Traveling Mercies

Saturday brings its own set of tasks to be done, but it also gives me a chance to write about the last few days. Early Thursday morning I began a four and a half hour trip to Spartanburg for the trustee meeting at Spartanburg Methodist College. The beautiful, sunny day certainly served as a reminder of God's creative goodness. It also reminded me of my responsibility to be a good steward of this. It is almost overwhelming when one thinks of all the issues in this realm. However, each of us is guilty of conspicuious consumption of natural resources. Conservation and recycling matters must be addressed by all. How should we do this in the life of the church?

The Board of Trustees had a good meeting. Construction of a new dorm has begun, pre-enrollment figures for fall look good, the one million dollar challenge grant has been met, and new degree explorations continue. One concern is maintaining a Board of Trustees that will meet the needs of SMC as current trustees rotate off the board. One challenge has been that The Discipline requires that 60% of the trustees of our church related institutions be United Methodists. It is also interesting to note that only 14% of the revenue comes from the United Methodist Church. As I become more fully aware of the role that this school makes in the lives of its students, I am honored to be able to serve as a trustee.

I stayed in Columbia Thursday evening with my grandson, William. It is hard to believe that he is nearly three years old. We enjoyed playing with blocks and reading books. I was most impressed with his mastery of so many nursery rhymes. His world is about to change as a baby brother in due the end of March. His loving nature will certainly make him a good big brother.

On Friday I met with my clergy covenant group in Florence. We focus our gatherings on issues that are the emerging and facing the church of the 21st century. This time we tried to broaden our understanding of Islam, especially the similarities and differences with Christianity. Our discussion revealed that we are woefully ignorant of how Islam is making a large impact on the world in a variety of ways. As always, this is good time spent with my collegues. We share and explore thoughts and concerns about our ministry in an open and honest manner. This is important to our continued understanding of our ministry.

As I traveled to the beach on Friday afternoon (with a large number of other folks) I realized that I was truly headed for home. There certainly was a sense of mercy and grace present as I turned into my driveway. God is good.

Valentine's Day

Instead of a Hallmark greeting, wouldn’t our proclamations of love be more authentic if we were directed by the classic words of Elizabeth Barrett Browning, “How do I love thee? Let me count the ways.”? That sounds romantic until I think about the reality of doing this and my sense of humor prevails when I remember some of our days past. So, my marriage is probably on safer ground if I don’t go in that direction and just say, “I love you, Ron.”

Camps and Retreat Ministries

On Thursday, I traveled to Columbia to attend a meeting convened by the Board of Camps and Retreat Ministries of the SC Conference to share future plans for our facilities, Sewee Coastal Retreat Center and Asbury Hills Camp and Retreat Center. In recent years, these sites have been upgraded and their programs enhanced. Also, our annual conference has established a board of trust that gives direction to this ministry. The board now feels it is time to move forward with the long held vision of many that these sites be made appropriate for use throughout the year. This first stage comes with a 3 million dollar price tag and thus the real focus of our gathering. I wish that I could write that check, but I can offer support for the cause through personal reflection.

My relationship with and appreciation of Asbury Hills began in 1981 when our older son attended camp for the first time. As he connects the dots in his journey, he knows this was a key event. Not only did he return for camp, but later as a counselor. His love of the hills and streams of the Upstate was firmly established and continuing friendships made. The richness of this experience certainly gave understanding to his growing faith. His younger brother enjoyed camping at Asbury Hills, also. Through confirmation and youth retreats I know what a great place this can be, especially for those who have never known the exhilaration of creek hiking in early spring and climbing rugged terrain. These challenges seem to open young hearts and minds to new possibilities for believing and knowing their God.

It is not only the setting, but also the style of camping that makes Asbury Hills special. While many camps now operate like a school by having a variety of activities from which the camper creates his/her own schedule, Asbury Hill’s philosophy is still that of the small group. Building community, living in relationship with one another, cooperating in daily tasks are much needed skills in our fragmented and isolated society. In this setting, meaningful friendships are made that continue into the year ahead and the young adult leaders still serve as important role models for the campers.

Sewee offers a wonderful retreat setting for families and small groups. It is the hope that this site can be enhanced so that larger groups can use it and that a wetlands boardwalk and observation deck system can be built.

Many very dedicated United Methodists have worked long and hard to create and preserve our camp and retreat ministry. Today, we have a visionary board that is asking us to support this ministry into the future. I am impressed by their commitment to this and the business plan they have developed and will be a voice of support. SC Methodism needs this ministry.

Cartoons and Other Headlines

The cartoon issue in the Muslim world has left me concerned and confused. I have read and heard all sorts of thoughts about this matter and still can't fully comprehend the scope of this situation. However, I think this article from the Christian Science Monitor is helpful.

Through the life and death of Betty Friedan we face an issue that many would still like to ignore, equal rights for woman. I remember reading The Feminine Mystique while in college and thinking that things must change. And, change they did in the subsequent years. Although the struggles have not always been embraced by our society, we now know that women have more rights and privileges than ever before in this country. In most situations, we can now claim and define who we are. For me, I have felt that I have been able to fulfill what my great-grandmother and grandmother started as suffragettes. However, I am sure that they never really thought that their granddaughter would be ordained as a clergyperson.

Bono won a whole bunch of Grammys this week for his music. That's nice. However, I was more interested in his speech at the National Prayer Breakfast. Although his theology could be argued, his heart cannot be disputed. It is certainly refreshing to have a celebrity use his name and fame for a good cause. AIDS and Africa cannot be ignored.

A Good Listener

While rummaging through my desk I found some notes taken at a long forgotten conference. However, these thoughts are timeless. Not only do I wish that I would adhere to them, but also think that they could be helpful to others. So as a reminder to all, I offer the following:

You can be a good listener if you...
-limit your own talking.
-think like the other person.
-ask questions.
-don't interrupt unless it is necessary.
-concentrate on what's being said.
-take notes.
-listen for ideas...not just words.
-add an occasional "Yes, I see."
-turn off your own worries.
-prepare in advance.
-react to ideas...not the person.
-don't jump to conclusions.
-listen for tone of voice, both yours and theirs.


P.S. - In thinking about these notes, it seems that I could apply them to my prayer life, also.

Each New Day

Recently, I read these words from Martin Luther's Small Catechism: "In the morning, as soon as you get out of bed, you are to make the sign of the holy cross and say: 'God the Father, Son, and Holy Spirit watch over me. Amen.' " Further directions follow: say the Apostles Creed, pray the Lord's Prayer. ...Then "you are to go to your work joyfully." Through these words and action Luther recognized and affirmed his baptism daily. What if we did this daily? Certainly the weight of yesterday's wrongs and the burdens of tomorrow's worries would turn into a gift of grace and peace for today. Just a thought.

Happy Anniversary

“Love is patient; love is kind…” Thirty-nine years ago Ron and I were married in my home church in Ohio. Surrounded by family and friends we confidently promised to love one another through all our years. Little did we know how those vows could be tested by life’s circumstances. However, we have shared each other’s joys, wept each other’s tears and persevered when we were not of one mind. So we celebrate today assured that we will love each other’s aches, pains, gray hair and idiosyncrasies into our tomorrows. Today, we will also know a reward of this faithfulness…our grandchildren. A quick trip to Columbia will allow us to enjoy a few minutes of grandparenting together.

“And now faith, hope, and love abide; these three; and the greatest of these is love.”
I Corinthians 13:13.

Bonhoeffer

Just noticed that on Monday, February 6 at 10 pm, PBS will air a program about Dietrich Bonhoeffer. The life and writings of this German theologian captivate me. His book, The Cost of Discipleship, has given Christianity important understanding of grace as revealed in his thoughts about cheap and costly grace. His life as a martyr in Germany during World War II is inspirational. Recently, one of our Sunday morning short studies was The Cost of Discipleship. I am so pleased that these folks were willing to undertake what most people find to be an arduous task. Their Christian education has been enhanced by doing so.

UMW Reading Program

I enjoy participating in the UMW Reading Program as it introduces me to a variety of writings about issues that relate to Christian living. These books often provide new thoughts and insights, some with which I agree and some of which I don’t. However, I always feel that I have expanded my horizons by reading them.

I have just finished The Haunt of Grace by Ted Loder. Although this is a collection of sermons, Loder names them "responses to the haunt of grace, the mystery of God's presence in our world and our lives." He interprets Scripture in an imaginative and challenging way. Each response is based on "real life" situations that run head-on into God. In addition to his well phrased words, he weaves into his writing wonderful quotes from a rich variety of sources. I have enjoyed reading his responses one at a time and allowing a period for reflection before reading this next one. The response, "New Rules of Engagement", reminded me of how often we "are reluctant to engage Jesus. We seem to prefer a more abstract, removed God." We are afraid to trust Jesus to save us from our sins and lead us into a new way of life. It is through God's grace we turn toward the light.

