Thought for the Day

When I saw Ron preparing this slide for our Monday night worship, I had to borrow it to share. It reminds me of my parents who recently had trees in an old orchard removed and are now making plans to plant some hardwoods as their gift to future generations.

Thought for the day....

A society grows great when old men plant trees
whose shade they know they shall never sit in.

Greek Proverb

Knitting as Meditation

“The act of knitting is a meditation, for the work of the hands compels the mind to rest, and gives free rein to movements of the soul.” (Author unknown)

So it is with me today as my needles click in their knit three, purl three rhythm as I make another prayer shawl. My thoughts land on family and friends who are struggling with all the issues that the diagnosis of cancer brings. My neighbor who moved to Myrtle Beach to enjoy our pleasures and not to meet our medical community is coping with treatments and the prospect of major surgery. My brother-in-law who has hit a bump in the road with his on-going chemo treatments and the reality of his cancer has hit them in the face again. My friend from Columbia who has recently been diagnosed with stage 4 cancer of the colon and pancreas has had to tell his two sons at Clemson that he has 12-24 months to live. His on-line journal is a gift to all who want to be present to him at this time. And the list goes on…. Why are there so many cancer patients? What can we do to stop the invasion of this disease into our lives? The turbulent waters of life are wearing us out. We are handicapped by our fear.

Help us, O God, from drowning in our despair. Give us your hand and we will walk with you and live in hope. Amen.

Bishop's School of Ministry

United Methodist clergy from across the SC Conference met this week at Springmaid Beach for the Bishop's School of Ministry. This annual event combines learning and fellowship effectively for many. However, when one lives nearby and tries to participate in this event and to do regular church responsibilities, it means stress instead of relaxation. But, I did enjoy some special moments with my colleagues and the thoughts expressed by some of the speakers. So now I am pondering as to whether we create a culture within our churches that nurtures the faith of young people or do we just expect a set apart program to do this? Are we just reactive agents of mercy or are we proactive agents of change? I will have to work forever, because I will never understand the retirement process of the UMC. Although it is easy to complain and whine about our churches and governing structure, there are lots of good things happening in United Methodism.

Other items of interest this week have included learning that child mortality is at record low according to a recent article in the New York Times, reading a new blog by my clergy friend, Stephen Taylor and thinking about one of Will Willimon's latest posts about church growth.

It has been a good week. Now I have got to make sure we are ready for Sunday morning happenings.

Why Church?

My focus for the last week has been the sermon that I preached for our Christian Education Sunday. As this is not my primary call, sermon preparation is labor intensive for me. The text was Psalm 78:1-8, often called the Christian Education psalm, and one that has an important message about passing on the sacred stories. One illustration that I used has meaning to all who try to make a case for children to attend church.

Anne Lamott has a chapter in her book Traveling Mercies title, “Why I Make Sam Go to Church.” Sam is Lamott’s son, and he is less than enthusiastic about church going. But, Lamott writes that she still requires him to go and says:

"I want to give him what I found in the world, which to say, a path and a little
light to see by. Most of the people I know who have what I want…which is to say,
purpose, heart, balance, gratitude, joy – are people with a deep sense of
spirituality. They are people in community, who pray, or practice their faith;
they are Buddhists, Jews, Christians – people banding together to work on
themselves and for human rights. They follow a brighter light than the
glimmer of their own candle; they are part of something beautiful."

Clemson Tailgating

Football season is here and our grandchildren are learning to appreciate all the fun and food. Grandpa is also teaching them to say, "Go, Bucks". Maybe they need some scarlett and gray to wear?

Try to Remember

Ken asks me to preach two Sundays a year...two Sundays when I can't do too much damage. This year I asked if one of those could be Christian Education Sunday and he granted this wish. I look forward to sharing some of my passion for educational ministry through exploration of the Word in the sermon on this coming Sunday. The preacher of the day writes the cover for the weekly newsletter. Here is a sneak preview of what will be on the cover of THE STEEPLE.

As we celebrate Christian Education this Sunday, we remember people, places, and events of the past that have shaped our understanding of our faith in God through Jesus Christ. But, just as importantly, we examine our personal and congregational commitment to a lifelong process of teaching and learning.Christian faith becomes a reality when the stories of the Bible and our personal experiences of God’s love and grace empower us to trust God’s guidance as we make decisions in our daily lives. But, do we know these sacred stories? Test your Biblical knowledge.
1. Name the five books of the Torah/Pentateuch
2. Name the Ten Commandments.
3. Name 3 Old Testament prophets.
4. Why are the Exodus and Exile events significant?
5. What is the last book in the Old Testament?
6. In what book is the Sermon on the Mount and what is its main teaching?
7. Name two parables?
8. In what book are the “I am” sayings?
9. Who was present at the Transfiguration?
10.Who said, “We know that all things work together for good for those who love God, who are called according to his purpose”?

Also, do you recognize God’s presence in your life through these stories? Do you share with others what God has done for you yesterday and today? Do you understand how this shapes your future? These, too, are the lessons of Christianity that are to be taught and learned if we are to grow in a faith that equips us to go forth into the world sharing God’s grace and love. What is your commitment to Christian education?

Water for Elephants

During our recent road trip, we listened to the audio version of the best-selling book, Water for Elephants, by Sara Gruen and were most pleased with this choice. Jacob Jankowski reflects on his life with the circus as he lives out his days in a nursing home. In often poignant words, this character introduces the reader (listener) not only to Depression-era circus life, but also to how many older adults spend their last days. Although not a complex plot, we could see, hear, smell, feel and/or taste each part of the tale through Gruen’s word use and looked forward to hearing how the story would unfold. One needs to know that some of the language and situations are rather rough and colorful and could be offensive to some. Although not easy to hear, it does make the story more authentic. The use of two readers as the older Jacob and the younger Jacob is very effective in telling the story in this flashback method. Faithfulness and loyalty are key themes and could provide good discussion. It also could be argued that the class structure within the circus community is mirrored within our lives in many ways. Obviously, I recommend this to others as a book to read or hear.

The Circle of Life

In recent years, each visit to my parents is a lesson in the realities of aging. This time we are witnessing not only increased physical impairment, but the continuing struggle to make appropriate decisions about living arrangements. Independence is such a valued cultural and family trait that it becomes a hindrance to asking for assistance from family and friends. What I once studied in textbooks is revealing itself through their lives. The joys and pains of this time are real to all that surround them. My prayers are many including that I be more sensitive to all older adults and their families.

A Good Thought: Mother had commented how kind people are to them in public places. Yesterday, when we took them to a restaurant we saw this. Two frail people and two canes seem to bring out the best in people. My parents become everyone’s aging parents.

Travel Notes

After a quick visit with Ron’s brother and family in Indianapolis, we are now in Jeffersonville, Ohio. These road trips give me much time to think about our family and to know that it will be a good adventure. As we re-connect we are fortunate to be able to find joy in remembering days past and to forget or forgive the unhappy times. We are blessed.

Although it is always enjoyable to travel through the mountains, it is that flat, open land canopied by blue sky from horizon to horizon that feeds my soul. The sunset was gorgeous last evening as was the moon that soon followed. How awesome is God’s creation!

The vacation prayers mentioned in my last blog have guided my days. I don’t know the author, but certainly the Holy Spirit directed the writing of them. I think these will stay in my suitcase for future vacation time, also.

Other notes: There are more trucks on US 70 than cars and certainly evidence of how many things that are transported long distances. Know wonder we are known as a gas guzzling nation. Also, Starbucks can now be found near the interstates and pumpkin spice lattes are back on the menu. My travel budget will need to be adjusted.

Spiritual Type Test

As usual, God gives me a sign to slow down when I need it the most. I am in that overdrive mode today as I prepare to be out of town for a week. I have left voice messages, written letters, sent e-mails and made phone calls with various instructions for others. My co-workers will be taking my name in vain on Monday morning. Then, I looked at Perspectives and had to stop to take my spiritual type test. That led me to explorefaith.org, which I found to be most interesting. This is my invitation to you to slow down and explore. Check out the book recommendations and prayers for vacation.

A Pet Peeve

As I retrieved a number of voice messages yesterday, I once again became frustrated by the incoherent, garbled and rapidly recited phone numbers left by the callers. This often required multiple replays to get the correct number. My friends indicate that I am not the only one irritated by this bad habit. Let’s campaign for the etiquette of voice mail to be taught and practiced more intentionally. Please, if you call me, speak slowly as you leave your phone number. In fact, repeat it. Remember I have just had a birthday and my responses are not as quick as they once were.

