sunday that we are an Easter people.

Barbara Brown Taylor

In recent years, I have enjoyed reading Barbara Brown Taylor’s sermons and other writings. Not only do I find them instructive as I try to improve my own preaching, but also important to the nurturing of my faith. Her use of words to express theological thought and reflection speaks to my soul. So, I was saddened when I learned about her latest book, Leaving Church, and her decision to leave the pulpit. Reading this book has given me much to ponder and has become an important part of my Lenten journey.

As I began to read about Barbara’s experiences that led her to discover that God’s call on her life was outside the local parish, I found much to which I could relate and understand. I almost became afraid that perhaps I was being invited to join her on her new path and was apprehensive as each chapter revealed more of her story. It was with a sense of relief when I came to the end of her story and realized that although I could claim some of the truths of which she writes, I still believe that I am where God calls me to be, the church. I also realize that she has not closed the door in her leaving church. However, once again I heard a strong message about the importance of observing Sabbath. This intentional encounter with God is a necessity if I am to be honest and authentic with God, myself and those I meet along the way.

P.S. Barbara concludes her book with a great recommended reading list that I plan use for my future reading. I think that we need to make sure that we have these books are in our library.

Wedding Traditions

Probably the most frequently heard comment following Sarah and Andy’s wedding was that it certainly reflected Sarah’s tastes. She wore an exquisite dress and stylish hairstyle reminiscent of the 30’s and 40’s, used Rhapsody in Blue as the processional and had a male friend as one of her attendants. Andy’s friend, Ana, was one of the groom’s attendants. Yet, it was obvious that tradition was important to them, also. They were married at Cove United Methodist Church with a traditional service and surrounded by family and friends.

The wedding cake was an interesting juxtaposition of new and old. Sarah and Andy choose an unconventional cake design, but incorporated the family tradition of using a silver tray that has been part of all family weddings since my great-grandparents were married in 1893. (My wedding cake was on it and it was part of Rob and Dan’s weddings, also.)

From my perspective family was an important part of this wedding. Grandparents, aunts, uncles, and cousins came from near and far to be a part of this celebration and to offer blessings on this day. May this serve as a foundation of love and nurture for the marriage of Sarah and Andy.

Traveling Mercies

We are in Cleveland this weekend for my niece’s wedding. As family and friends gather, we give thanks for safe travel as we have come from near and far. Becoming acquainted with Andy’s family and reacquainted with some of our own family is part of this wedding event. We are especially happy to be with Mike and his family as he is usually in some far off place with the US Army when our family gathers. Annaka is so excited about this wedding as only a four year old can be. She wants to know if Sarah will ride in a carriage. Brides and princesses are the same in her mind. However, we miss my parents whose health prevented them from attending. In fact, since arriving we have learned that my mother is in the hospital again. Of course, we will be checking on her before returning to South Carolina.

Ad Board Report

At each Administrative Board meeting I give a a report related to my ministry. These are some of the notes I shared this past Tuesday at our meeting.

-Much of my ministry focuses on the work of Council on Ministries. As Jean Clemmons reported, much is happening in our work areas and these folks are to be be commended for their commitment to telling the story effectively in a variety of ways.

-A strong teaching ministry is vital to the life of the church. That is an assumption with which most would agree. However, from time to time there is debate about what that needs to look like. Therefore, I share this thought with you from a Christian education professor at Perkins Theological Seminar:

“When the church is reticent to teach with clear authority, then both the content and the delivery systems of Christian education at all levels become dominated by what sells to consumers in the marketplace. Content gets based simply on popularly expressed personal needs, as if modern people clearly know their deepest needs.”
Susanne Johnson – Christian Spiritual Formation in the Church and Classroom

-I am assuming some new responsibilities with the Snowbirds/Seagulls in the fall. We have an active committee already planning for next year and I look forward to being with this delightful part of our congregation.

-Today at a clergy gathering I was challenged by someone that knows the dark side of living through HIV/AIDS and drug addiction as he said the following: “When are we going to see you in the neighborhood?” Ouch! So, may I always remember that when I claim Jesus Christ I am called to go out into the world. Let me not get too comfortable sitting under the steeple.

Ethan's Birthday

On Thursday we celebrated Ethan’s first birthday. Our youngest grandchild is developing a winsome personality as he toddles around inspecting his widening world and like the others has captured our hearts. However, when it was time for the cake ritual, it was serious business. This is just one of many rituals that will become part of his life. One of the joys of being a grandparent is that I get to help shape them and be a part of his memory of them. Once again I realize that with Annaka, William, Jack and Ethan come some important responsibilities.