Friends

"Faithful friends are a sturdy shelter; whoever finds one has found a treasure." Sirach 6:14

As part of our Upstate visit this weekend to celebrate Annaka (3) and Jack's (1) birthday, we included reconnecting with important friends out of our past. Ron met Bill forty years ago when Ron began work at NCR in Dayton, Ohio. This made Lois and me part of the NCR family and over the years we shared life's experiences through several moves. Lois was like a mother, or at least an aunt, during my young mother days and her words of wisdom were always welcome. Bill was very encouraging to Ron during his NCR career and we needed to check on him for he is now alone. What a wonderful time we had remembering days gone by.

We also visited with Gene and Shirley, former neighbors in Lexington, who now live in Greenville. Their children and ours are of similar ages and enjoyed many hours playing together, especially Dan and Michael. I am sure these avid Clemson fans influenced Robert's choice of schools. I have always admired their commitment to family including quite a wide circle of extended family. What fun to talk about weddings, grandchildren, and Clemson.

Time spent with family and friends is truly a reminder of what is really important in our lives.

"Faithful friends are beyond price; no amount can balance their worth."
Sirach 6:15

Snowbirds and Seagulls

Our Snowbird and Seagull ministry is in full swing. Yesterday, the Festive Brass provided a wonderful concert for a full sanctuary. Over one hundred played golf on Tuesday. Day trips are also an important part of this experience for many. Some even visit the Mousepad. For us it is a continuing delight to meet folks from a wide variety of places and to learn their stories. Ron and I talked with a couple that are about ready to leave for this year, but told us that next year they are coming for three months just because of our church. After several years of boring stays, this year they discovered the sense of community that they had been missing. They not only have enjoyed our Snowbird program, but also our worship services on Sunday and Monday. They feel connected to life in Myrtle Beach. What a good word about this ministry! Thanks, Big Tom and friends for making this happen.

A Snow Day

I need a snow day. I mean the kind of day that I hold in the good memories department. An image of white fluffy snow falling, the fireplace glowing, soup simmering and something baking has been coming to mind lately…even when it has been 70 degrees. Why? It is a day of rest and relaxation without guilt. Read a book, do a crossword puzzle and take a nap are important elements of honoring this day. Family members become reconnected through board games and story time. When one lives in Myrtle Beach these days are infrequent. However, when it does snow one can almost be assured that it will melt by the next day. For most of us, one day is enough. I wonder can I just declare a snow day?

E-Christian Ed

This has been a busy week. A week filled with the unexpected and one that has reminded me that God is in charge, not me. However, today was the reminder of why I do what I do. I had my face to face meeting of the Basic II: Foundations for Christian Education class that is part of the Columbia College e-college. As the teaching assistant for this class, I grade the work and offer guidance on-line to the students. It is a unique opportunity to pass the torch to others who will shape Christian education in the future. In doing so I am reminded of the importance of the foundation that Christian education provides for congregations and Christian living. It was exciting to talk with the students about this and I look forward to working with them in the weeks ahead. I truly feel that I am called to be in a ministry that helps others learn the story of God's love and this is one way that I can fulfill that call.

Leadership

As I prepared to give the devotion for the Marion District Job Function Workshop this past Sunday, I let my thoughts percolate for several weeks about what it means to be a leader within the church. As a deacon, I always identify this as servant leadership as known through Luke 22:26-27:

26But not so with you; rather the greatest among you must become like the youngest, and the leader like one who serves. 27For who is greater, the one who is at the table or the one who serves? Is it not the one at the table? But I am among you as one who serves.

To be a leader in the community of God demands that we are motivated by love and service, not power. Servant leaders share information and ideas freely and empower others to succeed and receive credit. Servant leaders are able and willing to play any role that is needed. Servant leaders understand that there are many right ways to do right things. They keep their attention on the larger vision, and resist the urge to control every little detail. According to Max De Pree, "Leaders in a special way, are liable for what happens in the future, rather than what is happening day to day."

MLK Birthday

I am pleased to see that Bishop Woodie White has continued his tradition of writing a letter to Martin Luther King, Jr. in observance of Dr. King's birthday. Not only is it a reflection on King's life, but on the current status of race relations during the past year. This year's letter focuses on Rosa Parks and provides interesting reading.

My memories of the events that surrounded King's life were formed in a different place and way than most of my South Carolina friends. I viewed the civil rights movement through another lens. One of my faith heroes, the late Rev. McKay Brabham whose writings and actions in the 1960s caused quite a stir within S.C. Methodism, has since helped me understand better some of the dynamics present during this time. In his later years I had the opportunity to visit with him on a number of occasions and hear about the pain and agony of those days. The joy of this experience was realizing that I was in the company of a man that knew what it meant, and was not afraid, to be faithful to God. Racial matters continue. May strong voices like Martin Luther King, Jr. and A. McKay Brabham still speak to our minds and hearts.

The Parent's Journal

We awake each morning to the voices of NPR. On Saturday this means Bobbi Connor of The Parent’s Journal. Each week she interviews a parenting expert on a variety of topics. This morning the topics included: preschooler play, teen communication and a baby’s memory. This and most information shared is practical and well-documented. As a grandmother and a children’s advocate, I wish that more parents had the benefit of this program. But, 6 am on Saturday is a little early for tired moms and dads. However, I have discovered that much of the information and past interviews can be found on their website. This site also includes parenting tips, books and links. This program is a great resource and I encourage others to discover it.

One of my best resources on parenting is having a birthday today. His gentle wisdom has been important to our family for 86 years. How wonderful to discuss family matters with my dad today!

Prayer for 2006

Saw this prayer from the National Council of Churches and found it to offer important reflection. Periodically, I think that it would be a blessed encounter with God to create personal responses like this to the Lord's Prayer.

Coastal Samaritan Counseling Center

This evening we attended a retirement dinner for Bill Felder, Executive Director of the Coastal Samaritan Counseling Center. What a nice celebration of the important contribution Bill has made to the mental health of this community. Through his tireless efforts the counseling center has been able to provide care to anyone regardless of income. Bill's quiet, gentle demeanor allowed his clients to share their concerns feeling they were in the presence of a compassionate person. He truly has been fulfilling a call to ministry in this special way. The good news is that Bill will continue part-time as a counselor and fundraiser.

I am aware that we haven't always reminded our congregation of the Coastal Samaritan Counseling Center as I frequently find members that aren't aware of the center being housed in the Asbury Building and the availability of the services offered. It has been very important to me that I have had this resource when I encounter persons who have needed more counseling than I am qualified to provide. I am so pleased that my long time friend, Kathy Heustess, has been named the new executive director. Her special gifts will bring new dimensions to this important ministry. It is exciting to think about the future of the First UMC- Coastal Samaritan Counseling Center partnership.

Walking the Bible

Beginning last Wednesday, PBS is airing the three part series - Walking the Bible. As air time was prior to my arrival home and during the Rose Bowl game, I finally watched this (taped for me by my wonderful husband) today. I saw and heard Bruce Feiler, author of Walking the Bible, as he traveled through the lands of the Bible seeking the sites of the Bible's great stories. Beginning with Genesis, Feiler travels in the region of Mesopotamia finding that Bible roots itself in real time and place. Obviously, this becomes a spiritual journey for him as he documents this expedition with Jewish, Muslim, and Christian understanding and deeply connects with the land. He notes that the stories take on both a universal and personal meaning. For those of us who will probably never have the opportunity to take this journey, the photography reveals much to us. Parts two and three will air on January 11 and 18. Although the narration is a little stilted at times, I certainly will encourage others to watch this remarkable presentation.

Epiphany

Today is the Epiphany of the Lord. Eastern churches continue to empahzise Epiphany while Western churches emphasize Advent. For Western churches Christmas Day begins the twelve days of celebration of Christmas, and Epiphany is the twelfth day of that celebration marked by the visit of the wise men to the Christ Child.

"This [Epiphany] is a celebration of Christ being made known to the Gentiles. The story of the wise men, who came to worship the Christ child, is also part of the season. Jesus is the gift of salvation for all nations. Sharing the good news of Jesus with all people is an important focus during Epiphany. A central theme during Epiphany is God’s light overcoming the darkness of sin and evil. Symbols of light, stars, (star of Bethlehem), crowns, and gifts (wise men) are used during this time of the church year. The season is flexible in length due to the changing date of Easter each calender year."

Sacred Seasons by Brett Webb-Mitchell and Diane Archer

This celebration of the revelation of God’s light and power Christ (John 1:1-2:11) provides us with a theological understanding of Jesus and an opportunity to begin too understand what is fully revealed to us through the rest of the Christian Year. Perhaps we miss something significant by not observing this day in the lives of most United Methodist churches.

Literacy Tutoring

Last night I was reminded of one of my formative experiences from the distant past, literacy tutoring. I was in the Wesley Building attending to other matters, when I observed the efforts of the Horry County Literacy Council. About a dozen volunteers were working with 30-40 mostly Hispanic students as they trying to learn English. I am so glad that we offer our underutilized space for this most important work. However, I didn't see any of our members volunteering. Perhaps, we have not publicized this opportunity enough? It does seem that this would be one way we could be in ministry with this new segment of our community. Tutors do not have to speak a foreign language to teach ESL - English as a Second Language.