The Future

This morning I noted this quote by Peter Drucker on Larry Hollen's blog - "The best way to predict the future is to create it." This has percolated in my mind all day as I have read or heard the current news.

As previously noted, Larry Hollen's Perspectives is one of my favorite blogs. Today he continues the discussion of uninsured children. I can’t believe what a deplorable situation we have created. What is the future for our children when they have not had adequate health care?

The New York Times reports today that the proponents of mountain top removal as a method of coal mining have scored another victory so that this practice will continue. In light of the recent mine accidents, I am sure this method seems more attractive as no one goes underground. Our quest for coal generated power goes forth. Are there not other sources of power? Perhaps we could reduce our power needs? What is the future for the land after it has been so devastated?

A commentary by Anna Quindlen in a recent Newsweek presents the realities of a country that is being shaped by immigrants. Those among us that want to send immigrants home need to face the fact that we depend upon them to bolster our economy. She also noted that “immigration is never about today, always about tomorrow.” The work ethic to achieve and succeed for future generations is perpetuated by those who most recently have arrived at our shores.

Lots to think about as we try to live responsible lives.

Another Year

Today is my birthday. I can remember thinking that my grandmother was an old lady when she was my age. I wonder how my grandchildren view me. The good news is that they called me to sing Happy Birthday and certainly were far more excited about this day than I was. However, I have come to realize that it is good to celebrate what has been and wish for the very best in the future. It is a time of thanksgiving and also an opportunity to make some resolutions for the days ahead. Although these thoughts are not original, I need to claim them.

-Nurture relationships with family and friends.
-Practice healthy living.
-Help meet the needs of those I meet along the way.
-Read some good books.
-Glorify God in all that I do.

Teaching and Learning

My days are filled with preparing for a new year of teaching and learning at First Church. To help learners claim the life of Jesus as their own is an awesome responsibility and challenges me to do the very best that I can. What makes a good teacher?

Jesus told of his experiences of God and humankind in stories. Obviously, he had a creative imagination that was fed by the people, places and events around him. His approach was fresh, surprising, new, and unexpected. He must have been a good listener, too. He had a great respect for his audience as his use of parables helped make things clear without being overbearing. He left the conclusions to the ones who heard. He rarely moralized after having told his stories. No wonder that his teaching made a great impression on them, because he taught and preached unlike the scribes (Mark 1:22)

I believe that as Christians, we are all called to teach and that our teaching depends on continued learning. Not all of us are meant to be Sunday school teachers, but we are all called to help one another grow in the faith by sharing our stories that have related us to God.

"May my teaching drop like the rain, my speech condense like the dew; like gentle rain on grass, like showers on new growth. For I will proclaim the name of the Lord; ascribe greatness to our God!" Deuteronomy 32:2,3.

A Joy Ride!

Each time I see this new roller coaster, I have a feeling that it symbolizes my life. One of the joys of my ministry is that I have a wide variety of tasks. However, they often seem to come at one time and I am left with my head spinning. Such is this season of preparation for the coming year of teaching and learning.

For the 7th Generation

In a recent Christians in Education article, I read the following:

"When traditonal Iroquois held their council meetigs, they invoked this declaration: 'In our every deliberation we must consider the impact of our decisons in the next seven generations.' When a vote was taken, an equal vote was cast by one of the communitiy's members who would represent those who would be alive 150 years from now. There was a clear understanding that the decsions we make in the present have an impact for years to come." (Summer 2007 - page 15)

I think of this practice as Ron talks about enviromental issues, as politicians declare their intentions and as church leaders make decisions to meet the demands of the moment. Consideration of the future too often seems minimal. We need to hear the voices of our children and their children when we rape the earth of its resources, perpetuate a debt burdened society and fail to shape a ministry that offers future generations the opportunity to worship and know God. Once again, the past can offer us invaluable wisdom as we look toward the future. Let's heed it!

Grassroots Ministry

Although I value the process that leads to many of our very effective mission efforts, I rejoice at those times when the Holy Spirit seems to capture our imagination and hearts and we respond spontaneously to the needs of others. Such is the case of Nothing But Nets. I just read that in less than one year over $13 million dollars has been raised for the malarial regions of Africa. During the past year, Ed Jackson has led the charge to give Street Reach a better facility for ministry with the homeless in Myrtle Beach. Through her graduate studies, Jeanne Voltz Loomis learned much about the life of homeless children and has shared some of this information with us in a variety of ways. Last week in a report to our Council on Ministries, she spoke of the need for these children to have book bags and school supplies just like other students. As a result, Sunday school classes and individuals are making this happen. No one really asked them to do this. They heard of a real need and acted. These filled book bags will be given to our schools so that children that are homeless will have something to call their own. It is great to know that we are a compassionate people with a vision of the kingdom.

The Study of Ministry

After two years of study to clarify the ordering of ministry within The United Methodist Church, the Study of Ministry Commission has released their final report. Basically, it recommends four more years of study by the church. How very Methodist! This study has been a hot topic in deacon conversations as we feel that United Methodism is still struggling to clearly understand who we are called to be. The full report and comments by Tom Frank can be found on-line. I recommend reading both in their entirety. However, Part V references the matters that pertain to the deacon.

A major issue for many deacons has been not being able to preside at the sacraments. Our role is to assist only. Because I have been allowed to reclaim the historic role of deacon as the one who prepares and invites congregants to participate in these holy moments, I have not given this a lot of consideration. I feel that I have a specific role that compliments the one of the elder. However, although the conversation argues that it would be redundant for both elders and deacons to do celebrate the sacraments and that ordination does not necessarily confer this authority, I am still pondering this interpretation especially as it relates to those deacons who serve as chaplains or parish ministers.

In 1997 the first class of permanent deacons was ordained. (I was one of them.) So, we are still in our beginning stage of finding our place within today's church. Many have welcomed us and celebrated who we are. But, I do know that instead of having a ministry that is equal, complimentary and distinctive, deacons seem to be considered as a second class or subordinate. Just ask any member of First UMC. It is always Ken, Scarlett and Jean no matter what the issue. I have been assured that I will always be paid less than an elder at First. At this point in my ministry these matters are of little personal concern. However, I want to help pave the way for deacons in the emerging church as their role could be extremely important to its evolving understanding of mission.

This study of ministry is still struggling with local pastors like my friend, George. I will be interested in what he thinks about this report.

The commission also recommends doing away with the practice of commissioning deacon and elders. When candidates have met basic requirements they will be ordained. This will be separate from full conference membership. This most certainly will generate much discussion especially among those of us who serve on Boards of Ministry and have just now figured out how to lead commissioned members toward ordination.

It will be interesting to see what the 2008 General Conference does with this report. In the meantime, let the discussion be constructive, informed and theological.

Travel Virtues

Tonight as I was watching Samantha Brown on the Travel Channel I remembered that it wasn’t too long ago that I thought that I would have seen much of the world by now in my life. My mother used to say that if travel was mentioned I would have my suitcase packed. I thought travel would always be part of my life and that it would be just one trip after another. I have always enjoyed experiencing new people and places and let them shape my understanding of the world and its peoples. Although I have had some great adventures, I have not been able to travel to the ends of the earth. I could probably create a rationale for my failure to do this, but the reality is that I have let one thing or another get in the way of this travel. I have let my passport expire and trips to Ohio consume my vacation dollars and to church-related conferences exhaust my time. As a result, in many ways I only know the world through the eyes and ears of others and have my thoughts shaped by their insights. Careful discernment has become a mandate in my life.

It is interesting to note that the younger generation has made travel a priority and have had some life-changing experiences through visiting both traditional and exotic places. Of course, for some of them this has meant dangerous trips to Iraq and Afghanistan. As our children become a more informed citizenry of the world, it is my prayer that to “do justice, love kindness and to walk humbly with God” will be a way of life for them.

Handprints

As I look at my window this morning, I see lots of little handprints, visual reminders of four little visitors in my home this past week. Even though I will wipe away these marks, as always they will leave an indelible impression on me. There have been many other handprints in my life this past week. From time spent with children, grandchildren and Ohio family at Sunset Beach to Dancing with God, Sunday worship and the Council of Ministries planning session, I have had a busy week. All of this has left little time for posting to my blog. However, it will shape my thoughts for weeks to come. Handprints come in many shapes and sizes and I give thanks for each one.