Religious Illiteracy

In my Internet wanderings, I discovered this USA TODAY story about a new book, Religious Literacy, What Every American Needs to Know, by Stephen Prothero. As chairman of the religion department at Boston University, he is aware of how culturally illiterate we are about core beliefs, sacred stories, and symbols of Christianity and other world religions. To prove this he includes a test that dramatically makes his point. He contends that such ignorance is dangerous to our democracy because ill-informed citizens make poor choices as they set the course of the country. This article includes other interesting comments about the need for public schools to offer religion as part of their curriculum. Although I find these thoughts compelling, I feel that we also need to take more seriously the teaching of religion in our churches and homes. I wonder how many in our congregation could pass Prothero’s test?

Hang It On The Cross

Recently in my devotional reading (ALIVE NOW-March/April 1995), I discovered a most interesting thought attributed to author, Madeleine L’Engle. In commenting about when competing claims upon our lives become overwhelming, she said that a 19th century Russian priest counseled his people to take what was too heavy for them and hang it on the cross. She has found this to be an important bit of advice and says that at five o’clock in the evening she does this. According to L’Engle, “I hang it all on the cross. If I had to take it home with me, that would mean I didn’t think God could take care of it. So I leave it there. If I’m meant to pick it up in the morning, it will be there. And if I’m not, it won’t be there.” Therefore she advises, “Hand it over to God and let it be. If God wants you to have it in the morning, God will give it to you.”

So during this time of Lent am I ready to do this as an act of faith? What worries do I need to hang on the cross?

Daylight Savings Time

I guess the idea of daylight savings time has some merit, but I sure know that it messes with my biological clock for about a week when we spring forward or fall back. However, my most immediate concern is that I make it to church on time tomorrow. The sticky notes are already in strategic spots to remind me to re-set clocks later today. All of this leads me to think about the passage of time. What happens to it? I can’t believe that we are in the third month of 2007. Am I living into God’s purpose or wasting this gift of time? Maybe it is time to re-set my spiritual clock and more closely note my participation in the Christian story? When my mortal time ends, will someone be able to say, “Well-done, good and faithful servant”?

The SC ADVOCATE

This week I received the March issue of the South Carolina United Methodist Advocate. As the masthead says, it has been "informing and serving Methodism in South Carolina since 1837." It has been important to me since 1980 when we moved to South Carolina and joined Bethesda UMC in Powdersville. The Rev. Larry Salters introduced me to The Advocate as a way of answering the multitude of questions I had about the United Methodist Church in South Carolina. From that day forward, I have used it to keep in touch with what is happening across the South Carolina Conference and beyond. At one time, I served as the Chair of the Board of Trustees of this historic newspaper and through that experience really became connected to SC Methodism. Therefore, it will always have a special place in my heart.

How delightful to see the lead story to be about the recent Wesley Festival at Lincoln Center in New York City. Since Tim Koch, Andy Fowler and First UMC choir members were part of this, I read this article with pride and great interest. I can’t wait to hear the local version of this concert at Coastal Carolina University on March 17.

Another curious story on the front page concerns the Methodist home in Orangeburg which will be henceforth known only as The Oaks. However, the descriptive phrase, “A United Methodist Community”, will be included in advertising material according to the Rev. James McGee, CEO and president of the home. I am sure there is good reasoning in this decision, but James better be ready to explain it to the Annual Conference in June. Inquiring minds will want to know and will ask with passion and conviction. Having served on the Conference Board of Health and Welfare, I think our lay and clergy members will be surprised to learn how few Methodist dollars support our homes.

Also, a front page story serves as a reminder that we will be electing delegates for 2008 General Conference at this year’s annual conference. This is usually both fascinating and tedious, but always a good refresher course in Methodist polity. Ken is seeking to be one of our delegates to General Conference in Fort Worth April 23-May 2, 2008. I am also interested in making sure that a deacon is elected. The General Conference is the only official voice of the United Methodist Church, so who we send is very important.

I have discovered that this current front page of the Advocate can be found on-line.

Other Advocate stories this month are about
-Linda Gadsen, a God-fearing, spirit-filled woman, who cares for the impoverished population of the Johns Island area through the ministry of Rural Mission.