A number of years ago when we lived in Delaware, I volunteered as a literacy tutor. Some of this was done at a migrant camp in the evening. After 12-14 hour days in the fields, Haitians would meet us in an open shed lighted by a few bare bulbs. I was always impressed by their dedication to learning and their respect for the teachers. I certainly became aware of the issues that migrants faced during those years - the mid '70s - and found that I needed to be a voice for some of them. This kind of sensitizing experience helped me to understand the need to be the hands of Christ by reaching beyond the steeple in specific ministries. Later, I would know this to be part of the role of the deacon.

Let the Word Become Flesh

As the days of Christmas come to an end, the words of Howard Thurman –preacher, theologian, author and voice of all God’s people – come to mind.

When the song of the angels is still,
When the star in the sky is gone,
When the kings and princes are home,
When the shepherds are back with their flock,
The work of Christmas beings:
To find the lost,
To heal the broken,
To feed the hungry,
To release the prisoner,
To rebuild the nations,
To bring peace among brothers (and sisters),
To make music in the heart.

New Year's Eve

I can’t believe that 2005 is about to pass. I celebrate much of what has been and give thanks for God’s grace in those times that have been a challenge. In addition to the birth of a new grandchild, I have enjoyed two other new things in my life this year. Six months ago I began this blog. It has given me an opportunity to share information and some of my thoughts with friends, family and First Church members. This type of journaling has been an exercise in observing and responding to what is happening around me. In many ways, I have discovered it to be a spiritual discipline as it has nurtured my faith in real ways. Also, comments from others have given me further understanding of a variety of topics. The other new thing for me in 2005 has been regular workouts at Pepper Geddings with Ron at 6:00 am. This was inspired by elevated blood pressure and the threat of medication. The doctor and I are pleased with my efforts….120/70 without medication! Blogging and exercising will continue into 2006 and even another grandchild will be born in March.

Like most folks I know, I will begin the new year with strong resolve to be more disciplined in several areas of my life. With thoughts about keeping a neater desk and setting aside reading days, I look forward to this new beginning.

Trains

When Ron and I celebrated our first Christmas, we discovered that trains were important to our Christmas tradition. For Ron, this meant assembling an old Lionel train with a steam engine and a variety of cars under the Christmas tree. For me, it meant remembering train trips from Ohio to my grandparents in New York for some very special Christmas experiences. Although not theological, trains have become a symbol of Christmas in our home.

This year we have been able to carry forth this tradition. The old model train is entertaining our grandchildren. Although they did not travel by train, we are trying to make their Christmas an experience at our home one only grandparents can provide. In these few days, they have our patient attention and an extra dose of love. All of this is part of building what we hope are very special relationships….ones that don’t run off the track. May trains and what they have meant to us always be part of our Christmas.

There are some good directives to grandparenting through several sources. A Google search will reveal several including some good information from AARP. I also have enjoyed a book by Betty Cloyd about spiritual guidance by grandparents. This is available in our church library.

A Year Later

News coverage today reminds us of one year ago when the world was shocked by the loss of lives and the destruction caused by the tsunami that struck southeast Asia. It is good to know that the United Methodist Church continues to be present in the rebuilding of this area as evidenced by this report. The meditations that were written last year in response to this event are quite appropriate to use as prayer and reflection today. Through our faith we know that in life and death God's love and grace protect. May it be so for those who are rebuilding their lives.

Joy of Christmas

After a wonderful worship experience with an overflowing congregation, we enjoyed a fun filled day with the three grandchildren. Truly a Merry Christmas!

There's a Song in the Air

I need to sing and hear the songs of Christmas. My spirit longs to hear the words of joy, peace, love and hope. I enjoy joining with the confident voices that sing enthusiastically the familiar carols. I anticipate the eloquent choral presentations of this music. Emmanuel comes with compassion and joy. My prayer is that my heart be touched so deeply that all my days may be a part of the Holy.

Winter Solstice

For many during this season of joy, this shortest day is followed by the longest night when someone is missing from the family circle and there is an empty place at the table. The night is so very dark. This is the time we need to hear these words from Jesus: "I am the light of the world; anyone who follows me will not be walking in the dark but will have the light of life." John 8

Scarlett and Jane conducted A Service of Hope and Healing today for those who find themselves in this dark place. It was so helpful to those who attended. Some of the words of the closing hymn, Hymn of Promise were very comforting and lingering:

"...in the cold and snow of winter there's a spring that waits to be,
...there's a dawn in every darkness, bringing hope to you and me.
...from the past will come the future; what it holds, a mystery, unrevealed until its season, something God alone can see. "

Nativity Sets

One of the first things to be done as we prepare for Christmas at our home is to unpack the wooden nativity set that we have had since our sons were small boys. This small hand-carved olive wood set from the Holy Land always has a special place, one that allows little eyes to see and little hands to touch. (This year that means Annaka, William and Jack.) This simple crèche helps tell the story again and again. Just when we afraid that we know this birth story too well and its significance does not touch us as it usually has done in the past, this visual representation catches our attention. We watch little hearts and minds carefully play out the story and claim it as part of their faith story. We treasure such things in our hearts and know that God speaks to us still.

Over the years I have collected a variety of other nativity sets and enjoy displaying them during Advent. Most of them have little monetary value, but each one brings me to the manger in a special way. From crystal to tin, they remind me of the variety of people and faith experiences that have made my life richer and fuller. They offer hope that the Light will shine in darkness and the darkness will not overcome it. They proclaim that even now unto us a Child is born.

Shepherd's Child Party

These pictures tell the story. For five years children from the Myrtle Beach community have known what it means to experience the joy of Christmas through the generosity of folks at First UMC. Organized by Ron and Jackie, this party is one of several efforts of First UMC to reach out to children who need to know the love of God. Church members buy gifts and youth provide filled stockings to children selected by the Myrtle Beach school teachers and counselors. Yesterday, fifty children were treated to hamburgers, fries and lots of fun at Johnny Rockets at Broadway at the Beach. Then they arrived at First UMC to hear the real Christmas story as told by Big Tom and to meet Santa Claus who gave them their gifts. May each child remember that those who know Jesus Christ shared Christmas with them.

Christmas Cards

I am in my usual pre-Christmas tight spot. No Christmas cards have been sent and I really want to do it. I love to receive Christmas cards. I enjoy sending such cards. Both are such wonderful moments of remembering. As Hallmark reminds us, this act is an expression of caring. Of course, the cards I treasure the most are those that have a personal note or a picture. They renew that mutual understanding of our special relationship and say what is important to both of us. So it is time, the ritual of addressing, writing, stuffing, licking and stamping must begin for these relationships are too precious to ignore. I am blessed.

Claiming the Promise

“Where is the Promised One, the One who will save and heal?” Each day this question continues to be asked by those seeking a new way of life. Some have journeyed a long time, looking for Christ in many places but not finding him. They have never been shown Christ by one of his followers. They need the healing and hope and the peace of God.

God wants to live in and through us. In Matthew we are told that we are the light of the world. When we claim the name of Jesus in its fullness, we can offer a hope to the seekers we meet that will bring a healing and peace that only God can give. In this time of Advent, we sense that we are the children of the promise and reach out to others in a very intentional way. However, will this commitment to others continue into the new year?

Chronicles of Narnia

Can't wait to see Chronicles of Narnia, but events of the season are keeping me from it this weekend. However, I am assuming that I will see it as will many others in our church during the next few weeks. Thought it might be interesting to start the New Year with a discussion of this film. Youth and adults who have read or seen Chronicles of Narnia: The Lion, the Witch and the Wardrobe, are invited to share in a discussion about it on January 1 at 9:45 am in the Wesley Fellowship Hall. Lots of articles are being written to give insight into this movie including the United Methodist website. I already have a youth and an adult who are going to help lead our discussion. I am excited about the intergenerational possibilities for this session.

Christmas on Sunday

I have been reading/hearing that some of the mega churches are not having worship services on Sunday, Dec. 25th. Their large paid and volunteer staffs are not available for the worship productions that they have each week. Some others have said such decisions underscore the fact that such churches are being built by consumers and not by disciples. In this season of much discussion of bowing to a secular culture, the cynical would add this to the "holiday" debate. This event does give us some understanding of the emerging church as defined by these churches and their leadership.

Although I have been surprised at these Christmas worship decisions, I wonder if we (First UMC) are at a much different place? We have wrestled all year with this matter and have chosen like many churches to have only one service knowing many of our folk will be content to worship on Christmas Eve only. I don't know that there is a "right answer" for this dilemna, but I do know that it does ask some questions:

What is the role of Sunday worship?
When are we to lead and when are we to follow the secular world?
What kind of message does this send to non-churched?