Authentic Bible Study

In today’s bullet and sound-byte culture, it seems to be difficult to help persons understand that in-depth Bible study is important to their spiritual growth and that it is important to the life of the church. Repeatedly, I hear “don’t you have a short-term study, one that doesn’t require a lot of reading?” Yes, periodically we do Bible study “lite” and it introduces participants to some basic understandings. However, this encounter with the Word is not long enough to let the stories become our stories. To be nurtured in the faith stories requires discipline of reading and prayer. Developing learning relationships – students and teachers with God and with one another – is the essential frame for all educational ministries. This means that we need to be a part of an intentional spiritual community. I continue to believe that DISCIPLE BIBLE STUDY is a model that does this and functions as a building block not only for individuals, but also for the congregation. Now the challenge is to convince others to be a part of DISCIPLE during the coming year. At this point, the interest seems to be minimal. I know that a number of folks have already participated in this study, but there are lots who have not. My prayer is that I can say the right things that will lead others to have this rich experience. I look forward to leading yet another class through this study.

Good-bye, Nathan

The First UMC staff gathered yesterday to say good-bye to Nathan, our summer intern from Duke Divinity School. We laughed, cried and ate ice cream as we remembered his few short weeks with us. As usual, Terry Sanders was able to tell the story of Nathan in her own special way. With her permission I share the following:

To Nathan...

You’re just a darling to us, although you have no hair
And that you’re leaving us so soon is more than we can bear.
We’ve loved the time you’ve shared with us in worship and in song
But to only share you for 10 weeks, tell Duke, we think it’s wrong!
We’ve more to do in First Church land and you could help us greatly
You could wear your new white alb and preach like you’ve done lately
Or you could don your fluffly wings and resurrect old “Mo”
A worship “skeeter” is just the thing to set our Sunday flow.
Your youth, warmth and charming wit have endeared you it is true
Next week will just not be the same when “Mo done and flew”
Take good care of all your gifts and use them to God’s glory
And remember that the “Nathan Summer” will be part of our story.

Godspeed, Nathan. Come back soon!

Beach Time

Yesterday, Ron and I spent some time at Huntington Beach State Park. The blue sky, gentle waves and ocean breezes made a great way to enjoy at hot, summer day. As we packed our beach bag, I chose to be unplugged for a few hours and left behind the MP3 player and cell phone. In fact, we took very little with us to the beach compared to many who were around us. As we often note, the beach paraphernalia of many persons seems excessive and getting it organized and to the beach must tax the most rugged body and spirit. Then, these same beachgoers immediately sit down and plug-in. This would not constitute a relaxing experience for me.

However, I will admit reading is part of my beach time and yesterday I read the current issue of Newsweek. Ironically, “The Sad Fate of the Comma” by Robert J. Samuelson caught my attention. Not only did he write about the demise of comma on the printed page, but used it as a social commentary about our resistance to slowing down or pausing to think a bit before moving on.

Why can’t we simply find pleasure in being at the beach? How can we recover taking time to pause and let this be time set apart? Why don't I go to the beach more often?

Misers of Miracles

Frederick Buechner, Christian author, says, “We have within us, each one of us, so much more power than we ever spend, such misers of miracles are we, such pinch-penny guardians of grace.” After reading this a few days ago, I have let it percolate and several random thoughts have resulted.

It is amazing that even when we know and claim God’s love through Jesus Christ, we ignore our hurting brothers and sisters. These times of hurt and pain often seem so overwhelming that we can’t bear to let them be part of our lives. Yet, we are called to bring the redemptive work of the cross to all. We also have the assurance that we can be instruments of God’s grace. Miracles can happen. We have the power.

Too often we reserve this power for special situations and forget the co-worker who needs some help to complete a task, the store employee who needs a smile, the child who needs an encouraging word and the family member who needs a listening ear. Instead of being misers, we can empower each by sharing who we are faithful disciples. We just have to get beyond ourselves.

Amazing grace can prevail. As pilgrims we need to discover ways to freely reveal it with those we encounter along the way.

The Model Teacher

In this season of calling persons to teach God’s Word, I wonder what we consider to be effective teaching? Jesus told of God and humanity through personal stories. Obviously, he had a creative imagination and incorporated his experiences of the world around him. He must have been a good listener, too. He understood his audience. He told his parables as a way to allow them to enter into the story. He left the conclusions and decisions to the ones who listened. It seems clear that the disciples never quite got it, but they became the Church.

I think we too often try to make our faith simple and easy to understand. We need not try to explain away the mystery, paradox and incomprehensibility of the faith. Struggling with these questions helps us define what is meaningful in our lives. It helps us establish an on-going conversation with God. If we are faithful, we must be attentive to our teaching ministry. Whom shall we call?

VBS 2007

Needless to say, Vacation Bible School leaves little time or energy to post a blog. After some rest, I can think about what has been and say that we had a great experience. The willing and talented volunteers who planned and led this year’s VBS are wonderful folks and should be commended by all. It was pure joy to see familiar and new faces of all ages join together for food, fun, fellowship and faithful learning. In fact, we had over 200 children and youth, at least 75 adult volunteers, and approximately 50-60 adults in our adult classes. What a great week!

This year’s mission emphasis was Nothing But Nets. Through a great display and Mo, the Mosquito, the story of this effort to eradicate malaria in Africa was well told and nearly $1500 was collected to buy nets. Helping one another throughout a global community is an important faith lesson and this was a good demonstration of it. Nathan, our Duke intern, led this project.

As decorations are put away and spaces return to normal, we begin thinking about next year – June 22-26, 2008 - "Beach Party, Surfin' through the Scriptures". May we continue to offer our church family and community an authentic, exciting, disciple-building event.

Doug Marlette

Yesterday, I was saddened to learn of the death of Doug Marlette. Today, I am beginning to read and hear accounts of his life and accomplishments. Among other things, I didn't realize that he and Pat Conroy were good friends and that he had written a second novel. (I really enjoyed his first one, The Bridge.) The Washington Post has an interesting story and the Charlotte Observer has a wonderful collection of past politcal cartoons. I will leave the eloquent words of remembrance to the professionals, but I know that my heart felt a bit heavy this morning when I opened the newspaper. Even if the newspapers continue to run Kudzu for awhile, it just won't be the same. Of course, Marlette's important contribution to the world of political cartoons has been lost. I trust that those near and dear to him know that the circle of grief is quite large and will be upheld by it.

7-7-07

Today’s news is the date…7-7-07. This numerical coincidence is being noted by those who are looking for a lucky day to be married and I am sure that gamblers are lining up to make bets on about anything. Toby Ward is 77 today. We recall that there are seven continents, Seven Wonders of the World and Stephen Covey’s Seven Habits… Wikepedia has a great list of the use of 7.

In Christianity, seven is the number of perfection. God rested on the seventh day, Paul lists seven gifts of the Spirit and Jesus spoke seven words from the cross. The number seven is especially prominent in the apocalyptic Book of Revelation, in which there are seven seals, seven churches and many other things numbering seven. Especially important to remember is that Jesus told Peter to forgive seventy times seven.

Heeding the message of Live Earth may be one of the better ways to observe today. It certainly would be easy to identify seven ways to reduce our personal carbon imprint.

P.S. Imagine my surprise tonight when I heard Al Gore encourage all to make a 7-point pledge to environmental responsibility during the Live Earth concert.

The Power of Play

I have been reading The Power of Play by David Elkind and will be adding this to our church library. This well-known child psychologist maintains that it is play that prepares kids for learning. However, with the emphasis of educational products and extracurricular activities, our children have lost much of the unstructured time and self-initiated games that were known to preceding generations. In fact, Elkind says that “over the past two decades, children have lost twelve hours of free time a week, including eight hours of unstructured play and outdoor activities.” He adds good information to a conversation that pediatricians, educators and grandparents are already having about this topic. Parents and teachers of pre-school children should be encouraged to read this book as he offers insight into how children learn through spontaneous, imaginative play. My sense is that families are going to have to slow down and make some changes in their life style if their children are to have this experience.

I believe that this kind of imaginative play can be supportive of spiritual development, also. "Godly play" - Jerome Berryman’s approach to letting children experience the stories of faith - is a good example of this and one that we should use more.