-The success of Souper Bowl Sunday across South Carolina including the $2,743.44 given by First UMC for the Homeless Shelter.

-The Nothing But Nets campaign that is buying and distributing insecticide- treated bed nets to protect people in Africa from mosquitoes that carry malaria.

The Advocate remains an important communication link in our connectional system and we need to make sure that Methodists understand its importance in defining who we are. Anyone can borrow my copy if they wish. However, a subscription might be even better. I will be glad to provide the information.

The Political Scene

As the political scene unfolds for the 2008 Presidential election, the candidates, power alignments and pivotal issues fill the news media. Moral and ethical matters move to center stage and once again faith communities enter the picture. However, according to what I am reading there seems to be some shift in this scene. These comments by Jim Wallis seem to reflect a prevalent thought among evangelicals. Personally, I am glad that we have seemingly moved beyond issues of sex (homosexuality, abortion, abstinence) to matters with broader implications. According to Wallis, issues like poverty and economic justice, global climate change, HIV/AIDS, genocide in Darfur and the ethics of the war in Iraq are being highlighted. Maybe this political season will be redeeming for God’s people?

WYSIWYG

In the earlier days of word processing, we had to know special codes and formatting mumbo jumbo in order to make a simple text document look proper when printed. The screen was filled with goobledy gook that was undecipherable to most minds. But one day, the world of “wysiwyg” was born and it was good….very good. What you see is what you get! We could now actually see what text was bold, where the italicized phrases were, and identify underlined words. It was right there! And so goes much of the human experience, we just complicate matters with a lot of mumbo jumbo that we don’t understand. Yet, we do seek the world of “wysiwyg”.

When overwhelmed with the devastation of storms, the ravages of disease, the conflict among peoples and nations and the times of grief that touch our lives, our “screens” seem unreadable. We ask as John asked of Jesus, “Are you the one who is to come…?” We cannot see the reality of a faith that offers comfort, direction, wholeness, love and peace through the hearts and hands of the disciples of Jesus. For many, Lent is the time to see the text through intentional study, prayer, worship and outreach. Are we encouraging and offering our congregation the opportunity to know Jesus simply and clearly?

"Day by day, Day by day, Oh Dear Lord, Three things I pray, To see thee more clearly, Love thee more dearly, Follow thee more nearly, Day by day."
- from GODSPELL

Teaching for Faith

I love the title of the book, Teaching for Faith, by Richard Robert Osmer as I am well aware that too often Christian education is presented and understood only as information. With this limited view, the drop-out rate is high and the “test scores” are low. However, the theologian, H. Richard Niebuhr, once described faith as being like a cube. It is a many-sided reality. With that in mind, Osmer focuses on four sides of this cube by saying that each represents an important aspect of a relationship with God and should guide the processes we use as we teach for belief, teach for relationship, teach for commitment, and teach for the mystery. If we accept this premise, the challenge and responsibility of teaching can almost become overwhelming. Yet, nothing is more exciting than when the light bulb comes on and there in a real ah-ha moment in the teaching/learning setting.

Although teaching ministry has long been claimed as an important task of the church, we have not always understood about teaching for faith, learning styles and using various teaching methodologies. Today, most curriculum materials are designed with a variety of options to accommodate learner’s needs. We also have teacher enrichment resources and opportunities. Yet, I feel the need to do more to enhance our teaching ministry and welcome any thoughts about this.

P.S. I will be glad to loan my copy of Teaching for Faith..

Discovery of Self

This week I had the opportunity to care for two of my grandchildren for a few hours. What a treat! To love and be loved unconditionally nurtures the soul. It is especially interesting to observe how each of them is discovering his personhood – physically, mentally and emotionally. I can see evidence of spiritual understanding, also. Yet, I know as their self-discovery continues there will be days of wrestling with God’s grace for us all.

As William and Ethan continue to discover how self and other are mysteriously joined, a healthy sense of self-love can be an important ingredient to their future. Jesus understood this when he says, “Love your neighbor as yourself”. Loving the good in oneself strengthens our ability to love and care for those who come into view along the way. It allows the image of God in us to grow toward its mature fullness. As adults, our challenge becomes to consciously measure each word and action so that our children can know this self-love. Perhaps, this is one of the best gifts that we can give them.

The Season of Lent

How did we get from Advent to Lent so quickly? Maybe, this sense of disbelief is related to the reality that I do not want to deal with the personal introspection that validates the season of Lent in my life?