Christmas Bible Quiz

I am enjoying leading JESUS IN THE GOSPELS this year. Although I feel fairly confident in my understanding of the Gospels, I find that I am a bit rusty on the details. Which story is in which Gospel? The who, what and when really are important parts of the message. When I share this Christmas quiz with others, I discover that I am not the only one who needs to periodically review the facts. Last week the Confirmation class took the challenge.

The biblical Christmas story appears only in Matthew 1:18-2:23 and Luke 2:1-21. Do you know the story? Try answering these questions:

1. Mary rode on what animal on the journey to Bethlehem?
2. How soon after they arrived in Bethlehem was born?
3. In what sort of building or cave was Jesus born?
4. What animals were gathered about the manger?
5. How many Wise Men brought their gifts to Jesus?
6. How did the star compare in brightness with other stars?
7. Did Joseph meet the Wise Men?
8. What was the name of the angel who appeared to Joseph in a dream?
9. Was Jesus born in the winter?
10. Why was the child called Jesus?

This quiz was originally in the Virginia United Methodist Advocate.



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Answers 1-9 are not found in either Gospel. Read the texts again and see what they do say.

10. He was called Jesus “for he will save his people from their sins” (Matthew 1:21)

In addition to re-reading the Bible, there are several websites and software programs that can help us learn/review Bible facts. This one is helping me remember the details.

Gentle Thought

In this season of reflection this quote has caught my attention:

"People are like stained - glass windows. They sparkle and shine when the sun is out, but when the darkness sets in, their true beauty is revealed only if there is a light from within."

Elisabeth Kubler-Ross

Hurricane Aid

As we continue to read about the restoration efforts in the aftermath of this year's hurricane season it is interesting to have folks in our midst who have experienced this firsthand. Recently, First UMC had mission teams that went to Florida and Mississippi. In this picture, Carolyn and Alicia are removing damaged drywall in preparation for rebuilding. Members of both of these teams want to continue these efforts and plan to return in the near future. This kind of ministry helps define who we are as a church. May we always reach out to the hurts of others whether in Myrtle Beach, the Gulf or any place that hope is needed.

Getting Ready for Christmas

For the past week I have ignored the boxes of Christmas decorations that have cluttered my home. Somehow I have not been able to get started decorating. Ron has put the lights in the windows and the outside decorations in place. As I arrive home each evening, I have enjoyed their welcome. But, I have procrastinated with my part of this annual task.

Then, I read the on-line Upper Room Advent Reflections for December 2 in which Elizabeth J. Canham writes:

"Let go!" says God. "That was then; this is now. Walk with me on the sacred ground of the present moment, and you will find me in some unexpected places."

With this came a moment of truth for me. When I unfold the tissue paper that protects precious ornaments, memories are also revealed. Wonderful memories of days gone by often give me an attack of melancholy and I yearn for past Christmases. From childhood days to those of Robert and Daniel, thoughts of events, places and people flood around me and I sometimes allow this to sadden me. Why? Perhaps this year’s Christmas will not offer the joy and hope as times past. Perhaps the story is so familiar that I can’t believe there is anything new to be told.

I believe in some ways waiting for Christmas seems always to call us into the soul's dark night and the heart's deep winter. It is a call to let go of what has been so that God can begin to prepare us to live in expectation and anticipation of today and tomorrow. Come, Lord Jesus!

World AIDS Day

A number of years ago when churches across the state were choosing to be in ministry with AIDS patients by forming care teams, I stepped out of my comfort zone and became a member of such a team. Needs of a patient were assessed and we tried to meet them in whatever way we could for what then would be a short period of time. We stood at the graves of several of our new friends and remembered their stories and knew that they had become part of us. So, it is with great interest and sadness that I read the news releases on this day. We have failed to be the leaders in addressing this health issue. We could have done so much more. This commentary from the General Board of Missions reminds us not to place blame, but to extend God's grace through our actions. I need to be on the "care team" once more for AIDS patients and their families.

Call to Discipleship

In the Gospels we read about the call of the first disciples. Jesus was walking by the Sea of Galilee and he saw Simon and Andrew fishing. And he said to them, "Follow me." Immediately they left their nets and followed him. Then, he saw James and John, and he called them. Immediately they followed him. They heard his voice; they responded; they followed.

The call doesn't always come to us so clearly. At times it is hidden, quiet, appearing only through nudges and circumstances. Either way, though, the call does come today as it did to The Twelve. Today, I talked with one who is sensing a real call, but is uncertain what this means. How exciting to know that we are calling forth disciples. However, what a responsibility to help define that call! One suggestion that I would offer is to read and meditate on a little book called Let Your Life Speak.

The old Quaker adage, "Let your life speak," is used by author Parker J. Palmer as the title of an important book about claiming one's true vocation. Palmer understands that learning to let his life speak means "living the life that wants to live in me." It involves creating the kind of quiet, trusting conditions that allow a soul to speak its truth. It reminds us that we walk a path of hope and understanding of what will be. What great words of encouragement!

Welcome to the Inn

As I walked into our beautifully decorated sanctuary today, I whispered a prayer asking God to make this church not just a showplace, but a refuge, a true sanctuary where all might find welcome. May the stranger, the unwanted, the alone enter in and see the light. Then, we will truly welcome the Christ Child.

Advent

Today the journey through Advent begins. The voice of John the Baptist echoes the Prophet Isaiah, "Prepare the way; make straight the path." The invitation to take the first steps was there on the screen when I opened by e-mail this morning. The seasonal devotion from Upper Room was posted. It seemed to say wake up and get started. Although I had planned for this for months, helped decorate the church, written a prayer for today's worship, and prepared a confirmation lesson on Advent, I was not ready to let go of what is and to discover once again what the walk toward the manger will mean to me this year. As this first day comes to an end, a sense of expectancy is beginning to seep into my soul as I ponder and reflect on the road to be taken. As a sojourner in faith, I know that I never travel alone. For the promise is that God is among us, God is with us, God is for us.

Note: Information about subscribing to the seasonal devotion from Upper Room is near the bottom of their page.

Thanksgiving

Thanksgiving took on a special meaning for many of us this year as our friend, Joey Park, came home this week from a two month hospital stay that included a liver transplant and lots of ups and downs along the way. Joey, Jackie, Lauren and Elliot have inspired us in our times of fear and concern for them with their abiding faith in an ever present God through the love of Jesus Christ.

Equally heartwarming has been the response of Joey and Jackie’s Sunday school class, New Horizons. These caring persons have chosen to be the heart, hands, and feet of Jesus as they sought to help their friends. Today, the Parks sent the class the following message:

Can't wait to see each of you in person but wanted you to know in the meantime how grateful we are to you for your continuous support over the past 2 months. You have been with us 24-7 over 100 miles away. All that you have done has been a witness to hundreds of people-believe me, everyone that I met during this time knows all about NEW HORIZONS!! It is impossible to relay the impact each of you has had on us. We felt you living out the scripture of Jesus sharing how if you cared for the "least of these", you are caring for Christ himself....and you have done it over and over and over. We are humbled to be a part of you. How vividly the parable of the talents has been shown to us over and over-each of you has so many talents and you have used them to care for each and every thing that we have needed..... I hope that you have heard the whispers of "well done, good and faithful servant"-it should be resounding in each of your ears, just as His voice has promised to be with our family.

We love each of you so much and look forward to the day we can be back at church with you.....have a blessed Thanksgiving with your families and thanks for being our FAMILY!!!

We love you!
Jackie, Joey, Lauren and Elliot .

This is ministry as it should be known through Sunday school classes and other small groups. What a blessing we have known this Thanksgiving!

UMW Assembly

I have been reading about the UMW Assembly that will be held in May. It reminds me of those that I attended a long time ago in Louisville and Philadelphia. How very special they were. They helped shape a young mother's understanding of how the church can really be a teacher and voice of social justice. I sensed that I was reclaiming the stories of women in my family who were suffragettes and social activists. Through these bus trip adventures, I met women who continue to be very important in my life. These events certainly are part of my call to ministry. It is my prayer that we could make it possible for a young woman in our midst to attend this event in May.

Dinner guests

Recently, I was asked that if I could invite three persons to dinner who might they be? What a difficult question! Tonight, I would like to have a nice roast beef dinner and invite Abraham Lincoln, Wendell Berry, and my grandmother. Why? I could come up with all sorts of explanations, but perhaps a trinitarian response is quite appropriate. A. Lincoln was a redeemer, W. Berry's writings focus on creation, and my grandmother continues to sustain me. To listen, discuss and learn from this experience would truly prepare me for Holy Communion.

I wonder who others would like to invite to their table?

Christ the King Sunday

The liturgical calendar says today is Christ the King Sunday, the last Sunday in the church year. We have completed the journey through the life of Jesus Christ. We recognize and worship Christ as king of heaven and earth for all time. However, this king terminology can be bothersome as the 21st century view of a king is not very positive. I read a blog that said perhaps the politically correct version should be the "Culture of Christ" Sunday. Interesting.