Watching young children play can be fascinating and knowing that they are learning what they need to know by doing so is reassuring. Elkind says that “it is only when we integrate play, love, and work that we, as children and adults, can live happy, healthy and productive lives.”

Creative Dislocation

In Theolog, a blog by Christian Century, Richard Kauffman writes of “creative dislocation”, a term that now has been perking in my mind for the last few days. What a good understanding of something many of us have or could experience. It seems to give greater validity to this experience by naming it and to encourage participation in it. Kauffman writes:

Christians often practice a little-known spiritual discipline called “creative dislocation” without realizing it: we engage in creative dislocation by going on a spiritual retreat or on a mission trip into a foreign environment—the inner city or a third-world country—where the usual markers of our lives are taken from us, and we’re subject to someone else’s way of doing things. When we’re dislocated, we begin seeing in fresh ways. We look for the familiar in the unfamiliar, and we see what is familiar to us in new ways. If we’re paying attention, we see the presence of God in new ways. (more…)

Two Years Ago

Two years ago this week, I decided that it might be interesting to do a blog about those things that I encounter day by day. In some ways, it has become a spiritual journal and certainly an exercise of contemplation and communication. Knowing that this is being read by others has meant that some things have been left unsaid. Other times, I have chosen to risk letting the reader know that my thoughts are not always Myrtle Beach mainstream. But, most importantly it has forced me to reflect on a number of topics and to seek enlightenment about many of them. With each blog post, I am able to give my daily experiences a second look and in some way or another wonder if or how they are part of my faith journey.

I have discovered that writing also involves listening to what is going on around me and that by doing so I am drawn closer to God, neighbor and self. (Mark 12:29-34). Knowing that my life is defined by what I pay attention to on my journey, I realize that I am growing in my faith. This deeper awareness has allowed me to find grace and direction as I look for the signs along the way.

Of course, I am grateful to those who have participated in this experiment by reading and responding to my blog. Thank you for your insight and thoughts. Even though I have 401 posts, I think there will be new thoughts to be shared in the days to come.

VBS Time

The VBS volunteers met tonight to prepare for this special summer happening at First Church. What a wonderful creative, dedicated group! Alex and Janna's organizational skills are making this all come together with purpose and order. Although I am quite pleased with our VBS, I often wonder if something is missing. I think that Diane Butler Bass's blog titled "The Sock Puppet Church" might have given me a hint. Maybe we should re-think the VBS in a can approach that we have all bought into during the last decade or so. Seems like this is a topic that we should include in our evaluation. In the meantime, our folks are sharing their talents and lots of time in preparation for Cokesbury's "Lift Off" I look forward to a great week!

Bottled Water

Issues that challenge our society often create personal conflict in interesting ways. The case in point for me involves drinking water. In recent years I have put aside my Diet Cokes in favor of water. For good health I have also tried to increase my water intake and this means that I buy lots of water in plastic bottles. ( I just can’t enjoy water from a drinking fountain as I am convinced too many germs live there.) However, Ron and our son, Robert, understand the environmental issues that surround this popular habit and join a growing movement to curb this practice. I am slowly beginning to realize that I need to change my ways. I will now try to recycle my bottles with tap water. I think a good Thermos bottle may be in my future.

Check out Ron and Robert’s blog posts.

Internet and the Church

I am fascinated with the possibilities of the Internet, especially as it relates to the church. Many persons use Web pages, blogs and podcasts as primary sources of information and often without discernment of credibility. I know because we hear them quoted in Bible studies and Sunday school classes. Therefore, a recent United Methodist News Service commentary by Matt Carlisle caught my eye when I read:

Today, the Internet is impacting religion as Johannes Gutenberg did with his invention of movable type printing and the publication of the Gutenberg Bible in the 15th century.

There are more than 211 million Internet users in the United States, or 69.9 percent of the population. (InternetWorldStats.com, March 07)

This and other statistics that Carlisle includes in his commentary seem to uphold my argument that we need to pay more attention to our church Website and use e-mail, text messaging etc. for more effective communication. The time has come to get serious about this.

The ABC Prayer

Sometimes the well is dry when I go to prayer and that is when I revert to the ABC prayer. I think I first learned to do this as a teenager at church camp. It is amazing how the thoughts and words begin to flow when triggered by focusing on the use of the alphabet. The gift of this happens when it is not used frequently lest one uses the same words. I will admit that “x” is something like (e)xtra and “z” is zeal or zealous.

Awesome God, be with me and call me this day to faithful living. Even when I know you, I confess that I have fears of that which is before me. God, have mercy upon me. I pray that I may be an instrument of justice and peace and may be known as your servant. Lead me and let nothing distract me from opening my mind to you. Prepare me and quicken my heart to faithful living. Help me to reach out to those who are seeking you. Thank you (u) for the many blessings in my life. Let me share your vast love with patience and wisdom. With (e)xcitement let me care for your creation and live into today with zeal. Amen.

A Pious Nation?

Tom Krattenmaker says in a recent USA Today editorial -

"Though the United States is considered a deeply religious country, a glance at America today reveals a society divided by wealth and poverty, tainted by violence and often oblivious to the common good. A country of believers? Perhaps. But saying is one thing, doing quite another. "

I find a lot of truth within this editorial, but encourage others to read and reflect on it.

The Green Grass of Summer

What a joy to see William and Ethan enjoy rolling in the green grass! It certainly brings back a lot of wonderful memories of my childhood. My soul is lifted and I discover that as in most of us there is still some childhood left.

Home Run!

Ron and I went to see our church softball team play the other night. Sorry to report that there were few other fans there to see them win their game. However, as always the Booths were there to cheer for the team. It was great seeing the guys having fun and I especially enjoyed that our team was intergenerational. It obviously brings together some folks that would probably never know one another otherwise. Our Duke intern, Nathan, is also playing with our team. What a great way for him to connect with these folks! A big thank you to Jim Magann for organizing this activity each year.

The Middle Doors

According to Robert Schnase, Bishop of the Missouri Conference of The United Methodist Church, names five fundamental practices critical to congregations that fulfill their mission to make disciples of Jesus Christ for the transformation of the world. In his book, Five Practices of Fruitful Congregations, he entitles them as radical hospitality, passionate worship, intentional faith development, risk-taking mission and service, and extravagant generosity. Each one of these generates thought and reflection. However, it is his comments about “The Middle Doors” that especially interest me.

“The pastor and staff soon realized that “the front door” was working well as people felt invited and welcomed. But they were slipping out “the back door” because they were discovering too many of “the middle doors” were closed tight.” p. 66-67

Schnase goes on to say that after being warmly welcomed, new members found the classes, organizations, choirs, studies and groups within the church to be cliquish and uninterested in welcoming new members. They didn’t feel needed. New members need to find meaningful connections in small groups beyond the worship experience.

Are our church’s “middle doors” open?

Nature Deficit Disorder

This morning I opened my e-mail to find this message from my sister. With her permission, I share it.

This morning I began a new book. I have been looking forward to reading Barbara Kingsolver's new book Animal, Vegetable and Miracle since first knowing of its existence. So this morning I treated myself to opening the front cover and commencing to read. Though I have only read a very small portion, I recommend this to you. While at Janet's the other evening I voiced a thought concerning how we could try to connect our children to the earth through a summer gardening project (possibly as a different way to teach love of earth and creation). Barbara's latest book confirms this as something we should be doing. Everywhere I turn I am reminded that this is a focus we are missing. I read my brother-in-law's "Earth Focus", I hear my nephew's thoughts concerning grazing on the family farm, I have seen the pictures of young children working a community garden, I see the gas prices skyrocketing, I see the bulldozers indiscriminately reshaping the land, I see fertile farmland being subdivided or covered with black top, etc. What I don't see is the church taking a very proactive stance to protect and guard God's beautiful earth and teaching our children stewardship of God's earth Recently I have really been hit over the head and am feeling nudged and/or clobbered with this as a focus for some exciting teaching opportunities. I am not sure of the the hows and the wheres etc. but I am sure this is something we should be pursuing. The night the children came to my home for our end of the year party, I was delighted to see their utter enjoyment of having an open green space in which to run and frolic. I fear their experiences with the joys of nature are too few. Enough preaching. Please ponder. Mary

I also recommend Last Child in the Woods-Saving Our Children from Nature Deficit Disorder by Richard Louv. This is in our church library.