Will Willimon's current blog includes thought's from Barbara Brown Taylor, an outstanding preacher and writer. I am going to try to reflect on this throughout the day and use it as a doorway to this season of wrestling with my faith.

Wesley Choral Festival

My thoughts have been with Tim Koch and our choir members who are in New York for the Wesley Choral Festival. Last night was the concert at Lincoln Center commerating the Tercentenary of Charles Wesley's birth. We will have an opportunity to hear much of this music at Wheelwright Auditorium at Coastal Carolina University on March 17. Andy Fowler has written a new composition based on Wesley's "Directions for Singing" for this year of celebration. It is exciting to have such talented people in our midst.

Beginning February 26, Tim will be leading the study, Praising the God of Grace. This eight- week small group study will explore the theology of Charles Wesley's hymns. After reading much of this text and knowing Tim's teaching abilities, this promises to be a special opportunity for greater understanding of Methodism. Hope I can convince others to be a part of this study.

The Red Barn

We have now returned to South Carolina and Mother is now in a rehab facility. Praise the Lord!

In a variety of ways, it has been an interesting week in Ohio. Finally, the weather allowed us to stay at my parents’ home on Thursday night. It certainly seemed strange for Mother to be absent. However, I knew how to prepare supper, do some laundry and take care of other matters because she has taught me to do these things. Long before it was a popular feature, this home has had a gathering area at one end of the kitchen and once again we gathered there. We remembered, we discussed the present and even talked about the future. However, as I looked out the window, I realized that it was the red barn that announced that I was home. It has been the focal point of life on this farm for five generations, even on snowy days.

Snow, Ice and Cold

The snow and ice seems to be ceasing in Ohio. However, it is 14 degrees with a wind chill of 0 degrees. This cold weather is to persist for the next few days and it certainly makes me anxious to return to South Carolina.

The good news is that my mother is making progress in her recovery and it has been good to be so connected with my family the last few days. It has been an interesting coincidence that NBC Evening News has had an on-going story, Trading Places, that highlights how children help their parents deal with the issues of aging. My Ohio trip and this program highlight the challenge faced by many of us as we seek to honor and care for our parents. It is clear that success stories happen when there is a lifetime of good communication among all family members. Because my family has made a reasonable effort to do so, it feels like this is just another family project where each one shares his/her gift to make it happen. Of course, there are times of sadness, concern, frustration and stress. However, the balance and peace comes when we reach out to one another and to our God.

Snowy Day

After completing an uneventful trip to Columbus yesterday, we were able to spend time with my mother. Everyone seems to feel that she is improving. I was just glad to see her and talk with her. My father is tired, but withstanding well the long hours in the hospital and the disruption of his routine. They are people of great faith and it shows as they deal with these medical matters.

Today, we will be a day of rest for everyone as we are in the midst of a winter storm . Ron and I are in motel not far from the hospital and will try to visit mother sometime during the day. As we watched the weather news this snowy morning; we saw a well-placed ad for Myrtle Beach. The MB tourist industry does have great timing. I predict that as soon as they can shovel their driveways, Buckeyes will be on their way to our beaches.

When lived to the fullest, life can be a real adventure. Thanks be to God.

My Mother’s Daughter

At some point today we are leaving for Ohio to see my parents, especially my mother. Ten days ago she had surgery and what was to be routine has not been so. She left the hospital on Wednesday, but has returned and will have surgery again this morning. We are still assured that she will recover, but the process will take longer. Like for so many families, the juggling of jobs, care giving and other responsibilities has become difficult for my brothers and sister. So, I sense that I need to go and be part of my family. Furthermore, my mother has asked to see me. I go knowing that the prayers of my church family are with me. Blessed assurance, Jesus is mine.

Travel Reflections

I have traveled across South Carolina several times during the past two weeks. As usual, this has been a rich time for conversation with traveling companions and for knitting prayer shawls. However, on Tuesday and Wednesday I traveled by myself to and from White Oak Retreat Center near Winnsboro. My mind seemed to be going in a thousand directions and it was hard to focus on one thought until I turned off the radio, the noise around me. It was then that I experienced a wonderful time of reflection about what I had seen in all my travels. I have seen lots of trash.

During these barren winter months, the clutter along the roadsides becomes obvious. How can people be so careless and irreverent? Don’t the perpetrators know that they are responsible for caring for God’s creation? Fast food refuse, plastic bags, aluminum cans and a variety of other items decorate the sides of our highways and byways. Haven’t the mothers of these offenders taught them to respect what has been so generously given them?