Podcasting

Just when I thought that I was being techno savvy with this blog, I learn about podcasting. To me this means a type of audio on-line broadcast. Podcasts can be downloaded to an iPod, mp3 player or CD. I have been traveling with Rick Steves and having breakfast with Father Roderick in a variety of settings. NPR has a number of interesting podcasts, also. All of this is done when I want to listen and not when it is broadcast. Many church websites are now including podcasts as an option for hearing sermons. This means taking the Word into the world in a very real way. Sermons can be heard while jogging, ironing, raking leaves or whenever one wants or needs one.

I am not ready(yet) to do podcasting. But, I am ready to explore what this means to the way we do ministry. I am amazed at the number of churches that have technology specialists on their staffs. With effective use of the wide variety of technologies available to us, it is exciting to think of the possibilities in reaching out to those seeking to know and claim a faith in God through Jesus Christ. I have heard it said that "technology is the campfire around which we tell our stories."

Building Congregational Strength

We traditionally look to the New Year with optimism and the hope of new beginnings. As a church leader, I read and study as to ways that I can support this thinking and make things happen. I continually find good on-line resources that are helpful in my ministry. Of course, I also find a number that are questionable. Careful evaluation of a web site is always important.

From the Lewis Center for Church Leadership I have found the following downloadable resources for building congregational strength:

50 Ways to Build Strength Caring for Children
50 Ways to Build Strength in Participation
50 Ways to Build Strength in Welcoming New Members

I think that these would be very valuable for us to study.

Too Close to the Edge

I like the story of the little boy who fell out of bed. When his Mom asked him what happened, he answered, " I don't know. I guess I stayed too close to where I got in." It is easy to do the same with our faith. It is tempting just to stay where we got in and never move. Yet, that would seem to be a bit risky. I find that those in this position discover that their prayer life is not intentional. All at once they realize that their participation in the life of the church is marginal and that they do not know the joy of sharing their gifts in a regular and intentional way. They are in danger of falling from faithful living. One of the challenges of my ministry is to help folks like this to move to the center where they can explore...even toss and turn at times...and to claim their faith without falling off the edge. Some days this is exciting and other days this is frustrating. Lead us all into a place of trusting and living in your Word, O God.

Sign Language

When I was at Lutheran Seminary I would spend many hours a week intellectualizing God often to the point of losing the experience of faith. However, one semester I took a sign language class. Although I thought that this would be to help others to know God, I learned that it stirred feelings and thoughts that allowed me to experience God in a most meaningful way. The religious signs are iconic. That is, they resemble some aspect or character or the object they represent. An example would be one of the signs for Jesus is pointing to the palm of the hands for the nails. All at once there is an understanding that transcends the moment. This is the faith that I am called to share with others. And, to worship as the hearing impaired, I must keep my eyes wide open and fixed on others. It is only when I see the signs that I know how to lead a faithful life. I often think that this was one of the more valuable classes that I had at LTSS.

Board of Ministry

Thank God, it’s Friday! I do give thanks for this week and what it has been, but I am also glad that it is coming to an end. In addition to a variety of other responsibilities, I attended both District and Conference Board of Ministry meetings. At both meetings we interviewed persons who have answered the call to ministry and are at varying points of the process leading to ordination. At the District meeting we are also responsible for continued oversight for those who serve as local pastors*. I admit to my state of tiredness.

Why do I do this? I feel that it is part of my ordination. I feel that those who have been chosen are to pass the mantle to others and this is to been done prayerfully and carefully. It has long been the tradition of the church that this discernment is done through questioning. Listening for God in this process becomes the challenge as human tendancies of legalism and self-righteousness often surface in our decision making. It is joy when we encounter someone that truly seems to be truly answering a call and is able to articulate all the facets of ministry. However, there are those to whom God has placed a special call on their lives, but to be a clergy person is not part of it. Offering guidance and compassion in these situations is to fulfill our obligation as board members. After six years on this board, I believe that I have good insight into this task and am thankful to be able to serve the church in this way. May God always be my guide.

*Local Pastor - A licensed pastor, approved annually by the district committee on ordained ministry who is authorized to perform all the duties of an ordained minister, including the Sacraments, while assigned to a particular charge under the supervision of a district superintendent. A clergy mentor oversees the local pastor's work in the Course of Study for ordained ministry and advises on matters of pastoral responsibility.

Thought for the Day

My husband, Ron, delights in finding thought provoking quotes and using them in his signature line on his e-mails. I find this one by Wayne Gretzky to be directive when we do planning for the future.

"Most players skate to where the puck is. But I skate to where the puck is going to be."

A Cloud of Witnesses

As we incorporated several themes within our worship yesterday, I observed that faithful Christian stewardship is a discipline of spirit and action...prayers, projects, practice, doing, being. Those who have chosen to walk this path are the true saints among us. They are the ones who surround and encourage us and lead us into the future.

"For all that has been--Thanks!
For all that will be--Yes!"
Dag Hammarskjold

A New Thing

My office has been in a chaotic state for several weeks as a new space for a program assistant is being created. Finding books and resources in boxes isn't fun and everything is covered with a fine dust. The good part of all of this is that I am finding interesting things. Yesterday, I found some undocumented notes that were thought-provoking. Included was the following:

Lovett Weems* says that the task of leaders is not to resolve conflict through victory for one side or compromise for the other, but to watch for God's new creation to emerge. Often a third alternative becomes the "new thing" God is doing in our midst.

As church leaders we often strive for the former and not allow the latter to happen. However, when we patiently let the process of hearing God's Spirit speak to us exciting new life seems to follow. Give us the vision to listen as we move through what Ken identifies as transitional time in the life of this congregation.

*Dr. Lovett Weems is past president of St. Paul School of Theology and now serves as the Director of the Lewis Center for Church Leadership and Distinquished Professor at Wesley Seminary. Both are United Methodist seminaries. I have read several of his books and been fortuate to hear him speak several times about church leadership.

Charge Conference

As we prepared to gather for our annual charge conference on Tuesday evening, I once again realized that our members really don't understand the meaning of a charge conference. Briefly, this basic governing body of each United Methodist church is composed of all members of the Administrative Board or Council and must meet at least once a year. This yearly meeting reviews and evaluates the ministry of the church, sets salaries for the pastor and staff, elects lay leadership for the coming year and recommends candidates for ordained ministry. The District Superintendent usually presides. To me one of the more important aspects of this conference is that it reminds us of our Wesleyan heritage and connects us with the greater United Methodist Church as we follow certain requirements of THE DISCIPLINE. Congregations are held accountable to one another. Next year, I need to offer more explanation to the congregation about the purpose and importance of a charge conference.

Our District Superintendent, Rev. Quay Adams, presided at this year’s charge conference. He asked us two questions that should serve as an evaluative guide to our current and future ministry.

“What are you doing to make disciples of Jesus Christ?”
“What are you doing uniquely?”

These are certainly good questions to keep before us as we plan and do in the coming year.

John Wesley

For the past few years five days a week, I have been reading an e-mail message from Conrad Archer, a United Methodist clergy person from Texas, about John Wesley. He has offered insight into Mr. Wesley by quoting short passages from Wesley's extensive writings in a chronological order. Today is the last regular offering of Days of Wesley. I have found the following to be a good summary by Rev. Archer of what we have gleaned and worth pondering.

The Character of the Man: John Wesley

John Wesley was one of the finest Christians this side of Saint Paul. He was not a great philosophical theologian; but very few could claim to outrank him in terms of practical theology. We see him fully enmeshed in the culture of 18th century England; yet, his life-style could easily be adapted to any time, any location.

He lived in a time colored by beliefs in supernatural entities, e.g. witches, ghosts and demons; but his rational thought would not allow him to be detracted from a positive spirituality. In an age of predominantly deistic thought, he unwaveringly perceived the active intervention of God in all aspects of human life. He was among the most active evangelists of all ages, yet his focus was on spiritual growth into holiness.

His thirst for knowledge pushed him into being among the most learned men of his age, yet he balanced his vast knowledge with an always present quest for vital piety. He was totally dedicated, for all his life, to the proposition that each Christian should strive for, and could achieve, having the mind of Christ within. Few scholars could claim to have read more works of history, medicine, literature, science, etc. But, no man of his time knew and used the contents of the Holy Bible more than he did.

He was a proper English gentleman, yet he strode out into the middle of pastures, drawing thousands of listeners to hear him preach. Often standing on city streets, he would break into a psalm, singing until a small crowd had gathered. Then he would begin his sermon.

When his people were sick and no doctor was available, he treated their illnesses with practical remedies. When banks would not loan money to the poor, he started a "credit union" to help the poor make their way. When hunger plagued the people, Wesley himself would walk the streets begging for resources to feed the impoverished.