Garrison Keillor

My resident environmentalist shares a lot of interesting information and conventional wisdom with me. Today's offering comes from Garrison Keillor.

"You look at the Amish and you see the past, but you might also be looking at the future. Our great-grandchildren, faced with facts their ancestors were able to ignore, might have to do without the internal-combustion engine and figure out how to live the subsistence life. Maybe someone will invent a car that runs on hydrogen or horse manure, or maybe people will travel on beams of light like in old radio serials, but the realist in you thinks otherwise."

The Last Day

Annual Conference concluded yesterday in a flurry of activity. Election of delegates to General and Jurisdictional Conferences consumed much of our time. Ken will be going to the Jurisdictional Conference in 2008 at Lake Junaluska. [In the United States, the UMC is divided into five areas or jurisdictions: - Northeastern, Southeastern, North Central, South Central and Western. These provide some program and leadership training events for constituent Conferences. Every four years the jurisdictional conferences meet to elect new bishops and select members of general boards and agencies.]

The budget for 2008 totaling $16,995,194 was adopted. This is a 2.8% increase over the previous year. This includes our World Service apportionment and other designated funds. Conference reports including the one from The Council on Finance and Administration are on-line.

As always, the fixing of appointments is the last act of Annual Conference and this is done in the context of worship. Ken, Scarlett and I will be at First UMC for the coming year. The Bishop’s sermon text was John 13 (foot washing passage). She very effectively reminded us of our call to servanthood in this sending forth service. In fact, I have ordered a tape of this sermon and will be glad to share it.

The 2008 South Carolina Annual Conference will meet in Florence on June 1-4.

Resolutions and Other Matters

As often happens at Annual Conference, a simple matter becomes cumbersome and time consuming. As I had predicted, there were questions and concerns about The Methodist Oaks now being marketed as The Oaks, a United Methodist Community. The Executive Director and Trustee Chair made a compelling case for the change. In reality this is a decision that the Annual Conference can only question, but cannot reverse. Once again we forgot the role of our Board of Trustees of our various institutions.

A resolution to require churches to have Safe Sanctuary Policies was passed after listening to those who don’t fully grasp the necessity for this. It is hard for me to understand that anyone would question the need for this in their churches.

The resolution about asking our State Legislature to remove the Confederate Flag from the State House grounds generated passionate debate, but did pass. I am glad that a resolution to support the UMC Global Aids Fund passed without debate.

It is interesting to note that there were no resolutions about environmental matters. Our Environmental Stewardship Committee at First UMC needs to consider submitting one or more resolutions another year to increase awareness and action in our churches concerning these issues.

Worship, Bible study, election of General Conference delegates and other agenda items were also part of our day. Being a lay or clergy member of Annual Conference requires lots of patience and the ability to endure fanny fatigue. One more day….

A Great Day of Service

Wearing yellow t-shirts, United Methodists were a visible presence across the City of Florence today (Tuesday). This afternoon members of the Annual Conference could be found participating in a variety of service projects. From yard clean-up and home repair to visitation and letter writing, we became the hands and feet of the Gospel. I was part of a group that visited an adult day care center and am glad that we spent this time reaching out to others. May we do this each day wherever are.

As usual, Annual Conference is a special time for being with those who have been important parts of our lives through the years. I have especially enjoyed seeing friends from Columbia and Lexington and to hear what is happening in their congregations and personal lives. It is a joy to see some of the new members finding their identity within our conference and beginning to shape who we are.

I was pleased that Russell Davis was recognized for his ten years of ministry with our camps and retreats. He has assumed a camping ministry position in North Georgia. I will miss working with him. As a strong advocate of Asbury Hills, I hope that the Conference heard his gentle words about the opportunity we have been given to touch lives with Jesus through our camping ministries and beautiful properties. We need to take care of these gifts.

Annual Conferenc 2007

With the theme- “To Serve the Present Age”- the 2007 South Carolina Annual Conference is meeting in Florence this week. Bishop Taylor continues to lead us into new and different ways of doing things beginning with the site of this event. We are at the Florence Civic Center instead of Wofford or Claflin campus. All seems to be going well with this location to this point. Of course, some of us love the idea that it is only an hour and a half from home.

Another break with tradition was that the ordination service was on Sunday evening. This includes the licensing of local pastors, commissioning of probationary elders and deacons, and the ordinations of full elders and full deacons. I was especially pleased to see my friend, George, licensed as a local pastor. He will serve Poplar UMC. It is hard to believe that I was ordained a deacon ten years ago.

Today we began electing delegates to 2008 General Conference. The lay members have already elected their first delegate, Carolyn Briscoe. As this process unfolds, it is interesting to see which names come to the forefront. Right now most leaders among the clergy are middle-aged white male elders. I hope we represent ourselves in a more inclusive way.

It is almost impossible to reflect on tonight’s worship with an open mind as First UMC was responsible for it. Ken preached a dynamic sermon and Tim assembled an amazing choir from the area and led them in music that celebrated the 300th anniversary of Charles Wesley’s birth. Both Scarlett and I were liturgists. We believe that we offered a meaningful worship experience and it certainly warmed our hearts. It will be an important part of our personal memories for a long time. Thank you, Bishop, for inviting us.

Rain, Rain!

As Longfellow wrote, “Into each life some rain must fall.” Today, I understand this reality. The earth is parched and the plants are suffering. The dark skies (and the Weather Channel) predict relief. Although I could use this as a metaphor upon which to reflect, sometimes what is literal is more important. Let the rains fall.

This connection and concern for the earth probably had its beginning in seeing my father, a farmer, watch the skies for much needed rain. In recent years, the writings of Wendell Berry have kept me sensitive to stewardship of the Earth and all of God’s creation. Currently, I am reading his book of essays, What Are People For? I think Berry is a prophetic voice and his works need to be read by more people. This rainy day would be a good time to start.

God's Signs

I recently read a blog about church signs that seems like a good thing to share on Friday. The slide show with commentary is worth viewing. They truly are signs of the time and could be a good catalyst for some interesting discussion.

The Joy of Knitting

Along with many other women (and a few men), I have rediscovered the joy of knitting. Primarily, I knit prayer shawls that are given to those who need to be reminded of God’s abiding presence. Other persons I know knit beautiful scarves and assorted items for family and friends. Many do some form of charity knitting – chemo caps, infant caps, blanket squares, scarves and lap robes. It is interesting that a many of the knitted items become gifts of love to others. That topic in itself would be interesting to explore. All of this seems to have generated novels with characters that knit. Debbie Macomber’s A Good Yarn is one that I just read and enjoyed. The Friday Night Knitting Club by Kate Jacobs is in the stack of books to be read by my bed. There are also devotional books that focus on knitting. Websites abound that share patterns, sell yarn and needles and give instructions and tips. Yarn shops and knitting groups are popular places to create important friendships.

Somewhere along the way I found this quote by an unknown author that expresses my interest in knitting:

“The act of knitting is a meditation, for the work of the hands compels the mind to rest, and gives free rein to movements of the soul."

Memorial Day 2007

In the quietness of this morning, I remember Memorial Days of the past as noted in last year's blog. I was touched by the above editoral cartoon in the Sun-News and the early morning TV news stories about those who have given their lives for this country. Today's number of US soldier's lives lost in Iraq War is 3455. Lots to think about...

Ending war is not just laying down arms, but addressing the issues that incite conflict and war. Perhaps this is the year that we need to observe Peace with Justice Sunday (June 3, 2007) and be called to action by it.

Church Office

The inner workings of the church are usually a revelation to those who join a church staff including ours. In many ways, our church office is like most other offices. Personnel, policy and procedure matters shape what gets accomplished. Human short-comings sometime thwart our efforts and frustration creates tensions that have to be addressed. Newcomers can be disappointed in finding less than an idyllic setting. So, as we add new staff members it is important to lead them through an understanding of this reality without discouraging them. It becomes an opportunity for the rest of us to re-evaluate our way of being a church staff and it can be a growing point for us. So it has been with the addition of Amy and Ron. They are a blessing to us.

As our Duke intern, Nathan, joins us, we face similar concerns. We need to give him a realistic view of ministry from the inside, but not cause him to question his call to ministry. Our hope is that he will gain a healthy understanding of the complexities of parish ministry and be better prepared to address them in the years ahead. During his time with us, he can help us understand what it means to be in ministry in Myrtle Beach today. Nathan can be very important to how the staff works together to share God's love.