From this pilgrim’s perspective, this trash soon became a metaphor for the garbage in our lives. That is, the extraneous matter thrown indiscriminately along the way and cluttering the path for others. As we look toward Lent, we know that we need to rid ourselves of this trash and that it takes intentional effort on our part to do so. Although sometimes it is just easier to let the weeds cover the trash for some seasons of our lives, we soon learn that the trash doesn’t disappear until we carefully remove it. As painful as this can be, we look forward to Lent as a time to identify and carefully rid ourselves of the things that damage our lives and hurt others along the way. Then, we are able to behold the cross and claim the grace that has been given us through our crucified Lord. Christ’s life becomes our life!

40th Anniversary

It is hard to believe that on a snowy, gray day forty years ago, Ron and I were married in my home church in Jeffersonville, Ohio. This began a journey of back roads and freeways, pot holes and detours, traffic jams and open roads. Yet, it is amazing how easy it is to travel when we know love. A card we received said, “Love is not a destination, it’s a journey.” So it has been for us. The love for one another surrounded by the love and grace of God has brought us to this point.

How did we celebrate? On Friday and Saturday, we visited our son and family in Clemson and celebrated the birthdays of two of our grandchildren. Today, we worshipped with our other son and his family in Columbia. With great joy, I participated in the baptism of Ethan at Union UMC with the Rev. Dr. Patricia Mayfield. (A sidebar to this story is that Patricia did education field experience with me at Shandon UMC.) To know that Ethan’s parents have made a commitment to nurture him in the faith of God known through Jesus Christ marks this day in a special way.

Back to Africa

Because of my interest in the humanitarian efforts currently being focused in Africa, I find myself paying more attention to the political and economic news that emerges from this part of the world. Somewhere in this news must be some sort of solution to some of the woes these countries are experiencing. Unfortunately, Africa's resources have long been used for the benefit of other parts of the world leaving its land raped and barren. The political structures have been for the benefit of a few. Wikepedia once again offers some good general information, but it is the news stories about the emerging relationship between China and Africa that I find especially interesting. The Christian Science Monitor also offers insight. Will the history of pillage repeat itself or will China be able to provide an economic solution to the human needs? In the meantime, we need to be the hands of Christ to the hungry, the sick and the imprisoned of Africa.

Another Ariail Gem

Once again Robert Ariail of THE STATE has peaked my interest with his compelling drawing. I want to know why our cigarette tax has not been increased for this is a proven way to reduce smoking among kids. It is interesting to note that the overall states' average is $1.00 per pack. South Carolina is 7 cents. Certainly our state coffers could benefit from increased tax revenue. We might even spend it on our children.

The Face of Malaria

The Nothing But Nets campaign continues to capture my attention. A donation of $10 provides an insecticide-treated bed net that can protect an African family of four for up to five years from mosquitoes, which carry malaria. The families are also taught how to use these nets. This personal account by Elizabeth McKee tells why this campaign is so important. Most people I know could give $10 to save a life, I just need to find a way to give them an opportunity to do so.

Safe Sanctuaries

I have spent the last two Sunday afternoons at the Marion District Job Function Workshops where I led a session about keeping our churches safe for children and youth. Not only does it dishearten me that we have to conduct such workshops, but also I am amazed at how few persons attend. Each session had four participants. I would like to believe that it is because the other churches have safe sanctuary policies in place. But, when I see church members arrive in 15-passenger church vans at these events, I assume there is more teaching on this subject that needs to happen.

The 1996 General Conference of The United Methodist Church adopted a resolution aimed at reducing the risk of child sexual abuse in the church. Joy Melton, a lawyer and a clergyperson, has created the resource, Safe Sanctuaries, that is used widely across our denomination and speaks frequently on this subject at clergy and Christian education events. In response, First UMC adopted Guidelines for Safety of Children and Youth in 2002. This document was updated in 2004 and I will ask the Administrative Board to review it during the coming year. It is an on-going matter of monitoring and adjusting. I feel that we have made great strides in implementing good policies, but conventional wisdom says that it is time to review them. Our guidelines are posted on our website. Please let me know of suggestions for revision.