Wesley was amazingly inclusive of people with different religious views; but, was exceedingly intolerant of people who argued about their beliefs. Contentiousness was a certain invitation to leave a society. Wesley's main concern was that his people would be holy people, filled with God's love. In 1746, in a preface to a collection of sermons, he wrote:

For how far is love, even with many wrong opinions, to be preferred before truth lf without love. We may die without the knowledge of many truths and yet be carried into Abraham's bosom. But if we do without love, what will knowledge avail?
John Wesley, WORKS (Bic Ed) 1, 107, 1746.

Conrad Archer

Issac J. Bailey

I regularly read Issac Bailey's column, A Different Perspective, in THE SUN NEWS. I don't always agree with what he says, but I always find it well written and thought provoking. So, when I read this morning that he is now writing a blog, A Different World, I immediately logged on and found a compelling interview of a visiting journalist about the genocide in Rwanda. Tonight, I revisited this blog to read the comments to it and was encouraged with the initial response. I think Mr. Bailey has given us a legitimate opportunity for thoughtful dialogue and I commend it to others to read.

A Place Called Home

As we return to South Carolina from a few days in Ohio, I have memories of one more journey to that place called home. Long ago I realized this not only means the geographical location, a farm near Jeffersonville, Ohio, but also a place in my heart. Both understandings have been very much part of this trip. From being with my sister and husband who are dealing with his serious illness to seeing my parents who are experiencing the realities of aging, it has been an opportunity to remember so many things that have been important to me through the years. I also have had the chance to do what family members can do best...hold one another close in time of trial. As the miles once again begin to separate us, I know that I am not really leaving home for it truly is a place in my heart.

Beckley, West Virginia

Ancient Future Worship

My niece, Carrie, sent me this article from the Washington Post.

In addition to experiencing some of this type of spirituality in recent years, I have heard and read about what Robert Webber identifies as ancient future worship. Other writers like Leonard Sweet write, "Our faith is ancient. Our faith is future. We're old-fashioned. We're new-fangled. We're orthodox. We're innovators. We're postmodern Christians." All of this seems to be part of what is now being called emerging worship. For some this may seem to be a disconnect with what they know to be worship. Others find it to be quite transparent as they look at what is happening within their worshipping communities. And, there are others who opine that this is the new Reformation. (Got to use the current pop words!)

It is interesting that today is Reformation Sunday. Wonder what Martin Luther would think of this?

The Way It Was

As a Minister of Education I work closely with those who have answered the call to youth ministry. Over the years I have had the pleasure of working with a variety of persons who each have brought unique gifts to the roles of youth director, teacher and counselor. I will admit there have been tense times when I have found myself caught between supporting these persons in their ministry and appeasing parents and other adult leadership who always have a better idea. These moments usually begin with phrases such as… “When we (or my kids) were teens, we had a strong youth program. We had fundraisers, went on retreats, had a great Sunday school and everyone in town thought our program was the best. So and so was the youth director then and we need someone just like him/her.” And the discontent begins…

Those days probably were wonderful, but I have come to realize we are only hurting our youth when we don’t make the effort to create a program that responds to the needs of this generation.. And, it is the youth and the youth leaders that can often give us the good insights for this. However, we fail to listen and keep on promoting our own thoughts and ideas. Before long youth directors leave in frustration and youth leave the church, because we haven’t provided spiritual fulfillment. All we have provided is lots of activity. Where in the Bible is it written that every youth group must take a ski trip? Our teens do not need more activities for the sake of having something to do. They lead a frantically busy life. But, many want to explore their spiritual life and to have opportunities to practice their faith in relationship with one another. Activities can be a tool for this. However, without a strategy or long term plan that allows teens to know the transforming love of God through Jesus Christ, our youth programs will disappear when “the way it was” becomes the theme for youth ministry. Let’s be open to new possibilities and offer our youth, youth leaders and teachers support in their efforts as they seek to create a youth ministry that nurtures faithful discipleship in today's world.

Festival of Faith

What a rich experience to hear the word proclaimed by Jan Brittain! Jan is an ordained United Methodist minister from Greensboro, NC. As an adopted daughter of this church, it is always like a homecoming when she is with us. During our Festival of Faith, she has challenged us “to keep the body of Christ healthy and fit in the world today.” Drawing on the book of Acts, Jan has reminded us that it is the power of the Holy Spirit that allows us to live in faithfulness as individuals and as a community of believers.

I have especially appreciated Jan’s understanding of Barnabas, Paul’s encourager, and the importance of such persons within the church. Her sermon has led me to remember those persons who have encouraged me to be more than I have known myself to be. What a gift they have given me! I trust it has been important to the church, the body of Christ, as well. From those who invited and encouraged me to serve the church in a variety of ways as a layperson to those who helped me hear the call to ordained ministry, I can name so many significant persons in my life. But, Jan’s message isn’t about what has been, but what must be for the body of Christ to be healthy today. So, how can I be a Barnabas to others?

Claiming the Land

When I saw the above picture, my heart melted. Our grandson, William, was visiting my Ohio home. For a few days he had an opportunity to sense his rich heritage of those who love the land. The land is the canvas for telling our family story and each one of us knows what it means when we say, “the farm”. We remember the stories of each generation that has lived on this land and how the land has shaped them. Some members have stayed and others have moved on to other places taking a bit of the land’s story with them.

The Bible is the story of God’s people with God’s land and its promise. The biblical saga of the promised land is echoed in other stories through the ages including the Owens family. Five generations on this piece of land have trusted the earth for fruitful harvest and have known the sense of joy of belonging to an ordered and bountiful creation. Like the wandering Israelites, we have held fast to the promise of the land through times of tribulation. The land is our past, our present, and our future.

Read-Aloud

We have recently added some good parenting resources in our church library including one that I enjoyed using when my sons were young. The Read-Aloud Handbook by Jim Trelease is now in its fifth edition and still contains wonderful information. The author writes not only about the importance of reading aloud, but also some of the do’s and don’ts. He also includes a listing of over 1500 books from wordless books to full-length novels to be read-aloud to children. Each listing has a brief description and recommended age-level.

Looking through The Read-Aloud Handbook certainly took me down memory lane. Authors such Margaret Wise Brown, E. B. White, and Dr. Suess were early favorites of my sons. I remember Dan laughing at Amelia Bedelia and Curious George. Rob loved James and the Giant Peach by Roald Dahl and Soup by Robert Newton Peck. Later, The Cay by Theodore Taylor and The Chronicles of Narnia by C.S. Lewis were at the top of the list of must-reads.

During our sons' elementary years, I especially liked the books by Katherine Paterson, Beverly Cleary, Betsy Byars and Judy Blume as their writings had a sensitivity to the issues important for us to discuss. Matters of life and death, friendship, family, justice, and heartache were often explored in a way that invited healthy conversation. It is interesting to note that our sons liked these books, also.

I don’t think I fully understood the importance of this time we spent reading. I was focused on doing the right thing so that they would be good readers and enjoy it. However, the parent-child relationship strengthened, the questions spawned, the imagination inspired, and the creativity nurtured were also important rewards. It certainly is part of sacred memory for me. May my grandchildren and all children share such rich moments.

Friendship

“Faithful friends are a sturdy shelter: whoever finds one has found a treasure.” Sirach 6:14 (also known as Ecclesiasticus in the Apocrypha of the Old Testament)

For the last few days we have enjoyed the company of long time friends, Bob and Patsy. We have supported one another through the joys and frustrations that are part of daily living for twenty years. So this time to share news, memories, and thoughts about the future is important to maintaining this special relationship. Each couple takes the term “friend” seriously and knows that we have to periodically renew the bonds that hold us together. We talk of our children, grandchildren and elderly parents. We compare books read and activities enjoyed. Both couples have relocated to new communities, established new relationships and are part of new churches. We have so many things to discuss. The men watch football and the women shop. We walk the beach and eat seafood. With the goodbye hugs, we know that our lives are richer because of this friendship. We have been blessed.

Tweens

Understanding and nurturing our preteens 9-13 years of age has become an important focus of our ministry at First Church. The current term for this age group is tweens. To help us in this effort, we have been most fortunate to engage Jim Williams to speak with us in March, 2006. Through his book, Parenting on Point and his DVD series, ProActive Parenting, Jim Williams helps parents and those who work with parents examine values and set priorities. Jim is a national parenting advocate and speaker and the director of Parent Education and Asset Development for STARS, a school-based program helping students make healthy lifestyle choices.

I am so excited that through a generous gift we will be able to offer this program about tweens to both parents and teachers March 3-4. We are striving to make this an offering to the community and to our conference, also. We have been blessed and are called to share that which will make a difference in our children's lives.

Parenting on Point is available in our church library.

Learning Partners

How wonderful to see our 5th graders and the Faith Connections class bridge the gap!(see previous post-Bridging the Gap) Together they visited the Mouse Pad and learned about Jacob and Esau through a variety of computer experiences. May these new friendships be important to all.