How a pilgrim meets and greets those along the way helps define the journey. "What does the Lord require of you but to do justice, and to love kindness, and to walk humbly with your God?"
Micah 6:8.

Kudzu

I must confess that my day goes better if I read the newspaper comics in the morning. They seem to put a lot of things in proper perspective. Some are poignant and others funny, but most have a message worth noting. I will admit that a few of the newer ones challenge me. However, as a NPR junkie, I did enjoy Kudzu this morning and want to share it.

Welcome, Nathan

Our Duke Divinity summer intern arrived this past weekend. Nathan has just completed his first year of seminary and is seeking to further explore his call to parish ministry through this ten-week field experience. I think it is quite appropriate that he begins and ends his time with us in worship. He has spent the last two days meeting and greeting church members and staff and trying to learn a bit about First UMC and Myrtle Beach. I am sure it is all a bit overwhelming, but his winning smile is still in place and he is making plans to teach, preach, visit and to be a part of other assorted activities.

I am so pleased how this congregation takes seriously its role as a teaching church and willingly shares in this experience. By doing so, we certainly are helping to shape the future not only for Nathan, but for the church as well. This is an awesome task and I am glad to be involved with the passing of the mantle. I am curious what congregants think it important for him to know. For me, I plan to help him understand the importance of the teaching role of a pastor and being a servant.

Books for the Road

During my recent road trips, I have listened to two books that have recalled memories of people, places and events from my past. Each has given me an insight into my personal quirks and idiosyncrasies in an enjoyable sort of way and I recommend these books to others.

The Life and Times of the Thunderbolt Kid: A Memoir by Bill Bryson is a delicious account of growing up during the 1950s in Des Moines, Iowa. Not only could I readily visualize his story, but I could also see the department stores, restaurants, schools and homes of my childhood. With humor, Bryson told his story of family and friends and how they shaped his life during this time. I enjoyed similar reflection of my own story as he told his and realized how this can be both fun and therapeutic.

Recipes From My Life by Pat Conroy combines two mainstays of Southern living – cooking and storytelling. As Conroy recounts his adventures of cooking, he tells much of his life’s journey. With detailed descriptions of classic Southern dishes like shrimp and grits and macaroni and cheese to fine European cuisine, he tantalizes the taste buds and taunts the culinary skills of this listener. Interwoven are the stories of his dysfunctional childhood and interesting adult life. In listening to his story, I remember my mother teaching me to cook, the wonderful breads and desserts made by my grandmother, the special family gatherings and favorite foods from my childhood. Add to this the requests from Robert for molasses cookies and Dan for beef stew, I realize the sacredness of food prepared carefully and shared with others.

Important Reminder

From a Jim Wallis blog -

Throughout American history, church leaders have spoken out on the vital moral issues of the day - whether it be slavery, civil rights, or in defense of the family and the dignity of human life. One of the enduring lessons the Reverend Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr. taught is the power a religious community can have in society. Reverend King said, "The church must be reminded that it is not the master or the servant of the state, but rather the conscience of the state. It must be the guide and the critic of the state. If the church does not recapture its prophetic zeal, it will become an irrelevant social club without moral or spiritual authority."

Bikers etc.

I seem to be having difficulty writing a blog this week and I am not sure why. Perhaps it is the roar of bikers outside my window or maybe it is the need to multi-task. (I know, Ron, this is more appropriately known as rapid refocus.) However, yesterday I was at a Spartanburg Methodist College Board of Trustee’s meeting and the driving time gave me plenty of time to think. Included in my thoughts were the following:

-No matter how much we talk about the carbon imprint we are leaving on the Earth, most of us like the independence of driving ourselves and traveling alone. The four SMC trustees from this area drove separately to Spartanburg. Although we are advocates of being environmentally friendly, many of us haven’t adopted such practices. Lord, have mercy upon us.

-I am a firm believer in maintaining Sunday school during the summer and many within our congregation agree. If we don’t, the discipline of learning is often lost and class members become strangers. However, providing this ministry effectively is the challenge. The children need familiar faces and routine. Yet, their teachers need a respite. Youth that don’t want to be part of the summer visitation/music activity do not have an alternative. Adults are caught up in the Myrtle Beach summer scene and elect to do other things on Sunday morning. What are our options as we prepare for summer Sunday school? Lord, have mercy upon us.

-Nathan, our summer intern, is arriving this weekend. For this to be a good teaching/learning experience for all, we need to define more clearly both sides of this relationship. Our lay committee will meet on Sunday evening with Nathan and work on this. In our effort to teach our interns, we sometimes fail to learn from them. They can provide an understanding of the church and pastoral leadership into the future. Are we listening? Lord, have mercy upon us.

-Listening to multiple news accounts of world events can be depressing. Why are Christians so reluctant to be voices for peace and justice? Lord, have mercy upon us.

A Trip to Durham

I spent the last couple of days at Duke Divinity School in preparation for our field education student, Nathan Kilbourne. This year we are part of the Teaching Congregation program that offers an added experience for those who are named Duke Scholars in recognition of their academic achievement and promise of future ministry. Although I enjoyed supervising our interns the last two summers, I now have a greater respect for this program after meeting and hearing the faculty that oversee it. First UMC has undertaken very important work by offering this contextual learning experience that helps further define a student’s call and prepare him/her for ministry. Nathan will begin his field experience on May 20 and be with us for ten weeks. He will be sampling the realities of congregational life in a variety of ways.

Some observations and thoughts from my Duke adventure:
- Duke seminary students are some of the youngest in the country and I certainly am a mature minister.
- Students not only study the usual basic courses, but also enter into meaningful community and together explore what it means to be in ministry.
- Environmental and social justice issues are major concerns and calls to activism.
- It is exciting to think about what our future church might be.
- God does live in Duke Chapel.
- It was a good time for me to evaluate my own ministry and consider what I need to be studying to further my effectiveness. I am still thinking about this and will take suggestions.
- A meaningful pilgrimage can be made by traveling I-95 and I-40.

The Power of the Spoken Word

I frequently read Issac Bailey's blog. Sometimes it is related to what he is discussing in his column and other times he writes about what others are saying. Either way I often find it thought provoking. This week he linked to a report from media researchers at Indiana University about Bill O'Reilly's style of news commentary. Not only do we have to ask some serious questions about O'Reilly's popularity, but also have to realize the power this kind of spoken word currently holds over our culture.

The Bishops Come to Town

The Council of Bishops of the United Methodist Church is meeting at Springmaid Beach this week. The South Carolina Conference is serving as host and some of First Church members are helping in a variety of ways. Yet, we know little of what is happening because this episcopal gathering is not a secular news event. So, it was with great interest when I read the UMNS account of the address by Bishop Janice Riggle Huie, president of the Council Bishop. She called for our denomination to reclaim its heritage as a Christian movement. “The United Methodist movement invites belief in Jesus Christ over the cultural gods, the practice of forgiveness over hate, peace over violence, a better life over poverty, health over sickness.” She challenged the bishops to be leaders in making this happening. However, I find it a challenge for us all to hear.

One More Thought

Although Confirmation Sunday, Vacation Bible School, Dancing with God, Duke Intern, and some other things are keeping me busy this week, I find my mind returning to the recent Diakonia Celebration in Orlando. From presentations and sermons to random conversations there seem to have been some seeds planted that are already growing and that may begin bearing fruit in my life. My friend, Kathy James, who also attended this event has posted some similar thoughts on her blog. I am always interested in what she has to say and it is great to stay connected in this way.

Africa

During the last few years my heart has been drawn to the people of Africa. It may have begun with learning about Africa University, hearing the stories of missioners to this part of the world or meeting persons of Zimbabwe, Cameroon, or the Sudan. Recently, the news accounts of Darfur and the gruesome human suffering therein have been lessons in political power struggles. The Nothing But Nets campaign has captured my attention and has led me to encourage others to be support this effort to eradicate malaria. As the deacons gathered in Orlando last week, we offered support to an effort by deacons to offer hope to HIV/AIDS patients in Zimbabwe. In the early morning hours on Saturday, we walked on behalf of this effort and gave our monetary gifts as signs of caring for our brothers and sisters in Africa. I am not sure what this confluence of the stories of Africa means for me. Am I to visit this land of great humanitarian need? Am I to study and advocate about the needs of these long, abused countries? Am I to share more of my resources as signs of care and concern for these children of God?

