The Parent Disconnect

I am well aware of the disconnection that now exists between parent and child because of the lack of time spent together. Meaningful conversation just does not happen. Parents expect others to teach their kids everything, including morals and faith. However, in one of the largest research projects ever commissioned to study the root causes of teenagers’ high-risk behaviors, physicians at the Mayo Clinic conclude, “ The most effective way to protect young people from unhealthy or dangerous behaviors is for parents to be involved in their lives.” Knowing this, it has become my responsibility as a Christian educator to encourage and equip parents to have a faith-nurturing presence in their children’s lives. What an uphill battle I am having to wage!

During the past few weeks,it has been a struggle to get parents to be part of a parent/youth mission trip. Our efforts to have a good attendance of parents to hear Jim Williams speak about knowing their tween is reaping minimal response. I asked for parents of this same age group if they were interested in being part of a parent/child human sexuality class. Two responded. Parental support of confirmands is another matter. How can we help strengthen the parent-child relationship? Lord, give me patience, insight and wisdom.