Children's Sabbath

This week we are joining many congregations, synagogues and mosques in remembering our call to meet the needs of children by being a part of the fourteenth annual National Observance of Children’s Sabbaths. The focus of this ecumenical and interfaith effort is “putting our faith into action to seek justice for children.” As I prepare the sermon for this Sunday, I am overwhelmed by the statistics of child poverty and neglect and am reminded of the following:

The Child’s Name is “Today”
We are guilty of many errors and faults
but our worst crime is abandoning the children,
neglecting the fountain of life.
many of the things we need can wait.
The child cannot.
Right now is the time bones are being formed.
blood is being made, senses are being developed.
To the child we cannot answer “Tomorrow.”
The child’s name is “Today.”
-Gabriela Mistral

Golden Calves

Recently, I have heard several sermons that referenced idols. Usually this word only reminds me of an image of a golden calf in the Old Testament. However, the repeated hearing of this word in a short period of time seemed like a sign for me to give idols more serious thought. Looking again at the scriptures, one finds that the people just don’t get it about idols. They keep making and worshiping idols again and again. This is a hot topic in the Bible.

Idols are still a hot topic. Our culture is as full of idols as Athens was in Paul’s day. We still have the idols of wealth, power, and success. Others may be objects of worship that are unique to our culture. In fact, this is probably not a good topic to explore during the collegiate football season. We can also acknowledge the idols of addictive substances, images of youth and beauty, status and material possessions. We believe somehow that what we can accumulate makes us who we are.

Moses discovered the uniqueness of God at the burning bush. God cannot be depicted or represented in any manner. Therefore, we constantly need to identify those things that have become idols in our lives and recommit ourselves to returning to the worship of God who said to Moses, "I am who I am." (Exodus 3:14). What is almost as amazing as our repeated idolatry is the fact that God always makes a way for us to return to God and accepts us when we come back.

Frederick Buechner

I am more familiar with Frederick Buechner's writings through their use within other person's works than his books. They always seem to be thought provoking. Today I saw the following quote:

"What is both Good and New about the Good News is that mad insistence that Jesus lives on among us not just as another haunting memory but as the outlandish, holy, and invisible power of God working, not just through the sacraments, but in countless hidden ways to make even slobs like us loving and whole beyond anything we could conceivably pull off by ourselves."

One of these days I am going to read more of Buechner's works in their entirety.

The Christian Century

For over one hundred years, The Christian Century has examined a variety of subjects not only theologically, but also politically and culturally. The by-lines of this non-denominational periodical have been ones of the some of the outstanding Christian writers of each generation. Now The Christian Century articles may be read on-line.

This week I discovered "The Burden of the Gospels" by one of my favorite authors, Wendall Berry, on The Chrisitan Century website. This was very timely as I am currently facilitating our Jesus in the Gospels study and am trying to read them with new eyes. I appreciate the challenge that Wendall Berry finds in the Gospels and agree that there is a mystery of life that the Gospels can only partially reveal, but that we "are highly priveleged to live our way into." When we take them seriously we try to answer the question that Berry asks: "How must we live and work so as not to be estranged from God's presence in his work and in all his creatures?" He writes of the complexity of this question and one that calls for many answers. I concur with his final statement - "May heaven guard us from those who think they already have the answers."

Comfort Food

I love the term “comfort food” and enjoy identifying certain foods as such. Some of those heading my list would include meatloaf and mashed potatoes and hearty vegetable soup and cornbread. Of course, homemade bread, ice cream and anything chocolate would also be included. I am not sure why I find so much comfort in such food, but I am sure it relates more to the power of memory than my taste buds.

The mention of these comfort foods evokes wonderful mental pictures. One is of my mother cooking and our family around the table in lively conversation. Another picture would be of me preparing these foods for Ron and two little boys in days past. Both pictures give me a sense of peace and security in a time when our world seems out of kilter. The resulting contentment inspires me not only to return to the kitchen, but also to be in relationship with others so that their memory of well-being will be fed.

The Power of Story

My twenty five years of living in South Carolina has given me a greater appreciation of storytelling. The ability to weave the events of daily living into captivating stories seems to have an omnipresence. This has made me aware of the power of story.

This power of story is everywhere around us. We are shaped by stories…family stories, cultural stories, biblical stories and their confluence. Some we choose and some choose us. They tell us where we come from, who we are. There are stories we must reject and new stories we must create. Our responsibility lies in our power to pass along or to forget the story. The challenge becomes which stories do we choose to keep alive? To whom do we need to tell them?

Spilled Apples

I recently enjoyed a conversation with Annaka, our granddaughter, about her apple picking experience. Not only was she excited about telling me that she had picked green apples, but also that the wagon had tipped over and all the apples went rolling down the hill. Of course, this had created a tearful time. However, she also wanted me to know that "the people helped me pick up the apples." It seemed to make quite an impression on her that others came to her rescue...strangers along the way. What a teachable moment she experienced through the thoughtfulness of others! May she remember this as she encounters the stranger in need of help. May this be a lesson for me as "spilled apples" cross my path.

Quote of the Day

From recent reading, I have pondered the following:

"Augustine said that you have to start your relationship with God all over from the beginning, every day. Yesterday's faith does not wait for you like a dog with your slippers and the morning paper in its mouth. You seek it, and in seeking it, you find it."

Anne Lamott
Plan B - Further Thoughts on Faith

Lord, keep me seeking what it means to live in you through Jesus Christ.

Responding to Children

I hope the responses to Bridging the Gap are being read. They have been affirming of our efforts to surround children with a community of support and love. As a people of faith we value our children and we recognize their importance to our church. They are not the future of the church, but the present reality. They have so much to share with and teach the adults who love them.

"Whoever welcomes one such child in my name welcomes me, and whoever welcomes me welcomes not me but the one who sent me." Mark 9:37

Bridging the Gap

In an effort to bridge the gap between our children and adult Sunday school classes, the Education Committee is asking that classes become learning partners. The Faith Connections class and the 5th grade class have already agreed to enter into this intentional relationship. Members from each class will become prayer partners. Occasionally, one class will visit the other and participate in an activity together. Sharing thoughts of faith with one another will be important. I am sure the ideas for this arrangement will multiply.

We know that we are to pass on the traditions of faith to the coming generation, but sometimes we need to remember that often "a little child shall lead" as we continually seek what it means for us to be God's children. I am excited about the possibilities of this effort to bridge the gap. Love and compassion springs from shared stories. The bridge between children and adults is often found to be in disrepair. This is a chance to rebuild it.

Mentors

As I prepare to meet with the confirmation class mentors, I remember those persons who have walked with me on my spiritual journey and helped me discern my relationship to God. As I began to know a call to ministry, it was wonderful to have someone hear me, to hear my heart, to hear my deepest longings…even those I dared not speak. This kind of faith mentoring occurred through interpersonal relationships that were guided by respect for and listening to one another. Each time I put on my robe I think of Fred and Dianna.

The role of mentor can be a challenging one. Mentors are called both to ask and answer the tough questions. Doubt and struggle are part of this journey. Recognition of the Holy Spirit as the true guide that leads us to understand our place in God’s world must be the foundation of the relationship. May each of those called to mentor our confirmands offer support and guidance that fuels faithful living.

DISCIPLE Bible Study,etc.

Our extended small group studies have each had their organizational meeting this week. DISCIPLE Bible Studies, Jesus in the Gospels and Companions in Christ are underway with seventy-seven persons participating. We are blessed to have members in our congregation engaged in these in-depth studies for it strengthens the Body of Christ. As one of the facilitators of these groups, I feel that I am very responsible for making this a good experience for all. However, from times past I know it has little to do with me. The power of the Holy Spirit among us is what makes this what it is. Through prayer and faithful study, we are guided into new insights and spiritual growth. We learn what it means to be a part of a community of God through Jesus Christ. How exciting!

Bible Sunday

As in the tradition of many churches, First UMC gives Bibles to her third grade students. It is a rite of passage, a new phase of the faith journey and a recognition of reading and readiness skills. After receiving their Bibles at the 8:30 am worship service, the children and their parents gathered in the Wesley Fellowship Hall for brunch. Learning was included during this time as parents guided their children in some planned activities that introduced them to their new Bibles.

Moments like Bible presentations have special meaning to me. In a very real way, they help me fulfill my responsibility to pass on the traditions of Christianity to the next generation. My resolve to teach the scriptures is renewed. May each of these children be guided and directed by this congregation in reading and understanding God's Holy Word.

Where Are We Going?

A reoccurring topic at First UMC is long range planning. Although there are several schools of thought about when this should be done, I think of that moment in Alice in Wonderland when Alice comes to a fork in the road and doesn’t know which way to turn. She asks the Cheshire Cat which road to take. He asks where she wants to go. She says she has no idea. He says that if you don’t know where you are going, it really doesn’t matter which road you take. The biblical version of that principle comes from Proverbs, which declares that “where there is no vision, the people perish” Proverbs 29:18

Another Perspective

I am finding the world of blogs to be very interesting. Some are senseless and trash and others are insightful and well-written. You may want to add Perspectives to your favorites. The Rev. Larry Hollen is the Chief Executive of United Methodist Communications and author of this blog. His latest blog is Compassion and the Grace of God.