Another aspect to my interest in Africa pertains to the rapid growth of Methodism in Africa and how this could shape to our denomination in the years to come. The Chicago Tribune reported this in an interesting story this past week. As Maxie Dunnam says, “The issue is how are we going to understand ourselves as a world church?”

Reminder!

Today is the day to do something to help prevent malaria, especially in Africa. I will be joining many other United Methodists in donating the cost of my lunch to Nothing But Nets as part of Malaria Awareness Day.

Amelia Island Retreat

Our time on Amelia Island is about to come to an end. We stayed on the Intracoastal Waterway in the Fernandina Historic District and enjoyed walking the streets in this area. Many of the homes were built during the Victorian era and have been restored to their former uniqueness. See Ron’s blog. The seafood has been tasty and the nights have been restful. The skies have been blue and the sunsets beautiful. It has been wonderful time to reflect on the convocation that I attended the previous few days.

Bishop Gregory Palmer spoke about the Good Samaritan during Sunday morning worship. Within his well-crafted sermon he highlighted the innkeeper as a metaphor for the church. The innkeeper responded to a need and worked with the Samaritan to take care of the wounded. He trusted that he would be paid in full. We can assume that he might have gone the next step and used his influence in the community to campaign for safer traveling conditions. These words come only from the mental notes that I made, but I seem to keep pondering their significance to the life of this deacon and the church she serves.

Earth Day

Yesterday, much of our hotel was without water. Needless to say, it was a major inconvenience. What a subtle reminder of how a third of the Earth’s population lives in “water stressed” countries and that the world water crisis is one of the largest public health issues of our time. According to The United Nations nearly 1.1 billion people lack access to safe drinking water and this lack of clean, safe drinking water is estimated to kill almost 4,500 children per day.

Our son, Robert, is a civil engineer who specializes in water resources. He shares about the “water crunch” through a blog. As we celebrate Earth Day we need to consider whether we are part of the problem or the solution and give thanks for God's creative goodness.

Celebrating Diakonia

I am at a national gathering of United Methodists deacons and diaconal ministers in Orlando. In addition to dialogue, worship, outreach and Sabbath time, we are celebrating the thirtieth year of the office of diaconal ministers and the tenth year of the order of deacons in the UMC. From the time Ron and I left Myrtle Beach, it has been an experience of observation and reflection.

From radio news accounts along our I-95 journey, we concluded that it is far easier to buy a gun in this country than to get good mental health care. After traveling with the multitude of large trucks, we realized that no one must buy locally produced food or merchandise. The environmental footprint of motor homes and travel trailers must be quite large from the number we saw.

Meeting and greeting is always an important part of our gatherings. Sharing our stories and learning of new opportunities within the ministry of a deacon become points of reflection. Many deacons in attendance are shaping their roles to meet the emerging needs of the congregations and places in which they serve. Although I sense that I am doing something important within First UMC, perhaps we (clergy and laity) need to be in dialogue about my role? I have no preconceived thoughts about what any change might be.

Words of Wisdom

Today I encountered two quotations that have directed my thoughts. With the excessive commentary about the Don Imus incident, Duke rugby team charges and Virginia Tech murders, this Quaker saying seems appropriate to consider: "Do not speak unless you can improve upon the silence."

As we focus on environmental issues, there are so many things to consider. Perhaps these words of Martin Luther share the most important truth: "God writes the Gospel, not in the Bible alone, but also on trees, and in the flowers and clouds and stars."

May we live in God's grace as we struggle to understand headlines and commentaries.

Breaking News!

One more time the breaking news banner across the screen captures our attention and we learn of another tragedy. Today it is the Virginia Tech murders. The pictures and sounds of it all don’t make sense to us. We shake our heads in disbelief and our eyes brim with tears. How can someone go on such a rampage and take so many lives? We question a culture that evokes this insane response to someone’s despair. As details are revealed and accusations made, families and friends are grieving the loss of loved ones. We are hearing “they should have….” Larry King and Dr. Phil are analyzing what has happened. Our hearts are heavy. When will this violence end? Help us, O God, to claim our faith and to live into the hope and promise of tomorrow.

Children's Sermons

This morning it was my turn to do the children's sermon. I continually struggle with what this needs to be. I believe there should be some substance to the message, "not cotton candy in a religious wrapper" as voiced by some Christian educators. Some of my pet peeves include playing to adult humor, embarrassing children, using adult language and object lessons that make no sense to a child's literal mind. But, how can this be done in a few minutes with a wide age range of children and no time for genuine dialogue? I read the experts, listen to workshop leaders and still remain frustrated. I am glad that we at First Church try to do something for the sermon that relates to the text. This helps identify the children's sermon as part of the whole and give children the understanding that they have a special place in our community. Also, I hope that what is said opens the door to further conversation in the hours or days ahead. Therefore, perhaps the best that we can do is to leave them with a single question and/or a thought to ponder - a spiritual nugget. I have also found it helpful to name and see the children in my mind and heart as I prepare these sermons. This seems to give me insight as to what might be signifcant to them and to their relationship with God. It also reminds me of the importance of this part of our worship. "Let the children come..."

God's Earth

In his retirement, my husband has focused his mind and energies on environmental issues. By doing so, Ron makes family and friends aware of matters that are important to the well-being of all. He also gives much time to the Enviromnental Stewardship Committee at First UMC which shares information and concerns about being responsible citizens of God's creation. He now invites us to read some of his discoveries on his new blog, Earth Focus.

According to the UMC Social Principles (Para. 160) -
"All creation is the Lord's and we are responsible for the ways in which we use and abuse it. Water, air, soil, minerals, energy resoureces, plants, animal life and space are to be valued and conserved because they are God's creation and not soley because they are useful to human beings."

Save a Life

As noted in several of my past blogs, Nothing But Nets, the global campaign to save lives by preventing malaria, has captured my heart. So it is with great interest that I note that United Methodists are being encouraged to observe Malaria Awareness Day on April 25th by supporting Nothing But Nets by donating the cost of a lunch. Of course, I have shared this information with others and I am glad to know that this will be promoted throughout First UMC.

-Every 30 seconds, a child dies in sub-Saharan Africa because of malaria.
-9 out of 10 deaths caused by malaria occur in Africa.

A $10 donation goes directly toward the purchase, distribution, and education about the proper us of these bed nets, and the Gates Foundation will match each donation, net for net.

In addition to supporting this life-saving campaign, United Methodists will be praying for the children of Africa, for those suffering with malaria, and for global health. From my perspective, this day is an important one to observe. We can make a difference!

Easter

The following words are framed and hang above my computer in my office. The author is unknown although I have read similar comments credited to several different persons. They inspire me daily.

Hope is stronger than memory.
Salvation is stronger than sin.
Forgiveness is stronger than bitterness.
Reconciliation is stronger than hatred.
Light is stronger than darkness.
Resurrection is stronger than crucifixion.
The open tomb is stronger than the bloodied cross.
The risen Lord is stronger than the dead Jesus.
Easter is stronger than Good Friday.
Hope is stronger than memory.

We are the Easter people.
We are the people of hope.
We are the people of the open tomb,
The risen Lord, and new life in Christ.

Chilly Easter

The weather gurus are predicting record breaking cold temperatures for Easter. My mother reports that it is to be colder in Ohio than it was for Christmas or New Year’s Day. Explanations abound for this anomaly and we all feel it to be incongruent with our understanding of how Easter should be. However, perhaps it is just a reminder that we are given new life no matter what circumstances surround us when we embrace the Word of God as known through the life and death of Jesus Christ?

Maundy Thursday

When I have trouble sleeping, it usually means that all is not well with my soul. Such has been this week. I know that I am struggling with the Holy Week scriptures. The shadows are lengthening and darkness is falling across my heart. Everything seems to be upsetting and of crisis proportions. Maybe I am like the disciples; I just don’t quite get it. However, I don’t think that I am the only one.

In our continuing effort to help parents be a part of their children’s faith development, we created a Walk with Jesus for Holy Week. Modeled on the Stations of the Cross, we created ten different stations in our classroom area for children and parents to explore the story of Jesus. Families have been invited to participate at one of three scheduled times. Jamie Eagerton provided the leadership for this project and did a great job of making the stations. To date, her children are the only ones that have experienced this Walk with Jesus. Maybe tomorrow other parents will take this opportunity to allow their children to discover that Holy Week is a time to be set aside for a special time with Jesus.