More Thomas Merton

For over twenty years when I have set up my calendar for the coming year, I paste this passage from a letter written by Thomas Merton on the inside cover:

Do not depend on the hope of results. When you are doing the sort of work you have taken on, essentially an apostolic work, you may have to face the fact that your work will be apparently worthless and even achieve no result at all, if not perhaps results opposite to what you expect. As you get used to this idea, you start more and more to concentrate not on the results, but on the value, the truth of the work itself. And there, too, a great deal has to be gone through, as gradually you struggle less and less for an idea and more for specific people. The range tends to narrow down, but it gets much more real. In the end, it is the reality of personal relationships that saves everything….The big results are not in your hands or mine, but they suddenly happen, and we can share in them; but there is no point in building our lives on this personal satisfaction, which may be denied us and which after all is not that important.

These words seem to serve as a reminder of the importance of how I assign the hours of my day. They help me focus "on the value, the truth of the work" not the results. How liberating this can be!

My Daily Prayer

Thomas Merton wrote that when we find our true self we find God and when we find God we find our true self. This finding is a life-long process of transformation that seems to result in a greater connection with the world beyond self. This is not an easy process. With the best intentions, we often encounter a detour and become lost. How do find our way to the road of wholeness? Being part of a community whose purpose is to know God through Jesus Christ and to experience a fellowship that holds one another accountable seems to be a good Wesleyan response. We know that Bible study and prayer are important points on the compass, also. However, there seems to be more to finding our way. For me, the more I name my gifts and use them in my daily living; I sense liberation from my own weaknesses. I find my way. From this pilgrim’s perspective, when I find myself, I find God. So my daily prayer is that I claim my gifts and use them to the glory of God.

Learning to Listen

Several years ago I developed a friendship that resulted in me learning the value of listening. My friend's attentiveness to the detail of a conversation and her ability to synthesize the various elements into astute observations is engaging. I attempt to mimic her skills, but find that I have to be very intentional about this art of listening.

I recently read the following comments about listening by Dan Dick of the General Board of Discipleship and thought them to be important to share.

A critically important work for leaders in local congregations is to learn to listen. There is healing in listening. There is connection and community in listening. And there is learning in listening. We may become most effective as communicators, not by what we say, but by our ability to refrain from speaking. Drawing from a wide variety of sources, consider some of the following instructions for learning to listen:

-Make friends with silence. Spend twenty minutes a day in silent reflection and meditation.
-In conversation, silently count to ten before each response.
-In groups, wait until five other people speak before you do.
-When trying to make a point, ask questions rather than making statements.
-When called on to make a decision, ask for a day to "think about it."
-When calling others to decision, offer a time of silence for reflection before acting.
-Have a conversation with someone, then attempt to capture it on paper, writing the other side of the conversation as close to verbatim as possible.
-Pose questions and make space for hearers to offer their own answers first.

A Nice Surprise

I discovered a nice surprise when I opened umc.org tonight. Tim Koch, First UMC and Andy Fowler are all mentioned in an article about the upcoming Wesley Choral Festival at Lincoln Center. I was also impressed that proceeds will go to UMCOR’s landmine removal project in Angola. Wish that I were going to be in the audience on February 18. Andy Fowler's compositions are always insightful and inspiring. I am sure the choral presentation will be first rate as that is what one can always expect from Tim Koch. It truly is a blessing to be in ministry with such a gifted musician as Tim.

Soup Season

Finally, it appears that soup season has arrived. With the prospect of a cold, nasty day ahead, I am ready to prepare and eat a thick and hearty soup. I don’t know what it will be until I inventory possible ingredients. But, I am sure whatever it is will not only nourish my body, but my soul as well. The aroma of simmering soup reminds me of my mother’s delicious creations and cold Ohio winters. Good memories always make my heart and mind more receptive to new thoughts and ideas. Perhaps, it is a matter of good stock.

Maybe, I will take the frozen stock made from the Thanksgiving turkey and create something special and unique. I know that I will need quality ingredients for the best results. Also, the seasoning has to be carefully chosen and added. Good soup just doesn’t happen. It takes careful preparation. Perhaps this wondering thought has become a simile. Good soup is like a good life. I better get out the soup pot and be ready to share the soup with others.

The World Is My Parish

It has been an important week to remember Mr. Wesley's response to those who said that he should stay within the boundaries of his parish. We are part of a global community and issues of war, care of the earth, and justice call for a Christian response. However, to frame this response means on-going study and prayer and of opening our hearts and minds to new understandings. It means abandoning many of our secular thoughts about the priority of the individual. So let this be my challenge of the New Year.