Newpapers etc.

Karl Barth, one of the giants of Christian theology during the first half of the twentieth century, said that sermons should be written with a newspaper in one hand and the Bible in the other. I expand this thought from not only informing sermons, but also prayer and everyday living. As Christians, we know the value of living with the Bible in one hand, but the newspaper?

Newspapers and news magazines not only report the news, but also reflect the economic, social and cultural context of our lives. They point us to the concerns outside the walls of the church and inform us so that we can faithfully engage in these problems and issues. Although TV and radio accounts of news are compelling and informing, the written word allows us to imagine. And, as Albert Einstein said, “Imagination is more important than knowledge.” Imagination gives us the power to understand how we are to fit into God’s plan.

Just some thoughts as I reach for another cup of coffee and the current issue of Newsweek. Jonathan Alder’s story, “The Other America”, is a powerful reminder of whom I am called to be. I need to read it again.

Helping Children with Disaster and Grief

How can one explain the devastation of Katrina or the loss of a pet or loved one to a child? This is always a difficult situation for parent, teacher, pastor or anyone who loves the child. Mary Alice Gran, Director of Children's Ministries, has given us some good insights and resources on the General Board of Discipleship website.

I think that the most important advice found here and in other resources is to listen and to listen with the heart. It is also important not to use trite phrases that perpetuate a limited understanding of God. It's okay to say we don't understand, but we do know that God is with us.

Blessed Assurance

I keep thinking about one of my favorite books in recent years, Traveling Mercies by Anne Lamott. In it she tells of God's call in and through her life, a life of many valleys. She says: "Mine was a patchwork God sewn together from bits of rag and ribbon, Eastern and Western, pagan and Hebrew, everything but the kitchen sink and Jesus." And in her darkest hours she reaches out to a pastor in a nearby church and to whom she tells her story. She concludes by saying that she didn't think that God could love her. The pastor said, "God has to love you. That's God's job." She then asked - What does it mean to be saved? To which the pastor responded that she really didn't have to think about this, but she persisted and he said - "I guess it's like discovering you're on the shelf of a pawnshop, dusty and forgotten and maybe not worth very much. But Jesus comes in and tells the pawnbroker, ""I'll take her place on the shelf. Let her go outside again.' " Truly words of blessed assurance!

Miss Fults

Miss Helen Fults epitomizes the Sunday school teacher that all children should know. She taught in creative ways and lived her life as a faithful disciple everyday. Miss Fults was my second grade Sunday school teacher and second grade public school teacher in Jeffersonville, Ohio. Both classrooms were filled with interesting pictures and objects that invited one to enter into an enjoyable experience. With a smile on her face and a ready hug, she considered each day to be an adventure that would be as much hers as ours. She instilled within me the joy of reading by her unique (in those days) teaching methods. Each child was special and had special gifts in her classes and she made sure that all knew them. I saw her demonstrate the Sunday school lesson of God’s love each day of the week. What a blessing!

Wall of Honor

As I prepared the Sunday School Wall of Honor in the Wesley Building as part of our Christian Education celebration I noted several things-

• Special teachers come at any age and stage in our lives.
• Effective teachers are ones who shared their faith in a variety of ways...not just the Sunday morning lesson.
• These teachers affirmed us wherever we were on our faith journey.
• They listened and were obviously dedicated to their call to teach.

I hope others will read these stories and remember those teachers who have helped shape their faith. Perhaps, today each of us will take the time to thank these special persons.

Soul Feast

How can this be Thursday? It has been a whirlwind week. I have been juggling church responsibles and attending the S.C. School of Ministry at Springmaid Beach. As I race to and fro, many of the words of speaker, Marjorie Thompson, ring in my ears. Her book, Soul Feast, has long been one of my favorites about Christian spiritual life, so it has been a real treat to hear her soft voice invite us into a contemplative time. (This book is in our library).

Tidbits to ponder:
Why do we fail our spirituality? - Perhaps is is because we are impressed by work, find it to be a lack of priority, have a fear of facing the deep center.
Sabbath time - fallow time for overworked soil of our lives.
Contemplative time and space are vessels of vision.
Do less and be more.

Wendell Berry

In recent years I have discovered the writings of Wendell Berry. I savor his use of words and connect with his understanding of nature, family and community. The popular term "sense of place" defines much of his writing. Having a similar rural small town background, I can experience his stories and poetry in a very real way.

On this Labor Day I reflect on this offering of Mr. Berry.

Whatever is foreseen in joy
Must be lived out from day to day.
Vision held open in the dark
By our ten thousand days of work.
Harvest will fill the barn; for that
The hand must ache, the face must sweat.

And yet no leaf or grain is filled
By work of ours; the field is tilled
And left to grace. That we may reap,
Great work is done while we're asleep.

When we work well, a Sabbath mood
Rests on our day, and finds it good.

First UMC Hurricane Response

Little Child Shall Lead…
The children at First UMC want to help those whose lives have been destroyed by Katrina. With their families they will pack health kits that will be taken to Sager Brown Depot of the United Methodist Committee on Relief (UMCOR) in Baldwin, LA. All are invited to participate in this project.

A Health Kit contains specific items:

• 1 hand towel (15" x 25" up to 17" x 27")
• 1 wash cloth
• 1 comb (large and sturdy, not pocket-sized)
• 1 nail file or fingernail clippers (no emery boards or toenail clippers)
• 1 bath-size bar of soap (3 oz and up)
• 1 toothbrush (single brush only in original wrapper; no child-sized brushes)
• 1 large tube of toothpaste (4.5 or larger, expiration date must be 6 months or longer in advance of the date of shipment to Sager Brown)
• 6 adhesive plastic strip sterile bandages
  

All items should be placed inside a sealed one-gallon plastic bag. No money, notes, religious or political literature, or other items should be placed in the kits.

PLEASE FOLLOW THESE DIRECTIONS EXACTLY! These kits need to be at the church by Sunday, September 18th.

Youth Car Wash will be held Saturday, September 10 – 9 to 12 noon at McDonalds on Restaurant Row. Proceeds will go to UMCOR for hurricane relief.

Financial Aid offerings are being received for UMCOR. Make checks to First UMC and marked for UMCOR. All funds will go for relief and none will be spent on administration.

Volunteers needed. Early response teams will be trained and deployed in October, November and probably December. The deployment is for two weeks. All volunteers MUST be trained. Training will be held at College Place UMC, Columbia September 17 from 10:00 – 4 :00.

Help us to show the rainbow of your promise, O God, as we face the days ahead. Bless all who serve as the hands of Jesus. Amen.

Football Season is Here!

Today has long been anticipated in my home. The Ohio State Buckeyes played their first football game of the season. Daily evaluation of the team from website accounts has fueled enthusiasm for what certainly will be a good year. Or will it? Important questions like … “Will Ted Ginn shine?” “Is the running game ready?” have been asked regularly. Not by me, but the person that has shared my life for 38 years. My dear Ron is an avid fan. Nothing interferes with game time in our home.

Having grown up in Central Ohio, where Ohio State footfall was almost a religion. Woody Hayes was the icon and Saturday at the Horseshoe was nearly a holy time and place. Add the years spent as a student at OSU and Ron was hooked. I accept this fascination and have enjoyed my share of exciting games, also. And, I must say that in his maturity, he now accepts the occasional defeats with grace. I just don’t know when Jim Tressell is going to call Ron for advice for he has all the answers.

Today, I tried once more to put this obsession in perspective especially given the events of the past week. I really couldn’t find any great theological insight. However, I was glad to have the diversion and to see Ron enjoy a winning day. OSU - 34 Miami of Ohio - 14. Go, Bucks!

The Storm After the Storm

This op-ed piece by David Brooks appeared in yesterday's New York Times and today's Sun News. I found his historical reflection on past storms to be very interesting. I wonder what such accounts in the future will say about the aftermath of Katrina?

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Worst of Times, Best of Times

One cannot help but think of Mr. Dickens' words during these days. As I see the damage caused by Katrina and the human response to it, I am well aware of the worst of times. However, stories of those who are reaching out to save lives in a variety of ways, renew my spirit and give hope for the days ahead. But, I slowly realize it is up to me to make this the best of times. From prayer and financial aid to support of mission teams, I will help rebuild lives and communities. However,there is a complexity to this tragedy that also demands my response. That is, I am part of a culture whose people live poles apart. There is abject poverty and there is ridiculous opulence. Impatience and greed abound on all sides. Racist remarks are too frequent. Morals and values are twisted. And, faith seems only to be evident in a set apart life.

It is time for me to become a better student of the world around me. I need to read and listen to the voices that can help me more fully understand our culture. Perhaps it is time that I claimed my faith in a new and different way? Perhaps, I need to challenge others to journey with me?