In an effort to redeem this week for me, I am prayerfully reading, reading and reading. I especially enjoyed this blog by Diana Butler Bass and commend it to others to consider all the resurrections they have seen.

Monday-Holy Week

As I walk through this week, I find myself repeating the simple prayer known as the Jesus Prayer – “Lord Jesus, Son of God, have mercy on me a sinner.” The more I say these words the more I realize how much I need Jesus and that I am falling short of Christ’s teachings each day. It helps me to “pray without ceasing” as I am faced with decisions and actions. Acknowledging my sin keeps me humble and accountable to Christ. By his blood he saved me and I depend on his grace and mercy. “Lord Jesus, Son of God, have mercy on me, a sinner.”

Palm Sunday Quiz

Discovered this quiz about the Gospel accounts of Jesus triumphal entry into Jerusalem. Good to check what the Bible really says about this event.

Holy Week Begins

Today, the children wave the palm branches and the music is magnificent, but the grim reality of Holy Week is lurking in the recesses of our minds. Although we look forward to Easter, there is hesitancy on our part to enter into this time of suffering and death that is the necessary prelude. In this dark and difficult time, we seek to participate more fully in the unfolding story of Christ’s redemptive act of love. Walking in the way of the cross calls us to love God and to love our neighbors as ourselves. It also means that we need to suffer death before resurrection can occur. This is part of the pilgrim journey for us this Holy Week. Like Jesus, we give ourselves up to death, so that we, too, can be resurrected. We die to sin, to selfish ways, to all that has held us captive. We let go of our need to control, of our anger and our envy, of our love of power, status, and wealth. May God’s grace and mercy guide and direct us during this Holy Week so that we can declare with certainty on this coming Sunday that we are an Easter people.

Barbara Brown Taylor

In recent years, I have enjoyed reading Barbara Brown Taylor’s sermons and other writings. Not only do I find them instructive as I try to improve my own preaching, but also important to the nurturing of my faith. Her use of words to express theological thought and reflection speaks to my soul. So, I was saddened when I learned about her latest book, Leaving Church, and her decision to leave the pulpit. Reading this book has given me much to ponder and has become an important part of my Lenten journey.

As I began to read about Barbara’s experiences that led her to discover that God’s call on her life was outside the local parish, I found much to which I could relate and understand. I almost became afraid that perhaps I was being invited to join her on her new path and was apprehensive as each chapter revealed more of her story. It was with a sense of relief when I came to the end of her story and realized that although I could claim some of the truths of which she writes, I still believe that I am where God calls me to be, the church. I also realize that she has not closed the door in her leaving church. However, once again I heard a strong message about the importance of observing Sabbath. This intentional encounter with God is a necessity if I am to be honest and authentic with God, myself and those I meet along the way.

P.S. Barbara concludes her book with a great recommended reading list that I plan use for my future reading. I think that we need to make sure that we have these books are in our library.

Wedding Traditions

Probably the most frequently heard comment following Sarah and Andy’s wedding was that it certainly reflected Sarah’s tastes. She wore an exquisite dress and stylish hairstyle reminiscent of the 30’s and 40’s, used Rhapsody in Blue as the processional and had a male friend as one of her attendants. Andy’s friend, Ana, was one of the groom’s attendants. Yet, it was obvious that tradition was important to them, also. They were married at Cove United Methodist Church with a traditional service and surrounded by family and friends.

The wedding cake was an interesting juxtaposition of new and old. Sarah and Andy choose an unconventional cake design, but incorporated the family tradition of using a silver tray that has been part of all family weddings since my great-grandparents were married in 1893. (My wedding cake was on it and it was part of Rob and Dan’s weddings, also.)

From my perspective family was an important part of this wedding. Grandparents, aunts, uncles, and cousins came from near and far to be a part of this celebration and to offer blessings on this day. May this serve as a foundation of love and nurture for the marriage of Sarah and Andy.

Traveling Mercies

We are in Cleveland this weekend for my niece’s wedding. As family and friends gather, we give thanks for safe travel as we have come from near and far. Becoming acquainted with Andy’s family and reacquainted with some of our own family is part of this wedding event. We are especially happy to be with Mike and his family as he is usually in some far off place with the US Army when our family gathers. Annaka is so excited about this wedding as only a four year old can be. She wants to know if Sarah will ride in a carriage. Brides and princesses are the same in her mind. However, we miss my parents whose health prevented them from attending. In fact, since arriving we have learned that my mother is in the hospital again. Of course, we will be checking on her before returning to South Carolina.

Ad Board Report

At each Administrative Board meeting I give a a report related to my ministry. These are some of the notes I shared this past Tuesday at our meeting.

-Much of my ministry focuses on the work of Council on Ministries. As Jean Clemmons reported, much is happening in our work areas and these folks are to be be commended for their commitment to telling the story effectively in a variety of ways.

-A strong teaching ministry is vital to the life of the church. That is an assumption with which most would agree. However, from time to time there is debate about what that needs to look like. Therefore, I share this thought with you from a Christian education professor at Perkins Theological Seminar:

“When the church is reticent to teach with clear authority, then both the content and the delivery systems of Christian education at all levels become dominated by what sells to consumers in the marketplace. Content gets based simply on popularly expressed personal needs, as if modern people clearly know their deepest needs.”
Susanne Johnson – Christian Spiritual Formation in the Church and Classroom

-I am assuming some new responsibilities with the Snowbirds/Seagulls in the fall. We have an active committee already planning for next year and I look forward to being with this delightful part of our congregation.

-Today at a clergy gathering I was challenged by someone that knows the dark side of living through HIV/AIDS and drug addiction as he said the following: “When are we going to see you in the neighborhood?” Ouch! So, may I always remember that when I claim Jesus Christ I am called to go out into the world. Let me not get too comfortable sitting under the steeple.

Ethan's Birthday

On Thursday we celebrated Ethan’s first birthday. Our youngest grandchild is developing a winsome personality as he toddles around inspecting his widening world and like the others has captured our hearts. However, when it was time for the cake ritual, it was serious business. This is just one of many rituals that will become part of his life. One of the joys of being a grandparent is that I get to help shape them and be a part of his memory of them. Once again I realize that with Annaka, William, Jack and Ethan come some important responsibilities.

Religious Illiteracy

In my Internet wanderings, I discovered this USA TODAY story about a new book, Religious Literacy, What Every American Needs to Know, by Stephen Prothero. As chairman of the religion department at Boston University, he is aware of how culturally illiterate we are about core beliefs, sacred stories, and symbols of Christianity and other world religions. To prove this he includes a test that dramatically makes his point. He contends that such ignorance is dangerous to our democracy because ill-informed citizens make poor choices as they set the course of the country. This article includes other interesting comments about the need for public schools to offer religion as part of their curriculum. Although I find these thoughts compelling, I feel that we also need to take more seriously the teaching of religion in our churches and homes. I wonder how many in our congregation could pass Prothero’s test?

Hang It On The Cross

Recently in my devotional reading (ALIVE NOW-March/April 1995), I discovered a most interesting thought attributed to author, Madeleine L’Engle. In commenting about when competing claims upon our lives become overwhelming, she said that a 19th century Russian priest counseled his people to take what was too heavy for them and hang it on the cross. She has found this to be an important bit of advice and says that at five o’clock in the evening she does this. According to L’Engle, “I hang it all on the cross. If I had to take it home with me, that would mean I didn’t think God could take care of it. So I leave it there. If I’m meant to pick it up in the morning, it will be there. And if I’m not, it won’t be there.” Therefore she advises, “Hand it over to God and let it be. If God wants you to have it in the morning, God will give it to you.”

So during this time of Lent am I ready to do this as an act of faith? What worries do I need to hang on the cross?

Daylight Savings Time

I guess the idea of daylight savings time has some merit, but I sure know that it messes with my biological clock for about a week when we spring forward or fall back. However, my most immediate concern is that I make it to church on time tomorrow. The sticky notes are already in strategic spots to remind me to re-set clocks later today. All of this leads me to think about the passage of time. What happens to it? I can’t believe that we are in the third month of 2007. Am I living into God’s purpose or wasting this gift of time? Maybe it is time to re-set my spiritual clock and more closely note my participation in the Christian story? When my mortal time ends, will someone be able to say, “Well-done, good and faithful servant”?