Perspectives, the blog by Larry Hollen, continues to be one of my regular reads. His global experiences help me understand Methodism's place in the world community. His last three posts from Zimbabwe are quite interesting and the tug on my heart to this part of the world grows. I encourage others to read Mr. Hollen's reports.

Go, Bucks!

For those concerned about Ron’s state of well being after last night’s Buckeye defeat, he’s okay. I heard words about it being a big disappointment after such an outstanding year and the usual fan reaction, “there is always next year.” The post game analysis has not begun. His photo blog posting probably says it best. Anyway, he is on his way to Columbia for federal jury duty. This might not be the best day for him to determine someone’s fate, especially if they are from Florida. Should I warn them?

I understand that the Buckeyes have a big basketball game tonight. GO, BUCKS!

e-Christian Ed

I have been happy to hear that my blog has been missed these past few days. My thoughts have been muddled by puny health. I am not usually sick, so this has made me ill-tempered and not in the mood for reflective writing. But life does go on while the body recovers.

Once again, I am serving as a teaching assistant for an on-line course that is part of a Christian education certification program offered through Columbia College. While driving to Columbia for our face to face class this past Saturday, I found myself wondering about the kind of experience the class and I would have this semester. Feeling lousy, I will admit that I was not overly optimistic. However, after being with the students and doing the introductory session together, I know why I do this. God has called some very special people to do educational ministry in our churches, but they want and need to be better equipped for this. This program allows these persons to do most of their work on-line on their own schedule. When congregations seriously consider how it is that they are to pass on the faith to all who seek God, called and trained Christian educators can provide important leadership. Therefore, it is crucial that those of us that have an opportunity to fulfill our call to educational ministry provide guidance and direction to those who are to follow us. It is obvious that these students will each offer unique gifts to our common experience. Let the class begin!

The Color is Green

My friend, Tom, reminded me that I haven’t been blogging about polar bears, global warming and other environmental issues. So, for those who wish to begin the New Year by being “green”, I recommend these ten simple tips from the current issue of Newsweek for befriending our environment. Most of them are reasonable and possible. However, I will admit that I am not sure I want recycled toilet paper. Also, I strongly urge everyone to see Al Gore’s documentary film, An Inconvenient Truth, for better understanding of the scope of the issues we face by not taking care of God’s creation.

President Ford

As I watch the funeral events surrounding President Ford's death, I am being given a good refresher course in U.S.history and government. Well-prepared journalists and writers seem to be offering both words of respect and reality. It is giving me lots to think about in the days to come. Along with many others, I am surprised at the emotion that I feel while watching the proceedings, but I will let the commentators analyze this. However, I do know it is a day that we can understand the blessing we have by living in this democracy.

Political cartoons often give us important messages. Such is this one found on Slate website tells today's story. (A review of their 2006 collection is a worthy use of time)

2007 Time Capsule

Today the temperature was 74 degrees.

Three thousand US soldiers have been killed in Iraq since the war began in 2003.

The country is celebrating the life of President Ford. After a final visit to the Capitol Rotunda and the National Cathedral, he will be buried on Jan.3 in Grand Rapids, Michigan.

Saddam Hussein was put to death by hanging during the last few days and now we wait to see how the people of Iraq will react.

Global warming, YouTube, and Ohio State football are major topics in my home.

The Sun-News headlines say Myrtle Beach is on the verge of change with major development projects beginning. Included are the Hard Rock theme park, Market Common and new life for the Pavilon and Myrtle Square properties.

First UMC is planning for the future through the efforts of its Vision Quest team.

New Year's Thoughts

Although I don’t usually make New Year’s resolutions, I do think this can be a good time of re-commitment to faithful living. Yet, the news stories of war and genocide, abuse of the Earth, greed and human neglect capture my attention and being obedient seems impossible. Once again, this passage from Micah 6:8 gives me direction:

“He has told you, O mortal, what is good; and what does the Lord require of you but to do justice, and to love kindness, and to walk humbly with your God?”

So as I begin 2007 I know this to be important - Live simply, be present to the lonely, love and nurture children, study, learn and work. Also, daily pray for the healing of the nations, for God’s holy presence working through people changed by love and for helping to bring peace.

When I read this, I feel overwhelmed by what it means to be faithful. But, I remember our call to be part of a community of disciples who share its gifts for the powerful witness to the coming of the Kingdom. Together, we can allow the Word to become flesh among us. Thanks be to God.